Don't build all your hope and trust on someone hundred percent no matter how promising the relationship looks. Always have it at the back of your mind that people do change.
Don't give up everything you have achieved to be with someone based on promises alone.
Many things to say..but basically people can be very unpredictable

Nothing rather than to enjoy the moments while they last....


Berry

Never kiss and tell.

jomile:
most of it doesn't work with trust either,in a relationship its best not to trust too much or expect too much,cos dat too much can hurt so much,wat is d use of trusting someone at the end dat trust was betrayed

So,.. What's the best approach to relationship?
And when is trust said to be too much in a relationship?

Love is not enough reason to be in a relationship

avoid being too nice to ladies
Be hard on them

Always declare your intentions,don't assume!
Define the relationship.
Don't trust too much or be too dependent .

Chei, na damaged goods full NL

A wife is a companion and helper. All this rshp ish is just for konji.

till tomorrow i am still living with my past experience.. Love is wicked. I am still hurt right now... I just keeping showing love without asking for sex... Many gift and my preciouse time.. Now she just left with no reason.. I fit do bad thing to that girl oooo

Don't accept any bullshit.

Not really..,

presh247:
one other lesson...distant relationships are hard to keep

Lol.... Nna na sharp lesson I learn oh...

Do fast and taste the kpomo because u don't know what nxt.... Ladies are fake Eh....

Abeg take am easy bross.... Just learn ur lessons and move on
Don't need to get frustrated on it...

ochestraone:
till tomorrow i am still living with my past experience.. Love is wicked. I am still hurt right now... I just keeping showing love without asking for sex... Many gift and my preciouse time.. Now she just left with no reason.. I fit do bad thing to that girl oooo

Mine is never to spend on or give your all to a lady like she is already your wife.
Don't trust too much.
Never let the one you are in love with be your sole source of happiness.

presh247:

I agree with you totally...the past should be left in the past no need digging it out

Some ppl unfortunately are so careless, so insensitive, so clueless, so daft, do daft, so childish, so hopeless, so thoughtless, so inconsiderate, so myopic, so dumb, so selfish, so uncreative, so shallow, so lacking in strategy, so immature, so unfeeling, so foolish, so disastrous, do disrespectful, so anti-love, and so utter unprofitable that don't even bring a proper closure to their past when the future beckons. So it's not that the past is being dug up; they did not bury it in the first place!

too many broken hearts on Nairaland

Whatever happens, you will be fine


Never compromise your standards

Love is simply a facade.
Men and women use it to hide their true feelings.
It simply doesn't exist.
The earlier u learn that, the better.

**sips opa eyin**

When you're getting involved with an Ibo girl.

Its best not to allow a man be the main source of your happiness, never trust a man with all your heart and always know that not everyone who says i love you actually care about you.

Have learnt never to let any guy know anything abt my past relationships.

1.Never go extra mile to make a girl happy, they are not worth it. 2.Always keep my options open

Hmmmm,just here for the comment.

I learnt to be resolute when I make decisions.

to set out priorities early and follow it through.

I learnt that love should never trump prudence.

that in matters of style I should move with the current but in matters of principle I should stand like rock.

To find the best partner you have to be one first..

Nothing last 4 ever....n when a girl feels nothing anymore.....believe me even if u shoot at her a million times wit a gun...she wud still feel nutin...and no matter what u put in2 a relationship...do it cuz its right n u want to nt cuz of her

Discuss your expections first, so u won't be at cross-purpose with each other.

i learnt that...everything seems perfect@d start...but later the guy starts neglecting and next thing u have issues after issues then u break up...dats d trend 4 a typical naija relationship...and the guys have 80%of the fault...guys are just too difficult to understand!

jomile:
never trust a guy,nd never give ur all to a guy who treats you like an option

. I wanted to follow you since youre pretty and all but when I saw the number of males youre followin/ I had a rethink

zexzy:
Its best not to allow a man be the main source of your happiness, never trust a man with all your heart and always know that not everyone who says i love you actually care about you.

It goes both ways.