Relationships work better when they're not
exposed to the whole world! Sure, we all
want to brag about this and that but some
things are better kept between the two of
you.

#7 Intimate Details

What happens in the bedroom, should stay
in the bedroom. Never, and I mean NEVER,
let out your intimacy Details to your friends.
It’s not only bad if your partner gets to hear
it from someone else, it’s just embarrassing.
No one wants you to tell them how good or
bad the sex is, keep it in the bedroom, only
you can make your Friends respect your
partner and the intimate details should be
kept from even the closest of friends.

#6 Fights

We all want to go talk to someone when we
are down and sad. But it’s probably not a
good idea to tell your Friends about your
fights, you two will be fine in a few days but
your friends will remember the fights and
tell You about the fights every now and
then. Couples fight, it’s normal, keep it
between the two of you, you can’t Trust
your friends with the fights you have with
your partner. If it’s really that serious, go
see a therapist. Anything is better than
letting your relationship be an open book to
the world!

#5 Money Issues

Like I said, only you can make your friends
respect your partner. The more you talk bad
about them behind their Backs, the more it
gets difficult for you in the future. If your
partner is going through some money
issues, don’t go Telling your friends about it.
Not only will it make you seem cheap, it will
forever make you seem like a gold digger.
Whatever it is, talk it out with your partner
and not the rest of the world.

#4 Their Personal Problems

Never discuss their personal life issues with
your friends in hopes of getting some
positive input on things. If something bad
happens in your partner’s family, keep it to
yourself because they trusted you with that
Information and they think you’ll keep it to
yourself. If they somehow find out you told
others about them, you Might never be
trusted again.

#3 Their Past Relationships

Never discuss your partner’s past
relationships with your friends, it will only
lead to ridicule and negativity. Whatever
they told you, they told you in confidence
hands and they knew it will only stay with
you, don’t break Their trust by telling others
about it. Only you can make your partner
trust you more and you hold that power In
your hands as long as you stay quiet about
their personal details with others.

#2 Complaints

If things seem a bit off about your
relationship, don’t go off complaining to
your friends. If you do this a little Too often,
your friends will start telling you to leave
the person because they see how sad and
miserable You are with them. Whatever
problems you’re facing with them, talk to
your partner about them and don’t Go
complaining to your friends.


#1 Comparing

Unless you want your friends to think
negatively about your partner, don’t
compare them to others in front of Your
friends. We all go through ups and downs in
relationships, it doesn’t mean you run off
crying to your Friends about how your ex
was so much better. These kind of things
don’t go away, they usually travel to Your
partner somehow and it hurts them when
they get to know how badly you talk about
them and how Little you try to make your
friends respect them.


Feel free to add yours......

nice one

the moment when you tell your friend how good your partner is on bed and he/she wanna confirm if truly the case is true. you are screwed

OK, read and noted #nogistguys

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Err....I CAN tell my best friend.

He's like my other half.

MzNelly:
Err....I CAN tell my best friend.

He's like my other half.

lol as long as he aint gay

Rexhenrex:
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Eh!!! Early mormor.... u still dey space book even when change is here

Really true. 'Cause by sharing ur relationship issues with ur friend is like you exposing urself to any form of criticism, good or bad. This applies to those in the matrimonial homes. On no account must an individual take the affairs of his/her marriage outside, no matter how close the person is to you.

kul....

BOOKED

noted,but what are friends for?

We all have that one person who knows everything about us, that one person you can confide in.

You can't rule it out, no matter how discreet you are with information.

In my case, it is my best friend. He's a dude I can count on his complete confidentiality and he sure counts on mine too.

So instead of discouraging people from sharing some secrets, encourage them to trust their judgements and share the secrets with people who would keep them safe.

AirborneLacer:
We all have that one person who knows everything about us, that one person you can confide in.

You can't rule it out, no matter how discreet you are with information.

In my case, it is my best friend. He's a dude I can count on his complete confidentiality and he sure counts on mine too.

So instead of discouraging people from sharing some secrets, encourage them to trust their judgements and share the secrets with people who would keep them safe.

A secret is best kept safe with oneself.....

Omotayor123:

A secret is best kept safe with oneself.....

In the long run? In point of death?

AirborneLacer:

In the long run? In point of death?

it depends.