a lot of parents don't talk abt sex to their kids, not just African parents. you can't really blame parents or mothers for their kids not being able to orgasm . at the end of the day once you become an adult ( 18+ ) n old enough to be sexually active n responsible or once you're married , it's up to you to learn what u need to learn on ur own n take care of your own sexuality and sexual health .

cococandy:

I think It is a mind thing first before being physical. Most of our African parents don't even like to talk about sex let alone give their kids especially the daughters the understanding that sex is nothing to feel guilty or dirty about.
After having grown up with that mind conditioning, it will be hard for a lady to let herself go enough to really explore her body and not feel whorish about it (even with the right person. AKA husband or fiancé).

I can't really say I blame them because many don't understand you can be free and open about sex to your kids without encouraging irresponsible behavior.

aflyingbird:
a lot of parents don't talk abt sex to their kids, not just African parents. you can't really blame parents or mothers for their kids not being able to orgasm . at the end of the day once you become an adult ( 18+ ) n old enough to be sexually active n responsible , it's up to you to learn what u need to learn on ur own n take care of your own sexuality and sexual health .

No parent will teach you everything about your own body.

Its left to you to explore and conquer.

Nneka123:
I couldn't agree more with you, Most parents are just so uncomfortable talking about sex with their teenage sons/daughters which is absurd, and even when they do, they act funny and become childish about it, Only majority will explain everything you need to know, which it's a good thing.

Minority you mean.

@Op,a lot of women are inhibited and that has to do with upbringing in Africa especially where sex is not discussed with children.
The key is sex education which should make young adults aware of their bodies.However,each individual should be willing to explore and learn about their bodies.
Unfortunately,the older generation of women hardly had orgasms too.

Bibol:
Hehehehehe

Odikwa serious

OP, what is the meaning of orgasm

it's a sim card produced by orga telecoms company. orga's sim ---> orgasm

well , a lot of African parents themselves need to learn how to address their children when it comes to sex . believe it or not , some of them don't know how to talk abt it or it's uncomfortable for them , which they might disguise as annoyance when the topic comes up. others are just being protective bc they think it's better for children if the topic doesn't come up at all not knowing they've probably or definitely will hear abt it outside. so starting the conversation in the house is important , esp when it comes to promoting abstinence n if they don't want to abstain , to always protect themselves . other parents are only passing down how they were taught, meaning it's a generational thing . somehow we've to make room for the dialogue with parents, raise awareness n teach them how to be more open-minded with the subject , but African parents will always be African parents, some of them might not want to hear it, lol. some new-age parents, maybe. old-school African parents, not so much. the answer might be to implement sex ed in nigerian schs n teach kids there , if this isn't happening already . but like i said , when you're old enough or want to settle down , you kinda have to make sense of things on your own n not blame your parents bc they didn't teach you this or that

iykedare:


So what exactly should the parents do?

which is pretty much what i said in the first post

iykedare:


No parent will teach you everything about your own body.

Its left to you to explore and conquer.

coogar:


it's a sim card produced by orga telecoms company. orga's sim ---> orgasm

Now you will have to help her get the sim.

bellong:


Most of these cases are actually not because of sexual dissatisfaction but for greed and extreme lust.

When a person is deprived of something at some point they will go looking for something new. Its not greed or extreme lust.

The article is not about husbands but women who have created a big stumbling block in their hearts against reaching climax or enjoy the act. Irrespective of new thing you try, once this block is not eliminated, the new thing is a waste. And I think the author wrote it in the article.

a woman doesn't just wake up and decide that she doesn't want to enjoy sex. The so-called block can be removed by trying out new things. Not every woman orgasms from actual penetration some requite MouthAction and some require intimacy gadgets.

aflyingbird:
never had one too , still a v

don't bug yourself neither do you force yourself!
just take it as an over blown issue!

XtraSmooth404:

4 lines = ere*ction? Are you for real? Young man, you need Jesus

Gbam!

mizzochocinco:


When a person is deprived of something at some point they will go looking for something new. Its not greed or extreme lust.

a woman doesn't just wake up and decide that she doesn't want to enjoy sex. The so-called block can be removed by trying out new things. Not every woman orgasms from actual penetration some requite MouthAction and some require intimacy gadgets.

You still didn't get it.

coogar:


it's a sim card produced by orga telecoms company. orga's sim ---> orgasm

Perfect

Communication can play a big role and also the mentality of our females about the issue of sex. most girls are not aware about female orgasm and most likely prevent it from happening imagine a girl telling me to stop while having sex that she feels like urinating despite my explanation that it is not the urge to urinate she stood up rush to the toilet to urinate yet nothing came out, a girl like that did you think she will ever have orgasm with that mentality. I have witness many cases of girls pleading for me to stop the simulation because the pleasure is too much, such people will never smell anything close to orgasm

Kk.

1. The ladies have turned this thread into a "blame the parents/African mentality thread". If you don't own your problems you will never be able to solve them. Nobody is stopping you from having an orgasm. Even victims of rape sometimes experience orgasms so the "blame the mind/africa/parents is a cheap cop-out.


2. Having said this, it is the duty of the unselfish man to ensure that his lady achieves an orgasm at least once during thier sexual relationship. It doesn't have to be about you all the time. You put your dick in, drill as hard as you can until you pop, and then collapse in a sweaty heap beside your lady who is desperately wanting more but resigns herself to fate. It should be a thing of pride for a man to bring his mate to orgasm at least once.

A lady achieves orgasm following prolonged sexual stimulation. This mostly involves the fingers and the Penis together but can also be achieved by using either of those body parts alone. And no its not like in the porn movies when the man keeps on drilling and drilling for hours, your woman will eventually get bored and her vagina will dry up and she may actually start to experience pain. Instead you keep her distracted by stimulating other exotic zones as you drill away. Such areas include the nose, earlobes, bweasts, nippIes, bellybutton, back of the knees, inner thighs and toes. Keep the focus on her, not on you. Not only will this let her enjoy sex more and eventually orgasm, by keeping the focus off yourself you tend to last longer.

Sex, like every other male-female relationship, involves giving yourself and not waiting to receive all the time from the other person. I have had many sophisticated(strictly English speaking) women greet me in thier native language after a tryst. I dare say I don't do anything too special. I just focus more on giving her pleasure than pleasuring myself.

If you have any mature questions on orgasm as it relates to our Nigerian environment you can ask. Orgasms are for every normal healthy female out there and shouldn't be seen as something of a myth.

Who are the ladies?
Quote me if you want to address my post.

Anyway the first step to solving a problem is identifying it. Whether you people chose to see it or not, the way Africans make ladies feel dirty about being sexual will always get in the way of true sexual freedom for them. It actually goes beyond parents not just talking to their kids about sex.

We have a slut-shaming culture that portrays any sexually active (unmarried) lady as filthy. Do you grow up like that,get married and suddenly change overnight into an unabashed unshackled sexual being? Fat chance.

We view the virgin as better than the one who isn't. Growing up, I used to be warned not to let any man 'defile' me until marriage.
A thought I held onto for long believing that having sex defiles me. A.K.A makes me unclean.
There are nice arguments for these kind of teachings. E.g protects against unwanted pregs and STDs, helps academic focus etc. those are things they tried to protect us from because they meant well (I guess) but then we should also know what the downsides are. Which includes raising sexually repressed females. You know, sow orange, reap orange.

I'm insisting it affects females because growing up, I didn't see anyone drumming into the boys ears to keep their virginity or be damned. Or telling them that sex before marriage defiles them.
When raised like that,It takes an epiphany to stop associating sexual acts with guilt. Enough to be free and inhibited.


@bold, I agree. That's why ladies need to start realizing the mental barriers keeping them from achieving sexual peak. I've realized mine early enough and broken free from that mental cage.


I also agree with the rest of your post.

5minsmadness:
Kk.

1. The ladies have turned this thread into a "blame the parents/African mentality thread". If you don't own your problems you will never be able to solve them. Nobody is stopping you from having an orgasm. Even victims of rape sometimes experience orgasms so the "blame the mind/africa/parents is a cheap cop-out.


2. Having said this, it is the duty of the unselfish man to ensure that his lady achieves an orgasm at least once during thier sexual relationship. It doesn't have to be about you all the time. You put your dick in, drill as hard as you can until you pop, and then collapse in a sweaty heap beside your lady who is desperately wanting more but resigns herself to fate. It should be a thing of pride for a man to bring his mate to orgasm at least once.

A lady achieves orgasm following prolonged sexual stimulation. This mostly involves the fingers and the Penis together but can also be achieved by using either of those body parts alone. And no its not like in the porn movies when the man keeps on drilling and drilling for hours, your woman will eventually get bored and her vagina will dry up and she may actually start to experience pain. Instead you keep her distracted by stimulating other exotic zones as you drill away. Such areas include the nose, earlobes, bweasts, nippIes, bellybutton, back of the knees, inner thighs and toes. Keep the focus on her, not on you. Not only will this let her enjoy sex more and eventually orgasm, by keeping the focus off yourself you tend to last longer.

Sex, like every other male-female relationship, involves giving yourself and not waiting to receive all the time from the other person. I have had many sophisticated(strictly English speaking) women greet me in thier native language after a tryst. I dare say I don't do anything too special. I just focus more on giving her pleasure than pleasuring myself.

If you have any mature questions on orgasm as it relates to our Nigerian environment you can ask. Orgasms are for every normal healthy female out there and shouldn't be seen as something of a myth.

5minsmadness:
Kk.

1. The ladies have turned this thread into a "blame the parents/African mentality thread". If you don't own your problems you will never be able to solve them. Nobody is stopping you from having an orgasm. Even victims of rape sometimes experience orgasms so the "blame the mind/africa/parents is a cheap cop-out.


2. Having said this, it is the duty of the unselfish man to ensure that his lady achieves an orgasm at least once during thier sexual relationship. It doesn't have to be about you all the time. You put your dick in, drill as hard as you can until you pop, and then collapse in a sweaty heap beside your lady who is desperately wanting more but resigns herself to fate. It should be a thing of pride for a man to bring his mate to orgasm at least once.

A lady achieves orgasm following prolonged sexual stimulation. This mostly involves the fingers and the Penis together but can also be achieved by using either of those body parts alone. And no its not like in the porn movies when the man keeps on drilling and drilling for hours, your woman will eventually get bored and her vagina will dry up and she may actually start to experience pain. Instead you keep her distracted by stimulating other exotic zones as you drill away. Such areas include the nose, earlobes, bweasts, nippIes, bellybutton, back of the knees, inner thighs and toes. Keep the focus on her, not on you. Not only will this let her enjoy sex more and eventually orgasm, by keeping the focus off yourself you tend to last longer.

Sex, like every other male-female relationship, involves giving yourself and not waiting to receive all the time from the other person. I have had many sophisticated(strictly English speaking) women greet me in thier native language after a tryst. I dare say I don't do anything too special. I just focus more on giving her pleasure than pleasuring myself.

If you have any mature questions on orgasm as it relates to our Nigerian environment you can ask. Orgasms are for every normal healthy female out there and shouldn't be seen as something of a myth.

This guy is good!
Most guys here talk too much but not this man.
One bottle of alomo for him, please

5minsmadness:
Kk.

1. The ladies have turned this thread into a "blame the parents/African mentality thread". If you don't own your problems you will never be able to solve them. Nobody is stopping you from having an orgasm. Even victims of rape sometimes experience orgasms so the "blame the mind/africa/parents is a cheap cop-out.


2. Having said this, it is the duty of the unselfish man to ensure that his lady achieves an orgasm at least once during thier sexual relationship. It doesn't have to be about you all the time. You put your dick in, drill as hard as you can until you pop, and then collapse in a sweaty heap beside your lady who is desperately wanting more but resigns herself to fate. It should be a thing of pride for a man to bring his mate to orgasm at least once.

A lady achieves orgasm following prolonged sexual stimulation. This mostly involves the fingers and the Penis together but can also be achieved by using either of those body parts alone. And no its not like in the porn movies when the man keeps on drilling and drilling for hours, your woman will eventually get bored and her vagina will dry up and she may actually start to experience pain. Instead you keep her distracted by stimulating other exotic zones as you drill away. Such areas include the nose, earlobes, bweasts, nippIes, bellybutton, back of the knees, inner thighs and toes. Keep the focus on her, not on you. Not only will this let her enjoy sex more and eventually orgasm, by keeping the focus off yourself you tend to last longer.

Sex, like every other male-female relationship, involves giving yourself and not waiting to receive all the time from the other person. I have had many sophisticated(strictly English speaking) women greet me in thier native language after a tryst. I dare say I don't do anything too special. I just focus more on giving her pleasure than pleasuring myself.

If you have any mature questions on orgasm as it relates to our Nigerian environment you can ask. Orgasms are for every normal healthy female out there and shouldn't be seen as something of a myth.

lol, explicit and raw but fact.

nice points. it is another shocker women rely chiefly on men for orgasm more than the man relies on her.

It's the mind.Heard many women don't have orgasm from a gyneocologist.
Then how do they enjoy Bleep?No wonder most of the moo-ing and ahh-ing have been labelled fake
Is it because of circumcision?Irony is the fact that women tend to enjoy sex more...

Some men are too hasty though.Them be like molue untop woman body,Some men are too immature,EVERY FUCCCK NA MUSCLE.No understanding of their women's body.If all the muscle Wey dey body never show reach ear,dem never start be that.
Some guys don't even know when a woman had cum.*smh*

Na so husband go just straff wife finish,wife go wake up for night dey masturbate as the husband sleeps.Some men who usually go down on their wives before marriage stops doing that,for whatever reason I dont know.

Kudos to mehn who still keeps a woman slimy during and after sex.Not the ones parading. HUGE UNSATISFYING DICKXS.

We have a slut-shaming culture that portrays any sexually active (unmarried) lady as filthy. Do you grow up like that,get married and suddenly change overnight into an unabashed unshackled sexual being? Fat chance.

Are you minding him? There's absolutely no need in feigning ignorance to this important factor especially in a Nigerian setting. Most girls don't even know what it looks like down there and think it's the man's job to unravel all the mysteries. Meanwhile many of these men have no damn clue and since the girl doesn't want any wahala because telling a man you suck at sex or his pe.nis is not satisfying kills his self esteem faster than a speeding bullet. So women just make the required sounds and let him feel on top of the world. Some have already started boasting here of their nonexistent prowess.

@topic
Normally, people generally think it's penetration that makes a woman reach or.ga.sm, which is wrong. The cli.to.ris is the principal organ to reaching orgasm. Which makes sense because the clit is analogous to the pe.nis. There's even current research questioning the idea/myth of the g..-spot. Cum.ming through penetration, is more likely the clit being stimulated by the incessant pounding on the pubis which is enhanced by having a shorter distance between the clit and vagina. And when stimulating the clit with your fingers, use a lubricant. Don't go and use your African callused fingers you have used to pound yam to stimulate it and expect to cu.m, you would only end up bruising yourself. The skin is soft, keep the area slippery or wet.

There should be more emphasis on how to enjoy sex as a woman and less on how to please men then more women will enjoy orgasmic sex.

cococandy:
Nice one OP.

In addition,ladies if you can't have orgasms, pls don't raise daughters who can't have orgasms too. Most females are sexually repressed because of their psyche growing up to believe that sex is evil and something to be guilty or feel dirty about.
Teach them to embrace their sexuality (while being responsible about it.)

That's going to be a tough sell, especially since most Nigerians have very conservative views about sex.

Ibsgal:


That's going to be a tough sell, especially since most Nigerians have very conservative views about sex.

i know

andromida:
There should be more emphasis on how to enjoy sex as a woman and less on how to please men then more women will enjoy orgasmic sex.

women should just accept the fate nature dealt them. orgäsms are a rarity in women. only about 25% of the female population can reach orgäsm via intercourse.....women who have experienced it are in the minority.

no amount of education or mommy talks can liberate a woman whose anatomy would never allow orgäsms. it is what it is - i don't think nature ever intended for women to get orgäsmic feelings. their primary role is being a vessel for a man to reach his orgäsms.

Never had one too.

coogar:


no amount of education or mommy talks can liberate a woman whose anatomy would never allow orgäsms. it is what it is - i don't think nature ever intended for women to get orgäsmic feelings. their primary role is being a vessel for a man to reach his orgäsms.

You see what I'm talking about?
their primary role yen yen yen
msssscccchhhhheeewwww

Yeah America this and that....with all they teach their children about sex education, they still have baby mamas everywhere and homosexuals running amok. If I hear.......

cococandy:
Who are the ladies?
Quote me if you want to address my post.

Anyway the first step to solving a problem is identifying it. Whether you people chose to see it or not, the way Africans make ladies feel dirty about being sexual will always get in the way of true sexual freedom for them. It actually goes beyond parents not just talking to their kids about sex.

We have a slut-shaming culture that portrays any sexually active (unmarried) lady as filthy. Do you grow up like that,get married and suddenly change overnight into an unabashed unshackled sexual being? Fat chance.

We view the virgin as better than the one who isn't. Growing up, I used to be warned not to let any man 'defile' me until marriage.
A thought I held onto for long believing that having sex defiles me. A.K.A makes me unclean.
There are nice arguments for these kind of teachings. E.g protects against unwanted pregs and STDs, helps academic focus etc. those are things they tried to protect us from because they meant well (I guess) but then we should also know what the downsides are. Which includes raising sexually repressed females. You know, sow orange, reap orange.

I'm insisting it affects females because growing up, I didn't see anyone drumming into the boys ears to keep their virginity or be damned. Or telling them that sex before marriage defiles them.
When raised like that,It takes an epiphany to stop associating sexual acts with guilt. Enough to be free and inhibited.


@bold, I agree. That's why ladies need to start realizing the mental barriers keeping them from achieving sexual peak. I've realized mine early enough and broken free from that mental cage.


I also agree with the rest of your post.

Honestly my post wasn't directed at you. I saw some ladies mention sexual repression/African mentality and I went "ugh!". If I want to address you I will. You should know that about me by now.


Having said that^^^^ Everything is not fight. I see Stillfire snidely mentioning me and gearing up for a fight. I'm not up to it right now.


Having an orgasm should not be your priority in life.
Your parents did well to drum the evils of early sexual encounters into your ears and look how well you turned out(pls keep your head from swelling if u can). There are many ladies out there who got thrown out of school following early pregnancies and many more who have had thier wombs destroyed from early unsafe abortions. Surely you won't place those same predicaments on the same scale as your education and honour simply because u want to experience orgasm?

Also I would be hard pressed to believe the lovingingly delivered sexual cautions your parents gave u had the same dubious effect as a German brain washing technique and rendered u Sexually incompetent for life.
Come on, so your brother was never cautioned about bringing a pregnant lady home. If your answer is yes then you guys had a very strange upbringing.


The main problem I find with most ladies is that they take responsibility for nothing. Nothing at all. It's never thier fault. They always have somebody to blame. That is total immaturity in my books. And it could be a reason why they never achieve as much as their male counterparts.

Sexually explicit content. (18++)
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My first girlfriend was circumcised. I had seen other vaginas before but never gone round to first base(church things before I became corrupt ). She never had an orgasm but since she was my first she kept encouraging me by making silly noises. Now I may have been a virgin but I knew she was faking it. And it pissed me off. So when we broke up I did some research(both practical and theoretical). I actually took it as a challenge . We reunited a year later and I tried it out. The genuine sexual noises weren't what convinced me I had been successful , it was the juices that flowed out of her(not pee) and the sexuaI seizures she had. We had to change the sheets repeatedly. So you see, I don't need statistics to check if there is a center of gravity or clit-stimulation or all that jazz. I know because I have seen. It isn't faith for me. It's fact.[/size]

This is not something I feel comfortable talking about anyway. I'll stop here unless there are reasonable questions.

coogaluta:

You see what I'm talking about?
their primary role yen yen yen
msssscccchhhhheeewwww

hahahaha!
your username is funny.....

coogar:


hahahaha!
your username is funny.....

do I know you?

5minsmadness:


Honestly my post wasn't directed at you. I saw some ladies mention sexual repression/African mentality and I went "ugh!". If I want to address you I will. You should know that about me by now.


Having said that^^^^ Everything is not fight. I see Stillfire snidely mentioning me and gearing up for a fight. I'm not up to it right now.


Having an orgasm should not be your priority in life.
Your parents did well to drum the evils of early sexual encounters into your ears and look how well you turned out(pls keep your head from swelling if u can). There are many ladies out there who got thrown out of school following early pregnancies and many more who have had thier wombs destroyed from early unsafe abortions. Surely you won't place those same predicaments on the same scale as your education and honour simply because u want to experience orgasm?

Also I would be hard pressed to believe the lovingingly delivered sexual cautions your parents gave u had the same dubious effect as a German brain washing technique and rendered u Sexually incompetent for life.
Come on, so your brother was never cautioned about bringing a pregnant lady home. If your answer is yes then you guys had a very strange upbringing.


The main problem I find with most ladies is that they take responsibility for nothing. Nothing at all. It's never thier fault. They always have somebody to blame. That is total immaturity in my books. And it could be a reason why they never achieve as much as their male counterparts.

Sexually explicit content. (18++)
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My first girlfriend was circumcised. I had seen other vaginas before but never gone round to first base(church things before I became corrupt ). She never had an orgasm but since she was my first she kept encouraging me by making silly noises. Now I may have been a virgin but I knew she was faking it. And it pissed me off. So when we broke up I did some research(both practical and theoretical). I actually took it as a challenge . We reunited a year later and I tried it out. The genuine sexual noises weren't what convinced me I had been successful , it was the juices that flowed out of her(not pee) and the sexuaI seizures she had. We had to change the sheets repeatedly. So you see, I don't need statistics to check if there is a center of gravity or clit-stimulation or all that jazz. I know because I have seen. It isn't faith for me. It's fact.[/size]

This is not something I feel comfortable talking about anyway. I'll stop here unless there are reasonable questions.

No vex. I know when you question a man's sexual prowess, you kill his ego patapata, rotflmao. Vexing only proves me righttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!! So no vex.

coogaluta:

do I know you?

are you not the tall lady that sells bottled-kerosene on lewis street? you sef don dey post for forum?

it's a miracle working God.

I do appreciate that they looked out for us the way they knew how to. My whole point is you can be sexually free without being irresponsible. It has to be seen as something to be done and enjoyed in the right way with proper protection. Not something to feel bad about.

You and coogar have kind of cemented my point. Most of you believe women aren't created to be sexual. And the ladies have believed it too.

And we still wonder why?

Yes you,coogar and others like you are to blame for this catastrophe. You're here saying a lady does not need orgasm as a priority, coogar is saying we are only made as vessels for men to reach orgasm and our parents helped us believe that being a woman has everything to do keeping your sexuality in check because chastity is a virtue only women should primarily possess, YET you want us to take the responsibility for not achieving orgasm? Really? The blame is all on yous not us. So pls.....

And yes, Having an orgasm is a priority to me in addition to the other pleasures that life offers.
Why should I limit myself?

See ya mouth.
Can you live your life without sexual release? Why on earth do you think my own life should be ok without it? Nna park very pls well in one tight corner. After you said all those nice things about sex being give and take and helping your partner get there, you're spoiling it with that line.
If orgasm is not a priority why have sex then?
Only to make babies? That's so Puritan. Bleh

*On the other issues, being cautioned about bringing a pregnant lady home is no way the same thing as being made to believe you've been defiled by the intercourse or your value as a person is reduced by number of times a man has penetrated you. Don't act like you don't know.

Anyway I was not fighting with you. I even agreed with the other parts of your post. So where's the fight?

I won't ask about your gf.

5minsmadness:


Honestly my post wasn't directed at you. I saw some ladies mention sexual repression/African mentality and I went "ugh!". If I want to address you I will. You should know that about me by now.


Having said that^^^^ Everything is not fight. I see Stillfire snidely mentioning me and gearing up for a fight. I'm not up to it right now.


Having an orgasm should not be your priority in life.
Your parents did well to drum the evils of early sexual encounters into your ears and look how well you turned out(pls keep your head from swelling if u can). There are many ladies out there who got thrown out of school following early pregnancies and many more who have had thier wombs destroyed from early unsafe abortions. Surely you won't place those same predicaments on the same scale as your education and honour simply because u want to experience orgasm?

Also I would be hard pressed to believe the lovingingly delivered sexual cautions your parents gave u had the same dubious effect as a German brain washing technique and rendered u Sexually incompetent for life.
Come on, so your brother was never cautioned about bringing a pregnant lady home. If your answer is yes then you guys had a very strange upbringing.


The main problem I find with most ladies is that they take responsibility for nothing. Nothing at all. It's never thier fault. They always have somebody to blame. That is total immaturity in my books. And it could be a reason why they never achieve as much as their male counterparts.

Sexually explicit content. (18++)
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My first girlfriend was circumcised. I had seen other vaginas before but never gone round to first base(church things before I became corrupt ). She never had an orgasm but since she was my first she kept encouraging me by making silly noises. Now I may have been a virgin but I knew she was faking it. And it pissed me off. So when we broke up I did some research(both practical and theoretical). I actually took it as a challenge . We reunited a year later and I tried it out. The genuine sexual noises weren't what convinced me I had been successful , it was the juices that flowed out of her(not pee) and the sexuaI seizures she had. We had to change the sheets repeatedly. So you see, I don't need statistics to check if there is a center of gravity or clit-stimulation or all that jazz. I know because I have seen. It isn't faith for me. It's fact.[/size]

This is not something I feel comfortable talking about anyway. I'll stop here unless there are reasonable questions.