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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:21pm On May 25, 2015 |
Kingsleyinfo: Let us be honest. If I was in the lady's shoe I would wash my own plate. Take note however, it is not because it's my fiancee's house. I'd do the same if I visited a girlfriend. What I don't agree with in the op's context however is that he stressed the fact that she's a woman and even used derogatory terms. I'd rather see men call out the op on his choice of words but well, this is Nigeria what else do you expect? Little things like this is why we still have so mich sexism in our country. Just the way a black man doesn't want to be seen less than a white, so is the same with women and men. I'm sure if it was the brother that left the plate and the fiance washed it, no one would barth an eye lid. No wonder a lot of women get disrespected by their inlaws. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:22pm On May 25, 2015 |
francizy: Oh....it's too late to say that dude cos you inulted me already. Don't try to act the bigger guy here, I already know that you are a kid. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 11:24pm On May 25, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: You don't make any sense!! 3 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Elprinz(m): 11:24pm On May 25, 2015 |
Ibsgal:lol... when does a man "deserve" this respect. if he does the dishes? or if he lives by himself? It's obvious the girl will never respect the younger brother no matter how "deserving" Leaving the plates tells you all the respect he will ever get!! 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 11:25pm On May 25, 2015 |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 25, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Which question are you so desperately seeking answer to? Oh the money part... You see I was actually going to answer that, then i felt what the heck, I don't want to look like am bragging. I care for my fiancee, in more better ways than money can ever do. She is working class and doesnt bug me with, money for hair like some lazy girls do. We know how to have fun and hang out at cool spots when we can find the time. Plus she values my time more, because that is what i have little of. So you see she is a keeper, not like you thats looking for guys to pay her bills. Its called a relationship not a job opportunity. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 11:26pm On May 25, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:I don't even have a problem with a woman spending on a man, but it's just so annoying seeing these ones here acting like they are some sort of demi god because they posses a penis, like who in their right minds reason like these ones? Come and see men with sophistication respecting women and these ones that are yet to have a proper bath are here forming boss, check well now, that one called sonofwhatever does boy boy for one girl. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Betanwa(m): 11:29pm On May 25, 2015 |
Adaeze003:My mama say I be Igbo...smh!!! |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Betanwa(m): 11:30pm On May 25, 2015 |
freecocoa:Do u have a joystick ![]() 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 11:30pm On May 25, 2015 |
emperorchedda: You must love and respect your wife, you are less of a man if you don't. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 11:31pm On May 25, 2015 |
Oildichotomy:Aren't just a fine hediot and the dumbest of them all? Your case has no bearing to even start with, go play with yourself, you are excruciatingly boring. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 11:32pm On May 25, 2015 |
Kingsleyinfo: Sophyrocks, thanks for asking this question. So now it's called relationship not job opportunity, why did you not say something like it is called relationship not my maid when you were talking about a fiancee cleaning? 5 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:32pm On May 25, 2015 |
Kingsleyinfo: I dnt have to prove anything to you so i dnt care how you see me. I am only concerned about the hypocrisy in your comments. and this particular one has proven me right. You talk about your fiancee taking care of her bills, why demand her to clean up after you still? why expect her to always do dishes for you even when she used the dishes if yu really dnt see anything in doing dishes as you said? |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 11:33pm On May 25, 2015 |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:35pm On May 25, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Of course, a girl is meant to serve us and that must remain so. It's a tradition and you cant change it. Like it or cause fuss about it, it still stands. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
freecocoa: It's 'conversing' and not 'talking'. Reserve the "thank you" for your sister's babydaddy. ![]() Isn't ironic that you - a revived cryogenized gynohumanpid so facially wrinkled and fugly that she has remained faceless- could make allusions to faces? ![]() I bet you even pray to get raped in your hopes of finally getting your inner pubes 'pumped' for free but alas! even bums would smirk their faces in disgust at your miserable carriage. Continue humping on your stuffed pillow; hopefully it'll make you orgasm and releave you of your pent-up frustrations. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
netizenbuzz:My dear hypocrissy is not akin to men or women alone. Always know where to draw the line. The story and the Ops contribution are different. Personally I also try not to insult ladies whenever i can help it. But some of you cant be reasoned with. Deal with the girls attitude seperately then deal with the Ops attitude seperately. Thats how to argue objectively. But quoting me out of context was only gonna start a charade of words like you witnessed. Women are meant for men, and men are meant for women, however this is Africa, we cannot throw our culture away just to show we are civilized. I have friends who will always carry the baby for the wife, hold their handbags, some even bathe the kids, but that doesnt mean the woman should forget that she is the primary care giver in the home. Also a woman can help out financially, if she is working, but that doesnt mean the man should forget his responsibility to his hoisehold. Everyone should take pride in his or her ability in the home front, that is the only way we are going to have less divorces. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Oildichotomy(m): 11:36pm On May 25, 2015 |
freecocoa:Free cocacola ! Not again -- ![]() |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:38pm On May 25, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Thank you! He said its not a job opportunity so we therefore can say its nt job for maid opportunity. Thats why i asked why demand a lady who isnt married to you to do dishes when you believe a relationship isnt a job opprtunity for a lady to demand for money. why assign the dishes to someone simply because she is female? 5 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by manuroq(m): 11:39pm On May 25, 2015 |
It's silly how people forget the ways they were brought up or maybe she never had good parental training. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:41pm On May 25, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Are you really learning how to be sarcastic or this is how your brain functions on a normal day. So if a lady uses dishes she should leave them for someone else to wash? Just like i should finsih eating in a restaurant and call my gf to pay ba? Shoro niyen? Walai na small thing remain I for think say GEJ na your father. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by mizzochocinco: 11:43pm On May 25, 2015 |
tivta:Is she the house help? |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 11:44pm On May 25, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Most of them can't even follow that culture and tradition they so love. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Ibsgal(f): 11:44pm On May 25, 2015 |
Elprinz: All individuals, male and female, are deserving of respect as long as they are able to prove that they are worthy of it. My post was not to infer that the future BIL will only be honored by the girl if he washes her dishes. No one is contesting the fact that she should have washed the dishes. What I'm contesting is the OP's idea that a woman is, by the fact of her gender, inferior to a man. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 11:44pm On May 25, 2015 |
kelechiMarie: You are thinking like I was and alot of other posters, the write up and the title is confusing, but according to the op it was the elder brother who had his fiance/guest over for dinner not the younger one. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:45pm On May 25, 2015 |
freecocoa: Empty vessels they are! Do we know the sort of lives they live outside Nl? That dude Sonofwhatever has had lots of failed relationships. No love outside Nl. Its always clear in his comments and he is always ranting. His type full this romance section wella. they always complain of women. SMH. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:45pm On May 25, 2015 |
khia: Perfect excuse to mask your inability to be cognizant of words of the anglo lingua which are beyond your nadir-like intellience quotient? Spotting simpletons like you is a stroll in a park. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:46pm On May 25, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Young lady please grow some sense, I dont entertain foolishness. So it is okay for the fiancee to eat and leave her plate unwashed for someone else just because she isnt a maid? So who is a maid that will clean her dishes for her? If you want to compare and contrast, at least try make some sense. Foolishness isnt a title na 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 11:52pm On May 25, 2015 |
Kingsleyinfo: Learn how to talk to people. Did I insult you? Please you can continue your discussion alone if you can't discuss in a civil manner. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 11:52pm On May 25, 2015 |
emperorchedda: There are women married to two men legally in some african cultures. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:53pm On May 25, 2015 |
khia: You don't have to care what my mum does, but I will keep using her as a great reference point. So if by your assertion,man provides, woman is for upkeep. Do you mean that when the chips are down, she won't find other means to support?When my old man was out of work, no form of income, my mum supported and still used to go to the kitchen, ofcourse I assisted and learnt stuff from her. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:53pm On May 25, 2015 |
Kingsleyinfo: You said yur fiancee takes care of herself fiancially. So if you have a visitor and he/she is served food, he/she must wash the plates he/she used? The Op never talked about how many times the fiancee visited. Do you tell your male friends t wash their plates? |
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