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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Aida13: 7:18pm On May 25, 2015 |
gunners160: Notice you are the ONLY one choosing this interpretation. Does it make sense that way at all? Use your brain. Noone else can use it for you. 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 7:18pm On May 25, 2015 |
A guest is a guest and should be taken care of. She is a guest and should be looked after. If she lived there, then she could do some chores. When I have guest whether young or old or an in law, I host them appropriately. When people live with me, then they can do chores. Some men say they left/will leave a woman who does what the fiancee did. Women, these kind of men are men you should run away from unless you are of course one of these women who believe in becoming a cleaner for their in laws. When there are men who want to treat you like a partner, why settle for backward thinking men. 10 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by spicykev(f): 7:20pm On May 25, 2015 |
Yea, u are one Nigerian that has spoken her mind....I noticed most pple here are just following the crowd, some cannot sit down for a minute and analyze the whole story the guy has put up. its not only a woman's responsibility to ensure peace in a home, its a collective responsibility, ego is something that can reduce someone or deprive people of better opportunities, I have seen it happen.I am not a proponent of arrogance and will never be,am only analyzing a situation from my church mind( lol) all am saying is that there is a way the guy wld have managed the situation and no body wld hear a thing. He could have washed the plates and table his case before the brother properly, everybody wld be happy and he won't be told to leave.....wisdom is profitable to..... ugodean8485: 5 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by CaptPlanet(m): 7:20pm On May 25, 2015 |
She dey mad. The elder brother dey mad join. She be oil marketer? Abeg make she go wash that plate |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by wamenzy(f): 7:21pm On May 25, 2015 |
Wat she did is so wrong... It wud have bin a different tin if she finished eating and just begged d younger bro to help her....... But she must be very lazy.. How many seconds will it take her to wash d plates she used to eat..... D elder bro shud better stop supporting wat he knows is wrong..... Hope if he gets marid to her in future and she does not do huz chores he won't turn her to punching bag ohh..... If I was d younger bro I wud just give her... Her way and mind my business... Let d elder bro continue to wash plate... Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BabaOneChance: 7:21pm On May 25, 2015 |
RedBenson:Oga, hold on. Let's look at this ur story in a civil manner. 1. The fiance visited the house (she's a guest) 2. She was served a plate of food (courtesy from the host) 2. She ate up and left the plate unwashed before going home (any crime here??) 3. The elder brother engaged the younger one in a bitter quarrel over the "unwashed" plate the next morning! To me, this argument is totally baseless! The younger brother should be ashamed of himself. I would even expect him to take the plates away after the girl (fiance and guest) is done eating. So the washing of plate is not even supposed to raise a topic! 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 25, 2015 |
spicykev: By all ramifications, it's wrong, very very wrong for a lady to eat and leave the plate for an in-law, a male in-law for that matter to come wash the plate. Dont you have respect for men folks? If you try that, it means you can as well leave the plate you ate for your husband to come wash it while you cross your legs at the sitting room watching nollywood movie. If he agrees to do this, then the next you remind him of your undies that had been soaked for days and need to be washed and get dried. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BabaOneChance: 7:21pm On May 25, 2015 |
missKiffy:Please, read the story again |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:23pm On May 25, 2015 |
There are always 2 sides to every story. Am more concerned about the age of the lady in question. Personally if my younger brother who is well above the age of 25yrs refuses to do the dishes because my fiancee didn't do her own, I'll call that lady and give her proper orientation. Everyone should know their place in the scheme of things. Respect, is paramount in our culture, and we should not loose ourselves in other people's culture. If the younger brother were a teenager I would have used a stick to teach him good manners. My problem with ladies copying their western counterparts is that they will not be quick to claim 21st century when it comes to splitting the bills. Finally, no lady I repeat no lady comes into a house with two grown adults, bearing the tag 'fiancee' eats and doesn't do her dishes or the entire dishes for that matter, it's simple African etiquette. Even my spoilt brat of a sister can't try such. 5 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Beamborla(f): 7:23pm On May 25, 2015 |
It's really painful to see ladies coming here to scream 'wrong' yet they fail to see the kind of words our dear OP used on them. I'm trying seriously not to comment on the issue itself Very soon, the younger brother would tell the elder brother to call her to come clean their apartment for them on weekends. 6 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:24pm On May 25, 2015 |
njays24:You are blessed sister 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Sodams(m): 7:24pm On May 25, 2015 |
amokeme: I see. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:25pm On May 25, 2015 |
BabaOneChance: Does the word "fiancee" reflect a visitor? 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BabaOneChance: 7:26pm On May 25, 2015 |
RedBenson:She's a visitor as long as she's not living with them 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:26pm On May 25, 2015 |
amokeme: Hoe-kay 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 7:28pm On May 25, 2015 |
BabaOneChance: 3 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Aida13: 7:28pm On May 25, 2015 |
RedBenson: @gunners160 I helped highlight the section which will help you comprehend better. All the rest of us needed to figure out that in this case, there would be no reason for the senior to 'refuse to wash plates' in the first place. Does it sound normal for a Senior brother to have to 'refuse' anything as he's the one in authority? |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by peedeeasobie(m): 7:30pm On May 25, 2015 |
1. If she's just a visitor, I see nothing wrong in what she did. Someone that visits once in a while. 2. If its a habit, she comes, eats and dumps the plate for someone else to wash then something is wrong with her. 3. I believe she is called 'Fiancee', she should no longer be called a visitor and shouldn't be dumping plates like that. 4. The younger brother didn't do well, unless its a constant habit of the lady, if not there is no big deal in washing the plate. 5. OP. Your statement smacks with egoism. What do you mean by 'mere lady who should be respecting men'? She should respect people because they are human beings not because they have penis! 8 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:31pm On May 25, 2015 |
freecocoa:lol People like you are the ones that guys use to their satisfaction before dumping your proud asss. Which guy's mother will accept a FEMALE that regards herself in the same level as the MALE Even the bible said the MAN is the head...goodluck though 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 25, 2015 |
freecocoa: This is the crux of the matter! |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:33pm On May 25, 2015 |
RedBenson:Help me ask them. She'll be the one to demand a duplicate of the house keys yet she still calls herself a guest in a house she comes to ffuuck on a daily basis 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 7:34pm On May 25, 2015 |
RedBenson:Just shut your chauvinistic mouth already, you sound like someone just out of a cave. 11 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:34pm On May 25, 2015 |
BabaOneChance: How about severally coming to sleep and leave the next day? She is still a visitor? She has already started showing bad characters and the guy should know what he's about to delve his hands into, else, he will be the one going to market to buy grayfish, pumpkins and tomatoes and come cook for her and as well as washing her undies for her when they finally get married. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by francizy(m): 7:34pm On May 25, 2015 |
amokeme: Lazy årse! Anyways, you are now on the right track based on the bolded.. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 7:35pm On May 25, 2015 |
Beamborla: My dear please don't make what these women do hurt you. It used to make me angry until I realised they should be pitied. How can someone be happy to be called that kind of name? How can being treated like the only thing you are good enough for is to clean and bear kids be enough. Some of these women don't know better. 7 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
If you use a plate, then you are liable to wash it. The elder brother just wants to show domination. If the girl cant wash it, then the elder brother should have washed it. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Aida13: 7:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
The girl is wrong in the sense of our normal culture. She should have played the womanly aspect of nurturer and helped the men clean up. But in the case of her either neglecting, forgetting or refusing to do the dishes then the junior Bro is wrong for trying to prove stubborn. Two wrongs don't make a right. Out of respect for your older brother he could have just washed up. Then jokingly tell his big Bro what the girl failed to do. The senior will then warn his gf. In the meantime his regard for his wise jnr Bro will grow seeing the younger one showing foresight. Stay there dey do strong head till ur big Bro throws you out of the house. Na you go marry am before? Lol. Take it easy people. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
Otamayomi1:your kind are the type that encourage and gives me hope that I can still marry a Nigerian girl. This is lovely! 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by 9jatatafo(m): 7:38pm On May 25, 2015 |
Elder brother don chop vegetable 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by suzzy16(f): 7:38pm On May 25, 2015 |
RedBenson:hmmm,bt why would he treat his brother like trash all becos of a woman 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Menace2Society(m): 7:39pm On May 25, 2015 |
BabaOneChance:Crap 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 7:39pm On May 25, 2015 |
emperorchedda:Seriously though, I pity the women that end up with your kind. You sound really stup1d. No man or woman can use me, whatever I do, I do because I want to and am comfortable doing it, which doesn't include pretending/accepting everything thrown at me, just to please a prospective MIL/boyfriend. Not everyone believes in your bible and only dumb/ignorant people, bring religion into a secular discourse, go get some education you simpleton. 5 Likes |
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