For common sence, text CoSence to 21602 and wait for 24hrs, each sence cost 100 naira...

Raymondenyi:
my sister, ibeg mek u sponsor me, go do my masters finish, then I go come back jilt you, ibeg leave karma to deal with me, ill appreciate...

hehehehe. Bros I feel u jore!

Raymondenyi:
my sister, ibeg mek u sponsor me, go do my masters finish, then I go come back jilt you, ibeg leave karma to deal with me, ill appreciate...

That's not the point
Besides, you dunno their story.
When emotions are involved, common sense is not common.

yorubaboiy:
ishe aye ni...ko kin se ejo won

As in ehn

Houseofglam7:



That's not the point
Besides, you dunno their story.
When emotions are involved, common sense is not common.

Dear, more often than not its suicide or culpable homicide that ends stories like these.

As far as I'm concerned, that's an extremely foolish risk the dude's taking

4everGrand:


Dear, more often than not its suicide or culpable homicide that ends stories like these.

As far as I'm concerned, that's an extremely foolish risk the dude's taking

Yeah.... He's probably taking foolhardy to the next level, but then, who am I to judge?

Story story

On Nairaland, you will get to know that poverty is not just lack of cash, but lack of common sense. So, Op, what if the gal comes back to marry the guy and even do greater things for him? What if? Why using the word NEVER when talking about other people's lives...You see and know all? What of the countless women who have invested in their men and are not crying about it..

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Btw, before you quote me, ensure that :
1) You are a man, not a boy, since I know that real, hardworking men don't cry and whine about money issues the way little boys do on this forum.
2) Your dinner tonight is not coming from your mother's pot and you work and take care of yourself, all by yourself, with no help from mummy and daddy.
3) Check number two again.

yorubaboiy:
lol..make dem carry this go F.P now....e be like say na cc ishilove dey duty today

Lol. She be constable? Abi officer?

semitunde:


Lol. She be constable? Abi officer?

u should have spaced her moniker....u wan kobalize me

I dey proud!

standd:
On Nairaland, you will get to know that poverty is not just lack of cash, but lack of common sense. So, Op, what if the gal comes back to marry the guy and even do greater things for him? What if? Why using the word NEVER when talking about other people's lives...You see and know all? What of the countless women who have invested in their men and are not crying about it..

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Btw, before you quote me, ensure that :
1) You are a man, not a boy, since I know that real, hardworking men don't cry and whine about money issues the way little boys do on this forum.
2) Your dinner tonight is not coming from your mother's pot and you work and take care of yourself, all by yourself, with no help from mummy and daddy.
3) Check number two again.

sori gbogbo nkan to so pata....radarada ni

bsides wat u sed.can only happen in a nollywood movie.....or in ur dream

MrsChima:
I dey proud!

of wat

yorubaboiy:
sori gbogbo nkan to so pata....radarada ni

bsides wat u sed.can only happen in a nollywood movie.....or in ur dream

Motigbo yorubaboiy...bawo ni? Why do you guys keep whining about money and women issues though, haven't you learned from Oshiomole and co?

yorubaboiy:
of wat

of that female maga!

standd:


Motigbo yorubaboiy...bawo ni? Why do you guys keep whining about money and women issues though, haven't you learned from Oshiomole and co?

its like u dont understand......in a case like dat of the op dey are both struggling and not rich yet.
av experienced frm oda pple experiences...dose gals never came back and this wont be an option as the case maybe

MrsChima:


of that female maga!

magarer ir magalee

standd:
On Nairaland, you will get to know that poverty is not just lack of cash, but lack of common sense. So, Op, what if the gal comes back to marry the guy and even do greater things for him? What if? Why using the word NEVER when talking about other people's lives...You see and know all? What of the countless women who have invested in their men and are not crying about it..

***
Btw, before you quote me, ensure that :
1) You are a man, not a boy, since I know that real, hardworking men don't cry and whine about money issues the way little boys do on this forum.
2) Your dinner tonight is not coming from your mother's pot and you work and take care of yourself, all by yourself, with no help from mummy and daddy.
3) Check number two again.

I don't know why u had to personalise d story; n attack me; if u had read properly; u would understand I am a man of my own; n fend for myself, I work hard for my money,value it and thus can never lavish itt "foolishly" on a lady, even if she's bethroted to me, theyy have to be limits (I believe this is the conventional and rational definition of a man)...
But if ur description of manhood is someone that,would rather use the money he sold from little asssets to look for any woman to sponsor and add value to her life while his is acutely lacking in all ramification... Sorry ma; I'm still a boi; and will want to be till christ comes...
I hope u also have a man u are sponsoring abroad after selling ur assets; so u can be termed " mature Woman" (by ur standards)

Raymondenyi:
I don't know why u had to personalise d story; n attack me; if u had read properly; u would understand I am a man of my own; n fend for myself, I work hard for my money,value it and thus can never lavish itt "foolishly" on a lady, even if she's bethroted to me, theyy have to be limits (I believe this is the conventional and rational definition of a man)...
But if ur description of manhood is someone that,would rather use the money he sold from little asssets to look for any woman to sponsor and add value to her life while his is acutely lacking in all ramification... Sorry ma; I'm still a boi; and will want to be till christ comes...
I hope u also have a man u are sponsoring abroad after selling ur assets; so u can be termed " mature Woman" (by ur standards)

Pls sir, I don't know you, I didn't mention your name anywhere and I don't know why you quoted me to type this long comprehension passage. Bye.

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Modified..
Ok, you are the Op
Goodnight

Very common in South Eastern Nigeria
Illiterate men be training ladies to become graduates for marriage


Don't be surprised the said lady comes back n marries him.. As long as he got the money


Go to the East,u heard Female Doctors,Lawyers, Professor marry primary or secondary school cert holders or drop outs


Money is the koko

DrGroove:
Very common in South Eastern Nigeria
Illiterate men be training ladies to become graduates for marriage


Don't be surprised the said lady comes back n marries him.. As long as he got the money


Go to the East,u heard Female Doctors,Lawyers, Professor marry primary or secondary school cert holders or drop outs


Money is the koko

dr. Groov; how u dey?

Raymondenyi:
dr. Groov; how u dey?

Cool

Are u guys saying human being should not help themselves again?...
If I sponsor any lady home or abroad and she disappoint me. I won't care....

Karma will judge us....

idu1:
Are u guys saying human being should not help themselves again?...

If I sponsor any lady home or abroad and she disappoint me. I won't care....


Karma will judge us....

The annoying part is that those who do this are not so financially buoyant. Instead investing the money in a business or setting their mum up, they spend it on a girl, without any guarantee of marriage. Even if you can afford it, its still a bad idea. Nobody likes to be a maga.

FLAWLES:
And what the op refuses to have is COMMON SENSE..... Not all girls er like vhat,you don't knw the ROPE-RELATIONSHIP between both...i have a friend who s happily married wit kids.the guy trained d gal through medical school in abroad,,she finish.got a job there and shez working.if u be mumu na em u go jam mumu,,,the tin s guys don't look before they enter,SImPLE

taaaaa mechipu onu nsi,millennium Yahoo Yahoo na en b dis one.

OrlandoOwoh:
Even after marrying a lady I won't sponsor her education abroad. It must be in Naija.

Naija or Overseas, as long as there's a distance between you guys, it wouldn't stop anyone from cheating if they want to.

It's a mind and thought process. I thought you should know...

Cheers!

starlingbawa:


Naija or Overseas, as long as there's a distance between you guys, it wouldn't stop anyone from cheating if they want to.

It's a mind and thought process. I thought you should know...

Cheers!

Schooling in Nigeria is a must. The school will be in the same town where we live. I'll be taking her to classes when I have time.

FLAWLES:
And what the op refuses to have is COMMON SENSE..... Not all girls er like vhat,you don't knw the ROPE-RELATIONSHIP between both...i have a friend who s happily married wit kids.the guy trained d gal through medical school in abroad,,she finish.got a job there and shez working.if u be mumu na em u go jam mumu,,,the tin s guys don't look before they enter,SImPLE

You're only sounding selfish cos you are one of the heartless girls . Can you allow your brother who's not educated to sell his property to train a girl abroad ? Not that your brother has a steady source of income ? Not like he is already married to her ? Think before you support some things

standd:


Pls sir, I don't know you, I didn't mention your name anywhere and I don't know why you quoted me to type this long comprehension passage. Bye.

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Modified..
Ok, you are the Op
Goodnight

but finally sis.. U no well..

Hmmm the love is strong in this one.

But most cases, the benefiting party (the girl) always moves on and the sponsor gets left behind.

But the guy sha na serious risk taker

Raymondenyi:
My fellow Nairalanders make I nack una tory ....

A guy came into my office today, with a young girl, seeking a vaccination clearance card for the young girl, supposedly for an admission she has secured with a medical school in Norway. the said young man that came with her, happen to be the guy that wants to marry her , when she finishes her education and returns home
The supposed tuition fee and many other financial burden the guy is undertaking.

My Concerns...

This guy that is doing this happen not to be very educated, living in the rural community where i work, the money he is using for this, are funds he got from the land he sold, and heaven knows that girl he's sponsoring will never come back for him , after she gets to Norway, gets trained as a doctor, meets others alike, gets exposed. She definitely won't see the guy as her match.

My question, re guys still this foolish in this contemporary times and Age?

Raymondenyi:
My fellow Nairalanders make I nack una tory ....

A guy came into my office today, with a young girl, seeking a vaccination clearance card for the young girl, supposedly for an admission she has secured with a medical school in Norway. the said young man that came with her, happen to be the guy that wants to marry her , when she finishes her education and returns home
The supposed tuition fee and many other financial burden the guy is undertaking.

My Concerns...

This guy that is doing this happen not to be very educated, living in the rural community where i work, the money he is using for this, are funds he got from the land he sold, and heaven knows that girl he's sponsoring will never come back for him , after she gets to Norway, gets trained as a doctor, meets others alike, gets exposed. She definitely won't see the guy as her match.

My question, re guys still this foolish in this contemporary times and Age?

His concern is not your concern and he doesn't even know about your concerns for his concern..

DrGroove:

Cool

I think I know you, u worked at BMSH Right?