IHate9ja1:

Abi naw,,since you dont feel like sharing....ciao!

Urine:


When you start dating someone, there's always one thing that person really wants from you, don't give out that thing. If you want to know if your partner is the one, how he/she reacts when they can't get what they want gives you an insight into their real personality.

YourMain:


well maybe for you...

vhickky:
prove me wrong.....tell me u are innocent of all this charges....then I would ask u your age and if someone has ever fallen in love with u...

SocialRecluse:
No one's worth it

moski5:

emm I dont agree thats pretty harsh yu kno

SocialRecluse:
We all can't agree on everything, that's your opinion

tommychow:
Relationships with the "right person" isn't enough to make it work BUT...

A relationship with the "right person" at the RIGHT TIME has a better future.

You might meet a good enough person but sometimes the ongoing circumstances won't make it work e.g. doing serious relationship when the hustle is peak. The bae is complaining of lack of attention due to late hours, no phone calls etc., the guy is claiming she a gold digger cos she's selfishly demanding for shopping and seeing movies when it's inconvenient for him.

Niggas foolishly going into relationships cos of just knacks, chicks doing relationships cos she's too damn dependent emotionally and financially. What do y'all expect? Happily ever after? You are that stupid if you're optimistic in such a relationship.

Y'all need to start having a "work hard, play hard" mentality.

starlingbawa:
So much to learn from these comments. A worthwhile thread nonetheless...

SocialRecluse:
No one's worth it

MrIpledge:
Single and searching

MrIpledge:
Single and searching

bayocanny:

Are u the real ipledge?

CoCoLav:


Are you an examiner? How long do you intend to give the test? Thank God you said 'when you start'

Urine:

Well...we both know that test is necessary.

Youngpo413:
I have learnt to run away from any lady who doesn't need anything from me,not even N100 recharge card but will give me all the love,attention and sex I need.

4everGrand:


Ahn an, so does that mean there is disadvantage in a no sex relationship? Meaning a girl's heart won't be with you if there ain't sex?

I feel the reason we (I use 'we' though I'm an exception) guys feel cheated when girls call off a no sex relationship is because we feel we've been 'scammed'. But even when a relationship's got sex involved, girls can still call it off, so wats the big deal?

To us (relative still), bedding the girl's a trophy. But me thinks it beclouds proper judgment esp when you wanna make it a serious relationship.

Just my 2kobo. Nor flay me o.

ennyscongy:
What I learnt? Hmm, lemme see. 1. Even if you love her, never display it all, show 30 percent emotion. 2. Display some habits of being a bad boi. 3. Never foolishly spend in love, you will/might regret it later. 4. Hustle for your life. 5. Have it at the back of your mind, not all relationships work out, saves the heart ache. 6, like one dude said, *work hard, play hard*. 7. Never be a nice guy, girls take advantage of guys being too nice. Just my 2 cents

Godvilla:
Ur opinion... Rubbish
sex is not everything a relationship needs to thrive

SleekyPosh:

Nyc 1n

joshrare:


No...I disagree..
If a relationship can end coz of the absence of sex, it therefore means it is a basic ingredient for the relationship to thrive....

You can add if you wish, no problem

ennyscongy:


Your profile picture na die ooo

IHate9ja1:

So true,but they have an exclusive taste in all things....abi i lie?

DrGroove:

It's actually money n pusy
Men want pusy, women want money

When both are getting that,no issues.. they claim to be in love.... Once one person stops the supply or hoards the product, the other person also stops supply n That's d end.... Love is scam n deceit

crowns2:


True Love doesn't exist? But when the emotional feeling starts building up and you can't control it what then do we do? I hate to fall in love...I hate hate it. It only rewards with unimaginable pain in the heart at the end of the day. Worse thing is that there is no pill to take that can cure this indescribable pain What is love if someone who claims to love is not ready to stick the whole none yards, through thick and thin, through pain, through hurt only to remain when there is laughter?! And run off when there is a challenge or misunderstanding? Not ready to work it through to see that the relationship works out all cost? Not ready to put pride and ego aside for what you believed in from the very beginning? Tell me isn't true love supposed to remain even when we are hurt? Must it only exist when we are laughing and making love. Do long lasting relationships which have lasted for many years remain so because they were happy everyday?
WHAT IS THE SECRET OF LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIPS?