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Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:00pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:You see who the real joker is or you want more ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:00pm On May 28, 2015 |
kinglekan: Okay.. So u saying that, in a situation whereby the feeling in question is really love,it can be lost right(with time?) |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by kinglekan: 6:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:Make I test na!! U nor dey test suya b4 u go buy? ![]() ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:Those are just an enticing attributes, though I appreciate them, but they're definitely not my utmost priorities Perhaps that makes us. |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:03pm On May 28, 2015 |
kinglekan: No testing ![]() After u go say the suya no swt.. lmao ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by kinglekan: 6:04pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz: Exactly!! It takes time. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by kinglekan: 6:05pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:ROTFL.. LMAO ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Dotwillis1(m): 6:06pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz: one of the reasons is when there’s too much boredom and routine If you don’t water your plant every day it will die. As simple as that. As will your love and relationship if you don’t maintain it on a regular basis. Love in a romantic relationship is not an abstract thing that exists and stands by itself. It has to be fostered, and taken care of on a daily basis. A thriving relationship is work. And only work will make it grow. This can be done by daily love rituals, weekly communications sessions, creating “memory-beacons”, regular live affection, and sharing mutual interests and hobbies. Love… you have to take care of it before it will take care of you. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by letsbet(m): 6:12pm On May 28, 2015 |
Love. that four letter word!. the sweetest emotion. so many people speak about it but its so rare around here. we all have different reasons for falling out or staying in love. miss Tophaz, hav u been in and out of love before? |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:15pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia: Okay dear.. i get ur angle now.. |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:16pm On May 28, 2015 |
Dotwillis1: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:17pm On May 28, 2015 |
letsbet: Rare it is. But when found.. awesome. In,,yes.. Out.. no |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:17pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz: ![]() I'm contemplating on something, should I do it or not. It'll benefit me if I do. Your advice needed. |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:19pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:You are using dear for everybody ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:24pm On May 28, 2015 |
Yea... Am about falling out of love with missclasssy. @OP... You duped me ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:24pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia: Do.it ![]() Ermmmm. Whats it first ?? |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:26pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:Beg me ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:28pm On May 28, 2015 |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Crysallis(m): 6:32pm On May 28, 2015 |
Falling out of love is so normal because d quality you fell in love with depreciated with time. So dnt see love as the sole reason why people are together. And There is notin like true love. Only great understanding and tolerance. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:33pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:Okay bribe me, don't you know that it is a privilege, the fact that I chose you. Plus you can act cunningly, the way you do whenever you wanna collect money from your boo ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:35pm On May 28, 2015 |
Tophaz, I am of the opinion that one can fall out of love. Love is an emotion and like all emotions, it is capable of wearing off. One thing about love is that it is built and it is sustained. If the love you feel for someone is genuine and has gone through development stages, tests and trial and has reached that the point where it becomes "True love" then all that remains is for it to be sustained. It is when true love is not sustained that you can have a case of someone falling out of love. 2 Likes |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:37pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia: Lolzz. I work for my money ![]() Privilege ko ![]() ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 6:38pm On May 28, 2015 |
missclasssy: So it doesn't have to do with the person changing?? U think it's based mostly on standing the test of.time? |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz:You want me to tease you some more, admit it, you're enjoying my company. |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 6:44pm On May 28, 2015 |
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Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by kenex4ever(m): 6:50pm On May 28, 2015 |
Yea, one can fall out of love. There are many reasons people fall out of love. In most cases, people fall out of love when dey get too used to their partners thereby seeing their flaws and when dey eventually meet a new admirer that probably looks like an improvement on their partner, d initial love will die down gradually. . In summary, for some one to remain in love, he/she must be content with his/her partner because there is no complete package. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by tohpahz(f): 7:01pm On May 28, 2015 |
profojah:. |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 7:08pm On May 28, 2015 |
tohpahz: Yes, one other thing I forgot to mention what that love is always in a continuous progression or regression process. The love one has for someone if sustained, continues growing and getting stronger and stronger, but when it isn't sustained it begins to regress and regress until it undergoes transformation into hate or is just lost and replaced by an emptiness. It's just like the process of heating a metal in a temperate climate like the North poles for instance. The heat applied to the metal if sustained raises the temperature of the metal and the temperature keeps on increasing and increasing. But if the heat applied is removed, the temperature begins to drop and drop until it reaches freezing point and continues to drop. What sustains the relationship is like the heat applied to the metal. And the temperature is the love one feels. So when elements that sustain love is removed, the love begins to get colder and colder until it is no more. 1 Like |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by whizqueen(f): 7:55pm On May 28, 2015 |
Yes, definitely one can fall put of love. Here is my analysis,, When you just started dating, the feeling is so strong and this is presumed to be love. With time you get "use" the person. A day without those long calls, chitchat n all that feels like hell. At some point then you start trying to enjoy yourself with or without that person.... At this stage if both parties are not really dedicated to keep the relationship going n the fire burning mehn, there is a high chance that the love begins to fade and it may fade completely sef. ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by forandy(m): 2:36pm On May 29, 2015 |
Dotwillis1: Nice one |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by forandy(m): 2:53pm On May 29, 2015 |
missclasssy: Your first comment was so spot on. This addition as well isn't bad. I share your opinion with respect to the 'sustenance'. When those rituals needed for the love to be groomed are out of reach or (like in some cases I've witnessed) gone down the drain, it causes worry, especially to the other partner who tries to keep sustaining and there comes the possibility of falling out of love. Now, about the nice 'heat and metal' illustration, I think that 'metal' should represent the both partners and the 'heat' (which is obviously the different routines to keep the love going) should come from both partners...both of them should be actively involved in heating that metal! Thanks ![]() |
Re: Can Someone Fall Out Of Love? by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 29, 2015 |
forandy: Nice. Thanks. ![]() |
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