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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by coolcharm(m): 12:10pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Eh? Hooker? Hmm that one is strong o. I'd rather she told me. So I can find out if my love for her has enough shock absorbers to keep us going. Aswear,if I find out somehow by my self, na only she go carry herself waka go. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by benedictac(f): 12:11pm On May 28, 2015 |
hopeforcharles: I don't see any reason why I should be telling him for no reason, but if he ever asks I will tell him the truth. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by BABE3: 12:12pm On May 28, 2015 |
No relationship can truly grow if you go on holding back. If you remain clever and go on safeguarding yourself, only personalities meet, and the essential centers remain alone. Then only your mask is related, not you. Whenever such things happen, there are four persons in a relationship, not two. Two false persons go on meeting, and two real people remain world apart. That's why it's hard to find a TRUE relationship of any kind. Different masks, hidden secrets, all built on a false foundation. We all know the thing about lies; you tell one lie, you need 200 lies to cover it up. ![]() Then again, the ultimate goal of most is to get/remain married or attached to someone. To most, that goal surpasses the importance of a meaningful and true relationship. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 9jatatafo(m): 12:13pm On May 28, 2015 |
Even if the child she is carrying is not her husband's own she should keep it secret? Damn this is evil. A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secret 6 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Cryxtal(f): 12:14pm On May 28, 2015 |
hopeforcharles:Maybe u are different. But not every man thinks that way 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by SisterCaro(m): 12:18pm On May 28, 2015 |
I can see many comments about people with dirty secrets talking about openness and honesty, biko where is your own openness and honesty? Im not saying its not good to be open and honest but its very easy for someone with a bruised face to give a solution to a mole on another's back. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by ArchEnemy(m): 12:18pm On May 28, 2015 |
Gaborone:who is this angel? 5 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Trottle: 12:20pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:what if he is a virgin? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by KENNSAMMY(m): 12:21pm On May 28, 2015 |
by the time i get to knw those secretes, i will believe there are still numerous other secrete capable of subverting the peace of the family. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by tellwisdom: 12:21pm On May 28, 2015 |
The women on family section too talk. ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by SisterCaro(m): 12:22pm On May 28, 2015 |
BABE3:you have always been 100 in all your relationships? 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 9jatatafo(m): 12:22pm On May 28, 2015 |
BABE3: We all have secrets and some secrets should be secret provided it don't affect the relationship. I don't care how many men my wife dated before I met her but she has to be sincere to me the moment we started dating and I will do same. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 28, 2015 |
jmoore: I know virgins who are more adept at giving blowwjobs than veteran hookers; virgins with loose rectums. Dey dia dey mumu yourself. All of it only boils down to what this thread encourages; speak not the truth. 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:24pm On May 28, 2015 |
kilode100: Marriage should not be built on fraud. Any information that you feel may impact the decision on whether or not to sign the dotted lines should be revealed to the other party to enable them make a decision with a clear mind. Anything outside that is fraud and should not be encouraged. There are many that can handle what you just wrote and there are many that cannot. Let them make the decision for themselves and not you. Any marriage built on fraud will go down in disaster. Some in 1 month, some in 5 years and some in 20 years. Choose your timeline. God does not bless fraud. 14 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:24pm On May 28, 2015 |
Gaborone: 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:25pm On May 28, 2015 |
1stCitizen: Exactly. 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 28, 2015 |
I hope nairaland men are seeing this open call to cuckoldry? ![]() TV01 Coogar Pickabeau1. Your thoughts are needed in this gem of a thread. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: The men too ought to confess. That they are doing the wrong thing shouldn't make it acceptable. 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by joseph1832(m): 12:26pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Are you now saying men are the only one who taunt their wives and women don't do such?. 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by stepo707: 12:27pm On May 28, 2015 |
well for me i normally ask direct questions, and since i know i have done some bad things, i come clean and would expect my gf,fiance or wife to do same.There is what we call karma, and so if she lies and karma comes knocking, she will be on her own.But if she had told me all, then i can always be with here and protect her. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 2scorehigh(m): 12:27pm On May 28, 2015 |
Well, I'll say it depends on the type of man you have and how powerful his psychological bulletproof is. But as for me, hmmmmm, it's a different ball game altogether and there's no way out. Nne, whatever you tell me will be used against you. Whatever you don't tell me will be used against you. So think about that carefully before you start blabbling. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by jmoore(m): 12:30pm On May 28, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Of course you always know them, you also know the name of animals that live on Mars. All virgins give blowjobs? Dey dia dey mumu yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by BABE3: 12:30pm On May 28, 2015 |
SisterCaro: No. Definitely not. I'll be the first to admit. Oh, I wear my masks. However, it's something I'm trying hard to change. Lies of any kind is burden. It's beautiful when you have someone you don't have to wear your masks around. It's even more beautiful when you don't need those masks at all. The truth hurts because we've been forced to believe lies. 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:31pm On May 28, 2015 |
The ashawo part maybe difficult to keep because the woman will live in perpetual anxiety of being found out. The woman must have a strong mind for this kind of secret unfortunately such things have a way of coming to light. All things can be forgiven with the right person. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by duran2059(m): 12:32pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:The way you reason sha! ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 28, 2015 |
jmoore: You may choose to ignore reality, it doesn't mean it's not reality, though. After all, Onila is a virgin, isn't she? 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by AZeD1(m): 12:33pm On May 28, 2015 |
How do you build a marriage on fraud and deceit? If you cannot be open, then don't expect your partner to be open. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by SisterCaro(m): 12:34pm On May 28, 2015 |
BABE3:Its always easier to give advice we have never lived by ourselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by BABE3: 12:35pm On May 28, 2015 |
9jatatafo: hmm. I hear that all the time. Do we all have secrets or its just something we tell ourselves to make ourselves feel better about our secrets? 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by hopeforcharles(m): 12:35pm On May 28, 2015 |
Cryxtal:True talk. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by emmanude(m): 12:36pm On May 28, 2015 |
The best way to live before or after marriage is to stay as clean as possible,we are all humans tho,prone to bleep up every now and then,but we should all THINK b4 we do,because what ever is hidden no matter how deep could be revealed sonner or later.... an honest opinion. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by BABE3: 12:36pm On May 28, 2015 |
SisterCaro: I wasn't giving an advice. I was airing my thoughts. I never said anyone "should" or "must" do anything in my post. 2 Likes |
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