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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by crackhaus: 5:00pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:Oh lawdy lawd, someone typed this and called it advice. Lmao... Anyway, I already know the kind of women that will read this and see nothing wrong with it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:00pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: You said A babalawo's curse can be easily broken by prayers And I am asking you how one can expect deliverance without confession ? 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by chybykee(m): 5:01pm On May 28, 2015 |
angelTI: Perchi Perchi |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:03pm On May 28, 2015 |
naijababe: And that confession is to the fiancée or wife or between him and his God ? 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:04pm On May 28, 2015 |
kenex4ever: Abegi!!! You faked your certificate and got a plum job thereafter decided to ask God to forgive you but still continued on the job. Even started paying 50% of your wages from the fraudulently gotten job as tithe. Nna, God wey go punish you eh! 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by nicerod(m): 5:04pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:aunty our women cannot keep their mouths shut when they'r inlove. Ther's this gal i just met,3weeks in2 d relationshp i'v known half of her past. Women cnt kip shut dia mouths when dey'r in lov |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:05pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: His past is affecting her present, so yes, that confession is not only for God's ears but the wife's too 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 28, 2015 |
nicerod:[size=18pt] Una see wetin I dey talk[/size] 3weeks and a girl has told her whole life history For what? That is why I want girls to use their heads Women keep your diarrhea mouths shut Zip it You ain't getting no medals for your stories You are destroying your own selves with this talkativeness Keep it to yourselves Love should not be synonymous with foolishness 5 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:07pm On May 28, 2015 |
Kimoni: Hahahhahahaha. I heard osho baba's wife gist o. Mehn, men are soooo gullible. Just be beautiful and lie that you are virgin they will just lick your feet. Who does osho baba think he is deceiving with the 'Virgin story'? For im mind e wise well well bypassing nigerian women to marry a foreigner after sleeping with so many Edo state university babes. Infact his s.excapades are well known all over edo state and girls can tell the size of his organ sef. I read a blog where girls were washing his dirty linen. Chai! After trying so hard to avoid a runz babe, he ended up with one for a wife. My belief is men that think they are soooo smart living anyhow lives usually end up with ladies who are just like them. Cunning man die, cunning woman bury am o. You have a very bad lifestyle feeling like a cat with 9 lives, life will throw at you someone who is just like you. Karma works o. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:11pm On May 28, 2015 |
No man comes to a woman to ask ,nne did you do ashawo work So why should the woman mention ashawo when there is no ashawo in the picture Who asked you? If you haven't asked God to cleanse you go and do so and if your heart is contrite,he forgives you and once he has forgiven it,you are forgiven and pure again The ashawo is dead and buried So why bring it up again So that what will happen? But if by your ashawority,you lost your Fallopian tubes,that is another story Tell him you made mistakes and had ectopics and your tubes are gone You don't have to mention ashawo still 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:14pm On May 28, 2015 |
SHARIAREPORTERS:just remember that a lot of virgin girls perform a lot of MouthAction with different men because to them its not really sex, I just laugh when they say that because this goes to show that they aren't really keeping it because they fear God but because they want their future husbands to think they are angels and they would never tell u about all the MouthAction they gave and received. not all virgin girls do this but ive noticed it with most of them. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:15pm On May 28, 2015 |
jadelyn007: You know i've always wondered how someone cheats ''mistakenly Like the man landed on you by mistake, and his hips started moving by mistake....and you enjoy the thrill of the moment by mistake Besides if you keep cheating on your spouse by mistake And he nabs you by mistake He might mistakenly break up with you .........even if you occasionally feel sorry for wat you did....you make it sound like 'its just infidelity..nothing serious...I'll probably try my best no to do it next time,' 4 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:17pm On May 28, 2015 |
Nori: Some virgins are specialists in taking it in the nyash All na virgin Abeg talk something else You give BJ and the man uses his electric fingers in return,all na virgins o Some men are so gullible 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by shrekandfiona: 5:18pm On May 28, 2015 |
Mehn! This na real end time thread Ladies, honesty is always the best policy. If you can't do the time don't do the crime. If your hubby or fiancé asks you specific questions of your past, be honest about it. Truthfulness is not necessarily for the other party but for you. It liberates your soul. Let me use myself as an example. When I was still courting my hubby, he asked specific questions on abortion, guys I had slept with, any diseases etc and I answered all truthfully. We still got married. If I had lied, he may have found out and the marriage may not have held. However, don't go all chatterbox with boyfriends or friends. Only spill it all with your spouse or fiancé if asked. The truth liberates you even if things don't work out fine. "unfollows thread" 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by SHARIAREPORTERS: 5:19pm On May 28, 2015 |
Nori: I know too well Buh can't stand it wen ma boo dem don open am for me I want a brand new hymen Ma wife dem go play me her video from small to wen I marry her |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:21pm On May 28, 2015 |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:22pm On May 28, 2015 |
shrekandfiona: That is even a good scenario if the wedding did not hold. Consider if he finds out after the wedding that he married a liar and a fraudster. Guys and ladies! disregard the OP's advice and be honest as marriage is a life time commitment. Throw all your masks away else like someone rightly said you will have 4 people in the relationship....2 masked ones and 2 real ones. I am outta her before Babyosisi corrupts me 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:24pm On May 28, 2015 |
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Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by ApexTitan(m): 5:25pm On May 28, 2015 |
It seems the angle the OP is driving at is in staying married even at the cost of honesty and integrity. This line of thinking favours the so called "reformed woman" of recent times. A woman who in her youth lived a life of careless sexual abandon, indulging to the fullest her party years with as many partners as she could attract. This type of behaviour is usually carried out at the peak of the woman's desirability in the attraction marketplace, in her late teens or early 20s. It is when the fact of the very transient nature of female desirability dawns on her that she usually has her epiphany. She realises that she cannot continue to attract men forever, that her party years must come to an end. So in order to secure her long term interests she has to find a well established This is how her future husband meets her. He enters into what is supposed to be a union based on understanding and trust with her. He is sold on the image of the new woman and they begin their journey into matrimony... only thing is life has a way of bringing these things back to the surface... 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by charles316: 5:26pm On May 28, 2015 |
crackhaus: Just imagine what she wrote up there. Pathetic! 3 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Ngokafor(f): 5:28pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: ....To tell you the truth,i honestly agree with you..Some women talk too damn much!.. ...I mean lots of people(male and female)have a questionable past,a lot if men who were cultists in school,killing or aiding in killing of one or two persons will NEVER admit it to their future spouses come what may...meanwhile the karma that will deal with them will also affect the poor woman,but do you see them spilling about their sordid past?... ...Women should wisen up..chances are that that man or guy you are probably spilling your sob stories to has probably impregnated some girls whom they dumped for not having an abortion,a murderer via University cult activities,had dabbled with homosexuality while in an all boys secondary school,contracted STDs a number of times in the past...but will he tell you all these?... ...a big fat NO!..a word is enough for the wise. ....Confess to God,repent genuinly from the bottom of your heart and move on!!!. 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:29pm On May 28, 2015 |
shrekandfiona: I even wonder why a man would even be interested in knowing who and who his intended wife dated or slept with in the past I can understand diseases but an answer is not enough sef,in today's world only a fool will get married without testing for STDs It sounds like a self esteem issue to me for a man to be asking details of men that came before him,that is my opinion What is he asking for? So that what will happen ? Mine didn't ask me any of those questions at all,is that abnormal? He actually snatched me kinda sorta from another man so asking about past men is fruitless I wasn't a virgin and didn't pretend to be and that is enough history that there were others before him Same way there were a legion before me,doesn't change a thing 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:29pm On May 28, 2015 |
Jahblessme: Gbam!! Peeps are only concentrating on the confession part but are disregarding what happens after. Abeg you make too much sense jare. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by cococandy(f): 5:30pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: It's just in your mind. You probably smell very fresh but the habit of using deo will leave you uncomfortable anyday you don't. I understand 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by ApexTitan(m): 5:34pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi: Why should such a women still be thinking about marriage with that kind of history. It is because many people hold on to the delusion that marriage is for all that's why they lie and deceive others to get married. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:34pm On May 28, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: Every single girl that had aborted was impregnated by a man Every one of them And almost all those abortions were done by a man No be so? Where are those men and their confessions? And you will run and blab because your mouth is itching you Women use your heads Don't come out holding the shorter end of the stick o And start crying for self inflicted injury 2 Likes |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by daveP(m): 5:37pm On May 28, 2015 |
I understand the Op, but im seeing it like a reaction of sorts to safarig.irl's thread. 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
daveP: What if I told you I have no clue what thread you are referring to and mean it sincerely |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 28, 2015 |
ApexTitan: Did you read the story at all The woman was married After a nasty divorce,her ex husband started telling the stories of her past which he knew before marrying her Her abortions and her mother's mental illness history Now who made the initial error? Who is now hurting? 1 Like |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by daveP(m): 5:41pm On May 28, 2015 |
babyosisi:sincerely, il take your word for it. |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by eddychis: 5:42pm On May 28, 2015 |
Trust is the bedrock of a relationship. Always be open to your husband, if you hide anything he will still know. Since there is nothing hidden under the sun, one day it will be blown open. Is better you tell him, than keeping secret and he finds out. He will believe there are many more things you are hiding and that could lead to divorce. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Things Your Fiancé/ husband Is Better Off Not Knowing. by Nobody: 5:43pm On May 28, 2015 |
People will divulge even the pediatric size of their husband's blokoss at divorce Secrets they never said When it goes sour and everyone is trying to get at the other,they will say the ones with craw craw in their crotch Some things you can't help obviously but the unnecessary stories are best left alone 1 Like |
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