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Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Nobody: 11:43pm On May 28, 2015 |
Burningstar:The reason why u re unable to forget him is that, you will be thinking he may come back to you when you least expect him. That thought is deadly. What you should do is that: give yourself some time like a year before thinking of relationship again. If he doesn't come, dnt hate him; like him more. That will give you a sense that helped a weak soul with forgiveness and see it as a kind gesture to somone in need of 4giveness. Then, open ur heart again 4 another man. I did that for a very beautiful girl. She is still, til today, surprised about why I dont hate her. Her child recently died. Without knowing anything, when she saw me on a bike in town, she fixed her gaze on me for minutes. I then asked a friend why stil feel somtin for me. Then, I was told her child died. I went to her fabric store to console her. She loved it and wished I could be hers again. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by idu1(m): 11:56pm On May 28, 2015 |
Burningstar:I presume he's facing some kind of stress over there. That he want to be alone to get things fixed. I advise u give him more time.... |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 11:58pm On May 28, 2015 |
Daseed4: From your first statement its as if you entered my thoughts ![]() I don't have any problem forgiving him, infact I don't even see any wrong, All I wish is just that we could be together or at least explain to me why he can't date so I'll just understand . I guess I'll follow your advise and just get the thought out of my head. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 12:00am On May 29, 2015 |
idu1: Then he should just tell me ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Crieff(m): 12:18am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar, which continent are you in? |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 12:19am On May 29, 2015 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Crieff(m): 12:26am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar: Ok. Take it Step by step Day by day Time will jade memories of him until it becomes obscure...like a frosted glass. Your heart will love again. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by oshe11: 12:42am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar:tryin puttin a loaded gun on ur forehead n pressin d trigger...... If afta dat U stl cnt stop lovin him contact IFA |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Rexnegro(m): 12:48am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar:Be my girl pls, I need a girl like u in my life. Please don't doubt me/us . |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by okedafe(m): 12:52am On May 29, 2015 |
Hnmmm |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by okedafe(m): 12:56am On May 29, 2015 |
peeparty: Lol... I love that last part, pleading the blood. But to be serious, have been there before only that I didn't take people's advise, so I spent 3years hurting. So, how did I get over it? My sister I sought refuge in another. Trust me that's the only way |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Nobody: 3:21am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar:He likes you. His problem (like mine) is that he thinks 'the higher you go, the cooler you become'. I.e, the more you ascend the societal rung of hierarchy, the more sophisticated or wealthy women you get chance to marry. That's when a man rates sophistication above beauty or virtues. Like getting married to a president's daughter. And as men who might have never been shown love during our hustling years, we justify doing this as a revenge against women folk. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Phboy1(m): 4:17am On May 29, 2015 |
I agree with you that it is really difficult to forget someone you really love. i just passed through a similar situation. In my case, i blocked her facebook acct so that i dont get to see her pix or her posting. deleted all her photos in my phone/laptop. Though we still talk/chat but after a couple of months, i noticed i no longer miss her like before coupled with the fact that she got married cos that's d reason we broke off. Take it easy u will pull through it with time. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Obinovictor(m): 7:01am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar: If he claims he feels the same way buy does not want a relationship, have you tried asking him why. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Nobody: 7:03am On May 29, 2015 |
missclasssy: Hmmm. One has to be careful around you |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by DrGroove(f): 7:09am On May 29, 2015 |
It's sad how and why you even started loving somebody in the first place. That was a costly mistake. Take heart JUST HATE HIM... FOR NO REASON.. JUST HATE AND HATE AND HATE!! Get busy. Make new friends!! You will forget it |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 9:57am On May 29, 2015 |
Crieff: I hope so. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 10:00am On May 29, 2015 |
okedafe: Believe me, I've tried that. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 10:01am On May 29, 2015 |
Daseed4: Hun ![]() He can't do this to me on purpose. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 10:03am On May 29, 2015 |
Rexnegro: If it was that easy, I won't be single by now . |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 10:04am On May 29, 2015 |
Obinovictor: I have, he kept mentioning the distance but I made it clear that he shouldn't bother about that, I know there are other reasons he's refusing to tell me |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Obinovictor(m): 10:51am On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar: Dear, just forget about him. He doesn't deserve you. Time will heal that wound. Cheers |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Nobody: 12:05pm On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar: I don't get why you think he needs your forgiveness, he did not string you along, he was never your boyfriend and he explicitly told you he cannot do long distance. The way I see it you have difficulty taking his NO, you want to understand why he is not in a relationship with you even though he has already told you why. Would it have been ok if he said yes just not to let you down then go ahead to dish shabby treatment? Accept his NO and set yourself free find something else to fill that void in your heart, this is a beautiful time to discover what lifts your soul. Looks like you are bored. I am sorry if I sound too firm I just want you to set yourself free. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Rexnegro(m): 12:10pm On May 29, 2015 |
Burningstar:Pls don't doubt getting to meet me.. I'd love to have someone like u in my life...pls how can I drop my number so we can chat on whatsapp or talk privately. Burningstar pls |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 12:11pm On May 29, 2015 |
andromida: Hmmmmm, you're very correct, Thanks a lot. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Nobody: 10:09am On May 31, 2015 |
Burningstar: hey you |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 1:52pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
rogerdat: Sir |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Adaeze003(f): 5:27pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Any update? Me sef too like gist. But madam op sha, loving someone that is in another continent. I think he did you a favor coz you truly might not love him but rather the "idea" of him. you know that false personality we attach to that false picture of people in our heads? Been there, done that. I can bet N50 that if he was here in Nija or where ever you are, you won't date him. Oh... just incase you're still hurting, don't hate him or give him time or delete his pics n all that. just accept the situation. He wants to be just friends? Be his friend, he wants to be left alone? Let him be. It's just easier that way. Forget about dating him though. You'll find someone else... just be open minded. ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by taharqa: 5:35pm On Jun 10, 2015 |
Burningstar: When you saw him like 3 months ago why didn't you guys discuss it since you say you are friends and love each other? PS: oh! My bad. You said in another comment that you guys live continents apart. I guess he left Nigeria 3 months ago ie assuming you are the one in Nigeria. |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 8:59am On Jun 11, 2015 |
rogerdat: I'm good, you? |
Re: I Need Ideas On How To Forget Someone I Love Dearly. by Burningstar(f): 9:00am On Jun 11, 2015 |
taharqa: I'm the one in Nigeria and we've not met. |
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