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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 2:01am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: I wasn't taught common sense in school but in my home. My parents taught me that I could be whatever I wanted to be in this world, along with my brothers and sisters. My sisters and I were taught to cook and clean and so were my brothers. We were taught to be self sufficient, to take care of ourselves because our parents didn't want us to totaly rely on a mate because people will mistreat you when they know that you are depended on them financially or domestically. I love and want a man in my life but I can take care of myself financially. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 2:01am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: Since you are lamenting so much about females going to school, then you should not send your daughters to school. How about that? Lets start with you. For you to say this means your parents wasted money on your sisters, in case you have any. If a mother is not fully educated she wont get a good job to cater for her kids and help financially. You cant demand for women not to go to school yet you want the benefits of civilisation. Not possible. Its too late to lament. Once you go for civilisation, there is no turning back. If we truly are to stick to our old ways then we shuldnt be on nairaland and using electronic gadgets and you also shouldnt be educated but should be in the farm. so choose one. 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 2:04am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: There you go talking about nothing again, you know you lied. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 2:07am On May 26, 2015 |
Sacluxpaint: Wait a minute! Asking to be treated right = playing the victim. Why are you acting so defensive? Do you feel guilty? And how does asking to be treated fairly mean you lack manners or disrespect? I want to believe we are talking in general context here and are not limited to the op's situation. Stop blaming your chauvinism on the 21st century. Please that argument is so outdated. That something is normal doesn't make it right. And mind you, culture is dynamic. It changes. Please educate yourself at least before you use terms. Hence, stop being stuck in an outdated culture. The world is moving, move along with it. Like I said before, you only want to maintain status quo because it suits you. Learn to be selfless and grow up. That is who a REAL MAN is. Don't let your worth be defined by how a woman treats you. Learn to base your self esteem on how God sees you. Maybe, just maybe it is then you'd be able to let go of your ego. Finally, yes human beings have flaws. We make mistakes however if you sit on your a.ss and expect the person who you claim you love eat your bull.shit everytime all in the name of being imperfect, then you are a very wicked person. Just imagine if your mom refused to prepare meals for a week on a stretch just because, will your father tolerate that? She's just having her human flaws na. You don't take those who love you for granted even if it is the norm. Don't you have a mind of your own? Must it always be culture this culture that? I can only hope you get understanding before you begin to lead a family because the male species marrying today are BOYS. Learn from Jesus, he led by example. Do the same to your family. I'll say no more. 5 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by mekonglobal(m): 2:12am On May 26, 2015 |
amokeme: Gud, then u must also learn hw 2 eat plantain leaves and not plates! 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 2:14am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: That is why I said you should know because you have effeminate ways, but it's ok, what you and your man do in the privacy of your bedroom is your business, but be carefull, 14 years would be an awful long time for you to go without that sweet sausage. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But then again, don't drop the soap ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:14am On May 26, 2015 |
khia: Typical female. Always playing the victims when they've been browbeaten. You lost your bite? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:18am On May 26, 2015 |
khia: Effeminate ways and my comments have been coming off as alpha-male-like? ![]() You, on the other hand, wants to play a man which makes you a dyke. How's your girlfriend? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 2:31am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: How do I want to play the man, you mean like going to work to help provide for my family, the work you should be doing as the man according to your culture, well do it alone as the head of the household, and your wife can do her womanly duties *cooking and cleaning after you, the kids, your parents, her parents, your siblings, her siblings and the dog. At the end of the day you still have ole battyboy to love you and would gladly play the part of the woman, or are you the bottom? ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 2:48am On May 26, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: LMAO ![]() ![]() I agree with your points except for #3, they are known to lower their standards more than anyone and that's if they had them from the start. Their standards can't be that high in the first place if they are dating these azz licking Ulncle Toms you described, you can't get any lower than them. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 2:49am On May 26, 2015 |
khia: "...Cooking for and cleaning after him and the kids...". I thought you lots opine women in the 21st Century shouldn't do that any more? You are "strong", "independent" and the likes of the regurgitated hogwash. ![]() I thought you lots also opine that cleaning after a man makes a woman seem servile and subservient? ![]() ![]() Are you dyslexic, schizophrenic, bipolar or do you just get the kicks from coming off as a contradictory foolhardy nitwit? ![]() One moment you agree then the next you think society is wrong. Do yourself a favour: Commit yourself to rehab. Hopefully you haven't been irrevershbly damaged. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 3:04am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: Battyboy your comprehension is slim to none. I wasn't talking about my views on women and men responsibility in the society, I was talking about the duties from the view point of YOUR culture/society. Catch up Nancy. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 3:18am On May 26, 2015 |
khia: Actually, dyke, it's 'conversing about' and not 'talking about'. You don't 'talk' via a text conversation. Half-literate featherbrain. ![]() You see why you should do more reading than preening? Stop screwing your girlfriend. Start reading. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 3:34am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: Everyone knows what conversing means and how to use it in it's context you twit, I said talking because that is what I wanted to say, It's late there shouldn't you be banging you boyfriend or getting banged, fruitcake? |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by TheSonOfMark(m): 3:43am On May 26, 2015 |
khia: Fools like you don't know that. I just tutored you. About banging: I've used that line on you all through. ![]() Try something innovative, copy cat. Wait, you really are a cat (PÚSSY). ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by izzieman: 3:45am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: What is wrong with a man doing dishes for his brother's wife or fiancée? Will doing the dishes shorten his penis or make him impotent? 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by khia: 4:27am On May 26, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: So now you made up the word banging? No Battyboy, your BOOTY HOLE is your boyfriend's PUSSYcat. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() PS... Before you can teach me anything, learn the difference between your man's booty hole and a PUSSYcat. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 5:15am On May 26, 2015 |
mizzochocinco:Young lady advice yourself before I reposition your thinking. How am I supposed to be a woman? Your argument lacks basis. What is wrong is wrong, there is no common sense in encouraging bad behaviour. A stitch in time saves nine. Get things in the right perspective please. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by francizy(m): 5:54am On May 26, 2015 |
khia: How do you do? |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by zemaye: 6:12am On May 26, 2015 |
Smh for this una poor mentality what is the big deal about who washes plate ![]() |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:11am On May 26, 2015 |
Krystalxxx: I stated I like his diary, not his persona. He's more reasonable when he's not looking for meaningless fights all over the place like his life depended on it. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by VickJames(m): 7:11am On May 26, 2015 |
Conclusion: Now I know why Nigeria is backward. 3 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:12am On May 26, 2015 |
freecocoa:Guess your parents are from that same "small minded" culture and you are a product of it too. Awesome ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Ilekeh(f): 7:13am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: " lady who should be respecting men"....... And vise versa. Respect is earned, not demanded by any given gender or age group. 4 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by drnoel: 7:25am On May 26, 2015 |
RedBenson: very silly elder broda, IMAO I dont know what is wrong with some siblings. |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Beamborla(f): 7:38am On May 26, 2015 |
[quote author=khia post=34095976] It is also the fault of some mothers for not teaching their sons to be resposible and to know how to take care of themselves so they won't have to depend on any woman to cook, and clean for them. These mothers need to stop spoiling their sons rotten and stop teaching their daughters to be maids instead of wives.[/quote I couldn't agree more but we can only preach this to the mothers of this generation |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by bigW(m): 7:48am On May 26, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: sorry to come in, but after reading wat d guy wrote objectively ( not with emotions). I think wat he was trying to say is, she should wash d plate she used in eating not she doing his dishes. irrespective of d gender I feel its right to always have d mindset of cleaning ur plate after using it to eat, if u have dat mindset den cleaning d plate u use in eating wunt b an issue. excuse d typo error. 3 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by oloyede252(m): 8:28am On May 26, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: lolz,so this about ME? ![]() why will I feel inferior if a lady doesn't wash my plate?m I a god do you have any p with ME? the devil is definitely using you. 1 Like |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by davico2006(m): 8:29am On May 26, 2015 |
She lacks home training 3 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by lolly2pops: 8:34am On May 26, 2015 |
In my opinion she was a visitor and one can not expect a visitor to clean after themselves. Secondly was she the only one who ate from those plates or did everyone enjoy the meal together? If everyone enjoyed the same meal together it should not be a problem for anyone of them to wash the dishes. If I were the lady though I would have actually washed the dishes, that's all. Culturally at least where I'm coming from men are supposed to provide for their families but nowadays we find that some men rather sit at home and wait for her cheque meanwhile they still refuse to do any house chores because they find it to be a taboo but not collecting money from a woman.. 2 Likes |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 8:34am On May 26, 2015 |
oloyede252: Now you are confused. why did you quote me in the first place? It is you who has a problem with me. You quoted me 1st remember? |
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BarryX(m): 8:34am On May 26, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:Will do just that, if that will make you -happy Deal? |
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