There are so many things that happen in relationships that some women choose to be blind to. You see your man losing interest but choose to lie to yourself. When you get dumped, you cry and wet your pillows like life depends on it.
Don’t get me wrong, I am a sucker for love too but when you see you are about to get booted out, you should make it less painful for yourself by booting him out first.

These are the signs that will tell you when you about to get dumped.


1. He stops calling as often as before

When he is losing interest, this is one of the first signs. Maybe you guys spoke every day when the “fire was still burning.” But, all of a sudden, it drops to four times a week, then three, then two, then excuses. If this is happening, you are getting booted out little by little. Shine your eye.

2. He would rather spend time with his boys

Am I the only person who gets irritated when the guy you are dating always wants to hang with his “boys?” Meanwhile, on the other hand, more girls than not would prefer to spend quality time with their boyfriends than hang out with the “girls”. When he uses his boys as an excuse to be away from you, he might be losing interest.


3. He always makes excuses

Now, he has stopped calling frequently, and is always spending time with the boys. When he gets confronted, it is one excuse or the other. Once this starts happening, please see your way out of the relationship.

4. He is uninterested in things that matter to you

You should know the difference between when someone is hearing you and when they are listening. If he used to take ten steps to help you move forward, now he takes five steps back, be vigilant!

5. He stops making an effort

All your whining and nagging about him not returning your calls, or always at his boy’s house for him equals “blah blah blah!” He won’t bother to change your mind at this point. When he still loved you, just the fact that you were sad made him sad. But now he’s changed; if you are sad, it’s O.Y. O (on your own).


6. He stops visiting often

Obviously, if all these things mentioned above have reduced, the visits will definitely be affected. You always hung out with him all the time but now, it has become a chore for him to try to see you twice a week. This is also one of the most obvious signs.

7. He is now prone to mood swings

This second, he is happy and next second, he is not. He does not care how you feel anymore; he is irritated and gets upset at the little things you do. He is obviously trying to pass a message across that he is done. Be smart to read the signs.

If you ticked almost five and above out of these seven points, then do him a favour by leaving him. He probably wants to but is obviously a chicken about it so he messes with your head to frustrate you to break up with him. Ladies, be vigilant.

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*He talks to your friends more often than he talks to you, inorder to piss you off

Horse crap.... ....a bro can still do the opposite of this things and still show a girl the door when he wants to... no sign whatsoever....... and Vice versa.....

In a relationship, as far as there is no ring on the fingers, always get ready to be booted out ones you Bleep -up..... or not...... humans are very unpredictable...

I know I'm always ready.

Pinkiedearie:
*He talks to your friends more often than he talks to you, inorder to piss you off

he did that to you?

ok


*He loses interest in her puna.... That's most likely one of the major reasons why he wants her out of his life....When the dude gets too familiar with her vagina, his Libido lessens as far as her puna is concerned... He would rather fucck her ugly friend for 10 minutes, than have her to himself the whole weekend .... Point is, If he shows signs of disinterest in her body, he is most likely also tired of her presence in his life

Pinkiedearie:
*He talks to your friends more often than he talks to you, inorder to piss you off

That one is strange o

NinoBrown888:



he did that to you?

...lolzz....you follow me cum here abi?..them send you from my village ...?

Pinkiedearie:
...lolzz....you follow me cum here abi?..them send you from my village ...?

hahahahaha..

JeffreyJamez:
Horse crap.... ....a bro can still do the opposite of this things and still show a girl the door when he wants to... no sign whatsoever....... and Vice versa.....

In a relationship, as far as there is no ring on the fingers, always get ready to be booted out ones you Bleep -up..... or not...... humans are very unpredictable...

I know I'm always ready.

and me too

ArchEnemy:

That one is strange o

because Guys are strange too

suzzy16:
and me too

Good for you

JeffreyJamez:

Good for you

yeah

Let me park

heard all dis stuff a thousand and one times....yet most guys do d opposite

adorablevic:
heard all dis stuff a thousand and one times....yet most guys do d opposite

really ? *yimu*

agarawu23:
really ? *yimu*

mind ur business

Pinkiedearie:
because Guys are strange too

Only God knows what you ve seen

ArchEnemy:

Only God knows what you ve seen

lolSs...I've not seen anything jawe..