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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by benedictac(f): 4:27pm On May 28, 2015 |
hopeforcharles: I know, but there are somethings that are better kept. things that u are not proud of. I could understand if it is the issue of having a child/ren , or married before as a divorcée, widow and things like that but things like I was once a prostitute, a runs girl, drug trafficker all that is really not called for. to be on a safe side I could just tell him like " I have done some stupid things in the past that I'm not really proud of and are bad memories I just hate to remember. anyway thank God this is me" and all I have to do is to be real me and be the good girl. We've all had our bad memories which of course we don't want to remember. My on opinion sha ! Anyway, the saying goes different strokes for different folks. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:27pm On May 28, 2015 |
Ngokafor: And why in the world should a man be required to handle any such rubbish from a woman's past? Shouldn't he be at liberty to choose to stay or not to? *smh 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by solonazzy: 4:29pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: from ma view,b4 it gets to dat stage, u must hav known each other well.....if he asks, d best is to tell d truth.....or half truth.....so wen he finds out d total truth, u went b too far off...bt if he doesn't ask, den DR's no telling...I started loving ma gf more wen she told me very deep things she thought I culdnt handle...n as far as I kno, I'll marry her |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by charles316: 4:32pm On May 28, 2015 |
Kimoni: Outperforming men? Do not wake from your dream. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:32pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: For real!!! Now you take this scenario. As a young man in university,money was tight,father and mother poor,living in a one room at overall Osogbo You are in final year at UNILAG. You decide to get in mini-importation to make ends meet but sales are not coming in. Somebody comes and tells you there is one babalawo near his village that can produce charms to make your business grow. The babalawo tells you to molest 4 children under the age of 7 and bring the ejaculated semen to him to prepare some diabolic portion, he tells you there is a catch and you will never be able to have children. You give in after much persuasion from your friend and frustration. Fast forward 2 months later you become a big boy to your utter amazement and carry on to graduate and start big time importation owning a fleet of cars and choice properties around Lagos and Abuja. Two years later you meet Temitope. You love her dearly and she loves you too. You guys have sworn to get married. She is eager to have kids for you during this time but after 4 years of dating no show!. She is approaching her late 30's and is under pressure from her family to get married. All this time the babalawo's words keep haunting you. Your friends who visited the babalawo are also suffering the same fate. Do you tell her the truth? Or defraud her by going ahead to marry her to sentence her to a childless life? STOP ENCOURAGING FRAUD!!! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Kimoni: 4:33pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: I have no pity for women who share naked pictures So so steeewpid I can't even allow my husband of how many years to take naked pictures of moi For wetin naa talkless of sending to one boyfriend |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by abbey621(m): 4:33pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: I suggest you look up the difference between a relationship and a marriage. Let me keep it simple cos I hate going back and forth. In business before investing, an investor likes to make an informed decision by calculating all the risks, if the company or person being invested in does not disclose past misdeeds, the result could be catastrophic! I still maintain my stance, I'd rather hear the gist from my girl than from an outsider! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:34pm On May 28, 2015 |
1stCitizen: A babalawo's curse can be easily broken by prayers Go to a spirit filled church for deliverance and his powers will have no hold on you This one is actually a testimony IMHO I promise you hardly any nigerian man will tell any intended wife this story 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by BABE3: 4:34pm On May 28, 2015 |
Timbuktou: that's the selfish part. Not allowing your partner have a say in wanting you or not. Na by force ? This is akin to forcing someone to marry the IDEA of you. like I said, the goal to get/stay married is greater than having meaningful relationships in most homes. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Pakingzzz(m): 4:35pm On May 28, 2015 |
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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:37pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Good. I was waiting for that. You visit 10 churches in Nigeria and South Africa behind her back to no avail. I repeat. Do you tell or defraud her by marrying her? STOP ENCOURAGING FRAUD!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:37pm On May 28, 2015 |
abbey621: There are times you will hear no gists from anyone including outsiders and the only one you hear is the one she tells so she can decide not to tell it. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by abbey621(m): 4:38pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Every girl I've been with I've disclosed to my current partner, even before we got serious. It helps them make an informed decision, they can decide if they want to stay or not, that's the premise behind honesty! When I first start a relationship, I ask lots of personal details, some girls have been heart broken thru no fault of their own, their stories helps me understand the situation better. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by abbey621(m): 4:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Are you willing to take that risk? Watching your back for the rest of your life hoping that someone somewhere does not blabber? Wouldn't it be easier to just be honest? 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Kimoni: 4:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
charles316: My dear, believe whatever makes you sleep at night ooo ~ This is Africa ~ It's a man's world ~ It pays men to cheat but not women ~ My wife is virgin(like Osho baba believes ) Imagine Osho baba that is a master in this ashana business boasting he married a virgin Virgin ko, Vagina ni 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
1stCitizen: I hate to derail my thread to babalawo issues Back on focus |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by hopeforcharles(m): 4:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
VintageCocktail:U are kinda on point, but hmm on some issues it is necessary, because if u have done the deed be ready for the time. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 28, 2015 |
BABE3: Omo chop knuckle jor! 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by charles316: 4:41pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: 4 Likes
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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by hopeforcharles(m): 4:41pm On May 28, 2015 |
benedictac:You are in point too, one shouldn't do what one can't own up to when the consequences start coming 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:42pm On May 28, 2015 |
abbey621: And you ended up leaving all these girls after a point and moved on abi [size=18pt]Una don see am,evidence before your eyes [/size] Girls,keep some of these stories to yourselves This is the evidence that you should It doesn't add anything to you but removes from you You will be merely spreading your stories from person to person To what avail? End of discussion 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:45pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: I thought confession and repentance are prerequisites of deliverance, no? This is akin to someone insisting on being forgiven without confessing the offence 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by cococandy(f): 4:47pm On May 28, 2015 |
Don't mind them babyosisi: 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:47pm On May 28, 2015 |
Kimoni: It is these same men hyperventilating that a woman has to tell every detail of her last life that will manipulate stupeed naive girls to prove their love to them by sending them those pictures. Same mechanism 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:48pm On May 28, 2015 |
cococandy: Nne I am in soup o I forgot to rub deodorant and I don come work Chai That is another thread o I feel so uncomfortable Can't wait for lunch time to run to the store I changed handbags and didn't transfer my carry on one Abomination |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: gatcha 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by crackhaus: 4:53pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:With the exception of number one which shows you may still have a few nuts screwed on tight, no sane person who wants to have a good fruitful marriage should ever have to pay attention to these other two and probably any other advice you give, honestly... I'm outta here. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:55pm On May 28, 2015 |
naijababe: How can you ask forgiveness foR something that has nothing to do with the person You are conflating two issues If I have forgiven myself of my past and God has wiped them away and remembers them no more as He says, the man owes me no forgiveness so why would I be looking for forgiveness that I don't need? 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by VintageCocktail(m): 4:55pm On May 28, 2015 |
hopeforcharles:Some issues bro that is the underlying word here, not singing like a canary. These issues are best revealed at gunpoint, when you ain't got any other choice, when somebody you love is about to die or meet an untoward accident ,when they are choking you to reveal.... Got someone who revealed the number of abortions the ex wife committed after the marriage fall apart, and also communicated to the asshole-of a husband that the mother had a mild mental problem due to stress a long time ago but the SOB broadcasted the intimate talks to the whole breadth and length of the community and the lady is now seen as persona non granta by all and sundry. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by BABE3: 4:55pm On May 28, 2015 |
naijababe: I don chop am. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by jnrbayano(m): 4:58pm On May 28, 2015 |
Gaborone, You are indeed blessed with a very rare wisdom. Keep it up friend. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 4:59pm On May 28, 2015 |
VintageCocktail: Human beings are wicked I tell you What are her chances of remarriage in that vicinity? Nil Women ought to be as gentle as doves and as wise as serpents Wisdom is a gift and God says if you lack it,ask and he will give it freely I told of a woman that opened up to her husband and confessed and is now the butt of jokes Even women whose husbands are all over town are also talking Imagine that People should learn from other people's mistakes 5 Likes |
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