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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by bukatyne(f): 1:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
1stCitizen: Do you confess all your sins to the people around or your wife or partner? Did you read anywhere Paul confessed his sins of persecution to the church? Did the woman caught in adultery confess to the wives affected or her husband? I am not against openness in marriage, in fact, we both came out clean on everything from the beginning and within the relationship and now marriage but again, There was really not much to confess. I believe in situations like This as with restitution, pray to God for direction. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 1:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
9jatatafo: Funny how people are quick to cast aspersions because others have simpler standards This is not about being clean, it's about knowing that you should always be prepared to take responsibility for your actions. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Krisddon: 1:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:You are a suspect! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 1:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: And I agree in toto There are necessary and unnecessary confessions |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by thorpido(m): 1:53pm On May 28, 2015 |
freecocoa:How can one tell if nothing went wrong?Most times you only find out something is wrong when a couple starts trying to conceive.It may not be a direct cause of the infertility but it's better to let your partner know. *It's a hard thing and that is why i always preach protection to young girls.Don't let any guy tell you he doesn't like condoms,it's your body at the end of it all.There are so many ways to prevent pregnancy.Get knowledge. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 1luvmypple: 1:54pm On May 28, 2015 |
The truth is.... If a man cheats with 100 girls, u won't see any of them pointing at him in public places saying "i have slept with that man". Even if any of them does, they'll still be the ones that would be ashamed. But imagine yourself as a woman and you go out to somwhere with your husband and there is a man there who has slept with you and he starts whispering to his friends that "i don sleep with that man wife" and your husband gets to hear it which is an embarassment to him. If you've not told him before now, he might take it on you when you guys get home. For a girl to keep herself is not solely because of her husband but herselfworth. I can't believe i cannot even write proper english. Na 9ja school cause am. But all this are just my #opiniontho. Ntin justifies cheating weather male or female. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 1:55pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:You see what you fail to understand?? Matt 19:5 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife: [size=28pt] and the two shall be one flesh.[/size] If you want to cover it up by fornication is a sin against your body then you should confess to your husband because you sinned against his body!! You are one flesh with him. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Krisddon: 1:56pm On May 28, 2015 |
hopeforcharles:This ur bullets no be rubber ones oh! u kill my battery gan! *Finds* not “founds”. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 1:57pm On May 28, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Exactly People are already doing this males and females so this is not a new concept |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by 1luvmypple: 1:58pm On May 28, 2015 |
The truth is.... If a man cheats with 100 girls, u won't see any of them pointing at him in public places saying "i have slept with that man". Even if any of them does, they'll still be the ones that would be ashamed. But imagine yourself as a woman and you go out to somwhere with your husband and there is a man there who has slept with you and he starts whispering to his friends that "i don sleep with that man wife" and your husband gets to hear it which is an embarassment to him. If you've not told him before now, he might take it on you when you guys get home. For a girl to keep herself is not solely because of her husband but herselfworth. I no even understand wetin me dey write sef. Abg make una no vex. All this are just my #opiniontho. Ntin justifies cheating weather you are male or female. #stayfaithfultoyourpartner. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Cutehector(m): 1:58pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:erm I dnt realy agree wit u on dat.. U see, wen it comes to issues of gettn pregnant, and the man isn't the problem, he will begin to get curios, and be like is she hiding anythn frm me? Maybe she may hav had some ugly experiences in d past dats makin her not to conceive.. In my own case, I'd rather advice she opens up to me.. Just so I knw how to tackle d problem 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Evina(f): 1:59pm On May 28, 2015 |
Ploutos: Sir, all the elders have spoken. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 2:01pm On May 28, 2015 |
if he finds it difficult to let things go, I aint even snitching . In fact, I am not telling, kilode gaan He obviously isn't telling all about himself and I aint really bothered We berra learn each other on-the-go |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by FemiFaniKayode: 2:01pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: will you be open to telling your new husband why your first marriage failed? 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Krisddon: 2:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
Girls and dirty life! In less than 1hr dis thread don enta 32nd page and all na girls dey comment ah!! 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 2:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
Evina:Lol. I understand. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Ngokafor(f): 2:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
...i pity a lady with a colourful pastl who would spill everything about her past.. ..the average Nigerian male CANNOT handle the truth about their partner's past sexually.. ..heck they cant even handle things that are no fault of their partners,e.g rape..how much more a randy past.. ..just be sure your things are packed when you embark on your 'confessions'.. ...If Ignorance is bliss,it is foolish to be wise..full stop. 6 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by FemiFaniKayode: 2:03pm On May 28, 2015 |
Krisddon: i dey tell you. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 2:03pm On May 28, 2015 |
Cutehector: FYI,in a study in Nigeria 42% of inability to conceive was due to male infertility All that herbal drinks and wearing tight pants and underwear plus other abnormalities It is barbaric to pin infertility on a woman This is 2015 Research has given us the true picture 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by RuuDie(m): 2:04pm On May 28, 2015 |
@ OP... are you saying, "the man hasn't opened his own can of worms, so why should the woman open hers!!?" If this is your assertion, then you need to realize that conscience plays a very big role here! 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Cutehector(m): 2:07pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:lol babyosisi let's leave studies alone.. Let's fix our mind on a woman who has d inability to conceiv a child.. Provided all study cases are true.. How will u feel as the husband in question |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by tivta(m): 2:12pm On May 28, 2015 |
SisterCaro:YES, every single thing. As for her I have to keep on nagging her to tell me about hers but she is quick to tell me when its important. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by chillbabe(f): 2:14pm On May 28, 2015 |
I don't agree in keeping secrets in relationship not to talk of marriage. When u tell your partner everything and he or she used it against u means the person is immature. U need to feel save to the one u say I DO to. I don't believe in secrets. 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by sage2(m): 2:16pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Fixed. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by babygirlfl: 2:17pm On May 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: Exactly. That's the reason I said that when they remember honesty and quote the bible, they are talking to the woman only. Is it not the same nairaland men here saying women should be honest that said married men can cheat on their wife discreetly because according to them what a woman does not know will not kill her. As a Nigerian woman, you have to be very wise and do what you want to do without thinking of what people will say. 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by hopeforcharles(m): 2:17pm On May 28, 2015 |
Krisddon:thanks for d correctn, dt language no be my papa own gan. As long as u understand my intentions we have communicated then. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 2:21pm On May 28, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Didn't a woman tell a story on this thread many pages over about her marriage counseling Pastor asked them to confess to one another She was a virgin and when it came to him,he was mute Even the virgins sef You don't have to tell how many blow jobs you gave and how many people palpated you and auscultated you and did everything except enter Jericho All na fornication o You are a virgin,nwagbogho na Amaghi nwoke Full stop |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Malazzy: 2:21pm On May 28, 2015 |
At least you were not kicked out of the house. It could have been worse if your man found out himself. kilode100: |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by ApexTitan(m): 2:23pm On May 28, 2015 |
jmoore: Correct guy! 25 litres of petrol for you. That's the way to go. Not all women are fit for marriage. Marry a virgin or a girl with a low number count. Women with a large number (i.e n>4) are a risk for long term/monogamous relationships. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by ERCROSS(m): 2:25pm On May 28, 2015 |
Mynd44: Howdy broh... Ur face scarce for hia these days ooo... |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 2:25pm On May 28, 2015 |
bukatyne: Why would Paul confess when he was a known butcher. Did he have a partner and was it written that she did not know him well? On the case of the woman...you just wrote that she was CAUGHT Someone that was caught now confessing makes no sense. The point we are making here is if you enter any relationship, be it personal or business or a more serious thing like marriage, get into it devoid of fraud or the relationship will be cursed from day one. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Setaje(f): 2:28pm On May 28, 2015 |
kilode100: Hahahahahahahhahahaha. 1 Like |
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