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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 11:54pm On May 25, 2015
emperorchedda:
Even in the western world you don't leave your dishes for another person to do for you.

How idiotic of that girl


In the western world the girl is a guest in his home and would not be expected to wash dishes.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by mizzochocinco: 11:54pm On May 25, 2015
wamenzy:
Wat How many seconds will it take her to wash d plates she used to eat.....
how many seconds was it going to take that boy to wash the same plate? Was he going to lose his manhood after washing it?
People like you are the reason why more women wish to marry a man with dead siblings
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:58pm On May 25, 2015
Nuella222:
The answer to this questions will determine who wash the plates...


Who cook the food?
Who serve the food?



If the lady was the one who cooked and served herself, then she MUST wash the plate cos she is no longer regarded as a visitor, but...





If one of the guys happened to be the one who cooked and served her, then its wrong to expect her to wash the plates cos she is a visitor.



By the way, what's the big deal in washing common plates? The younger brother for wash am, afterall na em senior bro dey feed am dey accomodate am dey pay for em school fees.

So when would a woman stop being a visitor in her man's house no matter how often she parades the place? Only and only after wedding right?

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 25, 2015
missKiffy:
Am a lady and would never support such, it's wrong for her not to wash the plate and to think the elder brother is even insisting his younger brother to wash it and not the girl is absurd
God bless u for me my luff....

How many likes for this beautiful lady at heart....?

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:02am On May 26, 2015
babygirlfl:


Most of them can't even follow that culture and tradition they so love.

They dnt follow culture na. Look at them ranting culture culture culture! Look at the lives they live outside Nl. Are they not the same peeps shouting Relationships are not job opportunities? ladies should be independent bla bla bla. Where did the notion that women should fend for themselves come from? isnt it from western culture? why are they following the same civilisatiion they are criticising? Hypocrites!! Some of them even come frm households where their mothers were the breadwinners for many years while their dads did nothing. Abegi. I stopped taking what Nl guys say seriously a long time ago because Nl is a fantasy island. what they want from ladies of now is for them to spend, feed, cloth and even clean after them. Handicaps!!

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 12:02am On May 26, 2015
Beamborla:

I don't blame you.
I blame the ladies who reduce themselves to nothing to rock your ego.

It's certainly not your fault but that of the ladies who forget they are human and deserve to be treated as one.

I won't insult you or argue with you.
You are beneath me

It is also the fault of some mothers for not teaching their sons to be responsible and to know how to take care of themselves so they won't have to depend on any woman to cook, and clean for them.
These mothers need to stop spoiling their sons rotten and stop teaching their daughters to be maids instead of wives.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Adaeze003(f): 12:05am On May 26, 2015
RedBenson:


Of course, a girl is meant to serve us and that must remain so. It's a tradition and you cant change it. Like it or cause fuss about it, it still stands.

K
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:05am On May 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


You said yur fiancee takes care of herself fiancially. So if you have a visitor and he/she is served food, he/she must wash the plates he/she used? The Op never talked about how many times the fiancee visited. Do you tell your male friends t wash their plates?
My pals know better than to eat and leave their plate on my sink. If you call yourself my friend you already know my likes and dislikes.

My dear before any lady becomes fiancee, she is no longer considered a visitor in its literal terms. Stop twisting your mouth.
The girl was wrong to be in her fiance house and leave her dish unwashed. Just because my fiancee can afford her stuff doesnt mean i dont spoil her most times, am just pointing it out that she can take care of herself without my intervention. And that same principleprinciple applies when she comes to my place and finish eating leaving the dish on my sink. I will point it out to you immediately. Its a matter of personal hygiene.

My real grouse is with the supposed fiance. He must be very silly to fight with the younger brother.
If he sees no problem with what his fiancee did, I also see no problem with what the younger brother did.

If I visit my fiance, I can get in the kitchen and fix myself up, and also clean up after myself. I was properly brought up, so I dont have patience with these half baked feminist that only quote the part that suits their hypocrisy.

Lets all get real. Say the truth, and point out what was wrong with the ops speech, stop siding with dirty attitude just because you want to fight the 'women cause' or whatever it is you ladies of nowadays dabble in.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 12:06am On May 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:




It's 'conversing' and not 'talking'. Reserve the "thank you" for your sister's babydaddy.wink


Isn't ironic that you - a revived cryogenized gynohumanpid so facially wrinkled and fugly that she has remained faceless- could make allusions to faces?cheesy


I bet you even pray to get raped in your hopes of finally getting your inner pubes 'pumped' for free but alas! even bums would smirk their faces in disgust at your miserable carriage. Continue humping on your stuffed pillow; hopefully it'll make you orgasm and releave you of your pent-up frustrations.cheesy
Chai! Your case is beyond hopeless, excuse me, I really need to laugh out loud at your futile attempt to appear intelligent. grin grin grin.

Your very embarrassing attempt at correction is nothing short of f00lishness, like seriously? Ever heard of informal writing?You are pathetic.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:07am On May 26, 2015
khia:


There are women married to two men legally in some african cultures.

I bet you would want that. The more penìses in the never-healing injury between your lower limbs, the better, isn't it nymphomàniac? I bet you already have a relationship with your 3 dildos. You would even mind humping on a mannequin as long as there is a penile protrusion on it.cheesy

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:08am On May 26, 2015
netizenbuzz:


If you really want to be fair, then your wife shouldn't provide at all just like you don't want to do housechores at all. And you guys always use tgis classic arguments about your moms. Maybe you should sit her down and ask her how she really feels with the pressure sometimes. I have a mom too and only we the daughters see when she is in pain and understand. My brothers are always so oblivious its funny. Of course, your momma will never let you see that because she knows it'll only make you recent your father. Let's be honest with oursleves, most men only want to uphold the status quo because it suits them and they know it. Don't use culture and bible to justify your not-so-right ways. Just learn to be sselfless. Bring in your 100 and let your woman do the same.

Why do some women like yourself love to draw sympathy or play victim? I know my dad's flaws like the back of my palm but guess what that's the human nature and he is a man, can't be changed. I can't resent him. Forget about cultural and biblical beliefs. Courtesy, manners and respect shouldn't be thrown away. Nowadays, women want to counter every thing the man does because its '21st century' its just a pity that men have to settle for the 'housemaid' brought up amongst you lot. Shey na for better or worse, no wahala.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Adaeze003(f): 12:08am On May 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


They dnt follow culture na. Look at them ranting culture culture culture! Look at the lives they live outside Nl. Are they not the same peeps shouting Relationships are not job opportunities? ladies should be independent bla bla bla. Where did the notion that women should fend for themselves come from? isnt it from western culture? why are they following the same civilisatiion they are criticising? Hypocrites!! Some of the even come frm households where their mothers were the breadwinners for many years while their dads did nothing. Abegi. I stopped taking what Nl guys say seriously a long time ago because Nl is a fantasy island. what they want frm ladies of now is for them to spend, feed, cloth and even clean after them. Handicaps!!
.

grin grin

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:08am On May 26, 2015
khia:



In the western world the girl is a guest in his home and would not be expected to wash dishes.

Thank you jare! Do you know the funniest part of this? If any f these guuys was dating a white chick, will they ask her to wash the plates? Buuhahahahahaha. Nigerian guys dnt ever have the guts to try this with a white chick. Na dem dey wash the plates, cook food and babysit join sef. Nigerian guys i hail ooooo.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:12am On May 26, 2015
freecocoa:
Chai! Your case is beyond hopeless, excuse me, I really need to laugh out loud at your futile attempt to appear intelligent. grin grin grin.

Your very embarrassing attempt at correction is nothing short of f00lishness, like seriously? Ever heard of informal writing?You are pathetic.

"Informal writing"... Aha! The perfect excuse for neo-dsylexics like yourself.

The correction had to be done. One more erroneous habit being pointed out.wink

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by oloyede252(m): 12:13am On May 26, 2015
nairaland feminist never disappoint always turning every thread to men vs women


Una no dey tire

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:14am On May 26, 2015
babygirlfl:


Learn how to talk to people. Did I insult you? Please you can continue your discussion alone if you can't discuss in a civil manner.
Where you hullucinating when you quoted me?

So advice has now become insult.

Women, necessary evils.... cheesy

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 12:16am On May 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Thank you jare! Do you know the funniest part of this? If any f these guuys was dating a white chick, will they ask her to wash the plates? Buuhahahahahaha. Nigerian guys dnt ever have the guts to try this with a white chick. Na dem dey wash the plates, cook food and babysit join sef. Nigerian guys i hail ooooo.

My dear to be fair, they don't try that with our white sisters because our white sisters have made it clear they will not tolerate such. This is different from most of our Nigerian sisters who are quite happy to be treated like slaves.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by cococandy(f): 12:17am On May 26, 2015
emperorchedda:
Not just a plate, a plate used by a woman. That's the apex of insults

Women shouldn't even be told before they do dishes, that's kitchen manners.

I don't know if I will blame parents for raising up young generation children this way or the media
you seem like the younger bro in question.

So women are such lowly creatures in your opinion that doing the dish used by a woman is the apex of insults?


Nigerian ladies deserve all the pity anyone can muster. I feel so sorry for us embarassed embarassed

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by oloyede252(m): 12:18am On May 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Thank you jare! Do you know the funniest part of this? If any f these guuys was dating a white chick, will they ask her to wash the plates? Buuhahahahahaha. Nigerian guys dnt ever have the guts to try this with a white chick. Na dem dey wash the plates, cook food and babysit join sef. Nigerian guys i hail ooooo.

Sophie,,,
way your grouse with Nigerian men,

why such hate

anyway I like the way devil is using you,,,

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 12:18am On May 26, 2015
[quote author=Sacluxpaint post=34095795]


You don't have to care what my
mum does, but I will keep using her as a great reference point. So if by your assertion,man provides, woman is for upkeep. Do you mean that when the chips are down, she won't find other means to support?When my old man was out of work, no form of income, my mum supported and still used to go to the kitchen, ofcourse I assisted and learnt stuff from her. [/quo
]


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Now you are getting closer to understanding what I'm saying, *I hope*
When your father isn't working *for whatever reason* your mother should go out and work to hold the family together, but while your mother is PROVIDING for the family, it's to bad your father doesn't love your mother enough to have a meal prepared for her and the family, instead of sitting around watching tv and waiting for her to come home and start working again. Where is the love and respect in that?

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:18am On May 26, 2015
nepp:

You shouldn't "label" people! There's nothing like "women things" and "men things". In my opinion it's okay for a woman to love sports, do heavy lifting, be a car enthusiast etc. It's also okay for a man to cook, love fashion, clean up etc. It only makes us human. We shouldn't label people!

Where i'm from, there are roles clearly set aside with a remarkable line put inbtwn for women and men and washing plate that was used by a woman is absolutely not one of the men's roles. Women should know their roles and play them rightly...not trying to force men into picking up their responsibility in the name of civilization...whatever.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:21am On May 26, 2015
oloyede252:


Sophie,,,
way your grouse with Nigerian men,

why such hate

anyway I like the way devil is using you,,,

grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Seconded

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:22am On May 26, 2015
Adaeze003:


grin grin

My dear its true. grin

Some of our men are handicaps looking for maids to hand feed them with spoon. They cant try all these with white chicks. They know better than to open mouth to expect such from them. In the west, the chores in the home are equally divided. There are many women there who dnt know how to cook so their husbands do the cooking. Joke silvia says she is not the cooking type. Olu jacobs never divorce am.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 12:22am On May 26, 2015
Kingsleyinfo:

Where you hullucinating when you quoted me?

So advice has now become insult.

Women, necessary evils.... cheesy

If you genuinely think that telling someone to grow some sense and calling someone f00lish is not an insult, when you see your mum, advice her by telling her to grow some sense and call her f00lish.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 12:24am On May 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

I bet you would want that. The more penìses in the never-healing injury between your lower limbs, the better, isn't it nymphomàniac? I bet you already have a relationship with your 3 dildos. You would even mind humping on a mannequin as long as there is a penile protrusion on it.cheesy


LMAO cheesy grin
You seem to be more fascinated with peni.ses than I am.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 12:26am On May 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

"Informal writing"... Aha! The perfect excuse for neo-dsylexics like yourself.

The correction had to be done. One more erroneous habit being pointed out.wink
You are a dunce if you think that is an excuse, ofcourse your slow brain can't think to explore its plausibility before rushing to make a bigger f00l of yourself than you already have.

Hiding behind big words taken out the dictionary immediately before writing, doesn't make you intelligent, it rather illuminates your desperation, you can't school me on the English language so don't even try.

You should check into a psychiatry, the level of filth/perversion in your mind is a cause for concern.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by oloyede252(m): 12:26am On May 26, 2015
Kingsleyinfo:

grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Seconded
just accept their opinions and avoid unnecessary brouhaha
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:28am On May 26, 2015
Adaeze003:

K
KK
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 12:28am On May 26, 2015
oloyede252:


Sophie,,,
way your grouse with Nigerian men,

why such hate

anyway I like the way devil is using you,,,

And why do you have a grouse for ladies who can stand up for themselves? Inferirity complex? do you feel less than a man when they do so? I also like the way Satan is using you too.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 12:28am On May 26, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

Perfect excuse to mask your inability to be cognizant of words of the anglo lingua which are beyond your nadir-like intellience quotient?
Spotting simpletons like you is a stroll in a park.cheesy

Again, you don't make any sense.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 12:31am On May 26, 2015
Sophyrocks:


Thank you jare! Do you know the funniest part of this? If any f these guuys was dating a white chick, will they ask her to wash the plates? Buuhahahahahaha. Nigerian guys dnt ever have the guts to try this with a white chick. Na dem dey wash the plates, cook food and babysit join sef. Nigerian guys i hail ooooo.

grin grin grin
Why do they worship and kiss white girl azz so much, I really would like to know because I don't get it.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 12:32am On May 26, 2015
khia:



LMAO cheesy grin
You seem to be more fascinated with peni.ses than I am.

Oh! You are a lesbian? I knew it! My 'apologies'. Darn! I didn't see that coming...or maybe I did. Your man-hating comments made it obvious.cheesy Men must have used you so badly you had to change your sexuality.smiley

So, are you the dyke?cheesy

Somebody call 911!

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