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Sincerely Need Your Help by promiseam: 9:44am On May 24, 2015
Hello all am new here and just have to start with this cos its urgent.

Am 29,,male,never been into any lationship before,infact I have only approached one girl in my life,she agreed,but can't even recall how it went.

Meet this new girl sometimes back,xchanged contacts,then i hanged out with her again about two months back,since then ,we have been talking on phone almost daily.Now I like this girl or better I cherish her and already told her I wish to see her today,which she didn't object.

I wish to go into relationship with her,but don't know how or what to to tell her.

Please I need your help in that regard,thanks
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 9:45am On May 24, 2015
29 shocked are you on spell ? embarassed

OK !!! I will advice you not to go straight to the point since you are new in the game or can you handle rejection? undecided

if yes, invite her to a lovely place, chat with her a little bit and make sure you are smiling. make a little jokes and let her know how beautiful she is. tell her how you feel about her and what you want from her, you are matured, so therefore speak your mind.

if No, don't rush asking her out, just try and spend a lot of time with her to be sure if she is into you cos ladies have different sign to show a guy they are in.
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by promiseam: 9:49am On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
:-<

Comment something reasonable plsss
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by missbehave247(m): 9:50am On May 24, 2015
undecided undecided shocked
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by echobee(f): 9:54am On May 24, 2015
Ops,
ur ingish can causing mis belle . Haba angry. Dont just breaking the screen of my fone angry
Honestly,ops u need brighter grammar angry
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 9:55am On May 24, 2015
echobee:
Ops,
ur ingish can causing mis belle . Haba angry. Dont just breaking the screen of my fone angry
Honestly,ops u need brighter grammer angry
keep shut!!!
birds of a feather

"grammar" not "grammer"
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by McEwen(m): 9:56am On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
keep shut!!!
grin grin

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Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by echobee(f): 9:59am On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
keep shut!!!
birds of a feather

"grammar" not "grammer"
Re u ok? angry. Dont trade words with people like u. Check my post,and stop fooling ur self.
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 10:00am On May 24, 2015
McEwen:

grin grin
the girl na mumu, the op is damn serious and she is here detecting errors.

so we shouldn't express our feelings cos we are scared of making errors in our post?
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by McEwen(m): 10:03am On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
the girl na mumu, the op is damn serious and she is here detecting errors.

so we shouldn't express our feelings cos we are scared of making errors in our post?
As in...I don't understand. don't mind the yeye geh
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 10:03am On May 24, 2015
echobee:

Re u ok? angry. Dont trade words with people like u. Check my post,and stop fooling ur self.
you edited your post after I corrected you.

you have no reasonable advice to give the op and you are making jest of his error undecided are your different from him? mumu embarassed
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by Nobody: 10:22am On May 24, 2015
echobee:
Ops,
ur ingish can causing mis belle . Haba angry. Dont just breaking the screen of my fone angry
Honestly,ops u need brighter grammar angry


pot calling kettle black.
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by ronald4lif(m): 10:41am On May 24, 2015
Is she attracted to you? That's the first thing to look out for. If she is then that will make your chase easier. Unlike the conventional practice of asking a girl out I'm for doing those things that could ignite love and make her feel engrossed into me. Don't ask her out 'like please be my girlfriend or date me etc'. Just simply assume she's saying yes. This to me shows that you're confident and you don't consider rejection as an option to her.

When you meet her, get to know her interest and general hobbies. Her family, friends, course or work experience. You can talk about movies, music, TV shows and the prevalent fuel scarcity and it untold hardship on Nigerians and crack jokes with the situation. Be calm, nice, just be yourself more-like.

I don't know how old is she but if she's young then you've to exhibit predominant and controlling attitude when you both meet. It's typical for young girls to be indecisive and rarely know what they want. For instance, you guys are in a restaurant and she keeps going through the menu and unable to make up her mind, you can just say okay try this meal it's great. Every woman cherish a man who can take a decision for her and knows exactly when to delve in to making those decisions.

Like you already know action speaks louder than words and personally to me like I said earlier asking a woman out is kinda obsolete. Just act right, keep wowing her and engage in actions that astound women generally. And yes, a lot of those activities involves money and you should be ready to part ways with some. You should know when she's into you, trust and feel very comfortable around you then you spontaneously lock lips with hers. There you have a relationship.

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Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by Nobody: 10:43am On May 24, 2015
promiseam:
Hello all am we here and just have to start with this cos its urgent.

Am 29,,male,never been in a relationship before,intact I have only approached one girl in myt life,she agreed,but can't even recall how it went.

Meet this new girl sometimes back,xchanged contacts,then meet hanged out with her again about two months back,since then ,we have been talking on phone almost daily.Now I like this girl or better I cherish her and already told her I wish to see her today,which she didn't object.

I wish to go intro relationship with her,but don't know how or what to to tell her.

Please I need your help in that regard,thanks

Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by Nobody: 11:30am On May 24, 2015
echobee:
Ops,
ur ingish can causing mis belle . Haba angry. Dont just breaking the screen of my fone angry
Honestly,ops u need brighter grammar angry
shoroniyen Miss English!....why must you find fault/s in what people do?....have u forgotten no one is perfect and self sufficient?...even the so called "English Professors" make mistakes...you can do him a favour by correcting his wrongs if the need be...it's not so healthy when u laugh at people just because of things like this!....Thanks
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by promiseam: 11:32am On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
29 shocked are you on spell ? embarassed

OK !!! I will advice you not to go straight to the point since you are new in the game or can you handle rejection? undecided

if yes, invite her to a lovely place, chat with her a little bit and make sure you are smiling. make a little jokes and let her know how beautiful she is. tell her how you feel about her and what you want from her, you are matured, so therefore speak your mind.

if No, don't rush asking her out, just try and spend a lot of time with her to be sure if she is into you cos ladies have different sign to show a guy they are in.

Hmmm

Am not under any spell,it was a decision I made earlier,but when I was ready I discovered it became a problem for me to approach girls.

As I said earlier, we have meet before and discussed generally ,she told me some things about herself--single and searching etc,though she didn't ask much about me,she knew where I work,so she only asked what I do there.

My intention is to invite her to my place today,is this out of place?
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 11:40am On May 24, 2015
promiseam:


Hmmm

Am not under any spell,it was a decision I made earlier,but when I was ready I discovered it became a problem for me to approach girls.

As I said earlier, we have meet before and discussed generally ,she told me some things about herself--single and searching etc,though she didn't ask much about me,she knew where I work,so she only asked what I do there.

My intention is to invite her to my place today,is this out of place?
yes! is a good decision. at least both of you will feel comfortable.

you just have to be bold enough to express your feelings. ladies aren't "lions" OK? try your luck and I believe you have a chance since the Lady is single.
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by ige101(m): 1:27pm On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
yes! is a good decision. at least both of you will feel comfortable.

you just have to be bold enough to express your feelings. ladies aren't "lions" OK? try your luck and I believe you have a chance since the Lady is single.


Good decision ke?
The moment she discover u are inviting her to your house,the thought of sexing her will run thru her mind,I advise you don't do that
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 1:43pm On May 24, 2015
ige101:


Good decision ke?
The moment she discover u are inviting her to your house,the thought of sexing her will run thru her mind,I advise you don't do that
the deal is sealed Already as you can hear from the op

The lady has agreed the invitation, so what are we saying again?

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Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by promiseam: 1:52pm On May 24, 2015
agarawu23:
the deal is sealed Already as you can hear from the op

The lady has agreed the invitation, so what are we saying again?

Yes she accepted the invitation,but I have not actually told her where we would meet,my intention is to direct her to my place.She nalreadynsaid I should give her a call when ready.
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by Nobody: 2:07pm On May 24, 2015
echobee:
Ops,
ur ingish can causing mis belle . Haba angry. Dont just breaking the screen of my fone angry
Honestly,ops u need brighter grammar angry
Seriously if I comment you will deactivate.
Re: Sincerely Need Your Help by agarawu23(m): 2:14pm On May 24, 2015
promiseam:


Yes she accepted the invitation,but I have not actually told her where we would meet,my intention is to direct her to my place.She nalreadynsaid I should give her a call when ready.
if that's the case, your place isn't the right place since its a first date.

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