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Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by TV01(m): 12:48pm On May 29, 2015 |
Kimoni:Feminism and it's precepts colour how many - male and female, feminists and non-feminists - approach the issue Kimoni:Please search it out for yourself. Ask specifically and I'll try and provide links. Kimoni:Shame or not, stigmatised or not, there is a societal cost as the outcomes for the children are typically poorer - do you need proof of this? It's one of the ways people these days miss it. It's about the greater good, not simply individual desire and satisfaction. Kimoni:Not empirical I hope ![]() Kimoni:You'd do well to search this one out. One abortion increases a womans chances of a serious pathology later in life by up to 40%. And I mean pathologies like breast cancer etc. Oral/chemical contraceptives are also dangerous as these can have dangerous side effects on some women - and for many induce unpleasant day-to-day side effects. Kimoni:Nope. It's true widely known and ApexTitan provided a link. Women tend to embed physical/emotinal experiences and are prone to romanticising them. It doesn't bode well for hubby, especially at times things are hard, he's struggling or there is a down in the marriage. It engenders "dissatisfaction" in women. Kimoni:I sure everyone has spotted the not so sublte shifting of responsibility onto men ![]() Women adopting the pathological traits of men will backfire on us all - but mostly on women. Kimoni:It's mens fault in as much as they fell for the equality ruse and shed age-old traditions for odd notions like equality, freedom and autonomy. Kimoni:I never said or championed any of those things. They are natural outworkings of the male female dynamic - and hence embedded into culture. Kimoni:Agreed. But a male won't have to drop out of school when he gets a woman pregnant ![]() ![]() Kimoni:It doesn't actually sound like you read it. Otherwise it would be gospel to you ![]() 1. I clearly stated "both parties". 2. It's not at "some point", but when marriage is in view or a distinct possibility. Kimoni:If one settles for an immature man, that doesn't in any way negate my advice. Kimoni:As above. All you are doing is making excuses for non-disclosure. It is not necessarily a bad thing to discuss your intended with at least one family elder. I took something about my wife to a trusted family member/condfidante for advice. Good attempt, but you have rebutted nothing. Neither have you presented more telling arguments. ![]() TV http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10552-013-0325-7 http://www.mercatornet.com/articles/view/new-evidence-suggests-a-link-between-abortion-and-breast-cancer/16234 1 Like |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 1:12pm On May 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: you want to see another woman's hymen? fear no even catch you? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 1:12pm On May 29, 2015 |
My brother, Pa TV01, how are things? ![]() How are my lil angels doing? ![]() as per the topics on ground, as usual, I have no comments ![]() Pick-a-boo-boo, I hail thee! ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:14pm On May 29, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() I'll be back guys. Need to meet some deadlines. TV, your conclusion refers. How can you be the judge, plaintiff and defendant in your own case your naa ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 1:15pm On May 29, 2015 |
Coogaluta Welcome back You've not changed this your style of twisting my moniker... |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:17pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogar: Fear? How? hymen?? Na today?? Everybody claim first ownership these days o, even those that got married to confirmed escorts. I need to see clear empirical evidence |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 1:20pm On May 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: my dear, everybody isn't coogar! i have an awesome wealth of experience in these matters. this proof of purity is super authentic. i have a device called hymenömeter. ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 1:29pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I ain't twisting anything isn't that the right thing? ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 1:40pm On May 29, 2015 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:44pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogar: Ahhhhhh una see double standards ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What is your past body count Coogar? And you still want first ownership? Thank God for alum and reconstructive surgeries sha The more you look the less you see is what we'll be dishing out to y'all Thunder fire that your hymenometer |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 1:46pm On May 29, 2015 |
Coogar, pls don't respond till evening. Nobody should respond to me till evening. Pls help a sister ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 3:22pm On May 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: Why What help do u need |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by RoyalRoy(m): 3:43pm On May 29, 2015 |
Don't you just love this man-room? Lollz. A lot of ladies have come and go....now it seems they only read and pass. ![]() ![]() ![]() Great tips in here.....nice analogies. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 3:55pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: i guess the replies are distracting her. she wants to finish her assignment before coming back here to expose men's supposed double standards when it comes to sēxual history. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 4:09pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogar: I guessed as much What I don't get is her point Is she advocating sexual license for all genders as a solution |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 5:27pm On May 29, 2015 |
RoyalRoy: smh ![]() We're here to stay ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 5:27pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: or sexual purity for all genders ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 5:32pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogaluta: Beautiful So the message should be this rather than encouraging sexual liberty |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogaluta(f): 5:39pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: good luck in telling men to keep their diccks where God intended it to be-between their legs ![]() ![]() |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 5:41pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogaluta: It worked in the old days You would be forced to marry her The simple solution was to limit the woman |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 6:03pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Who has encouraged sexual liberty? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 6:08pm On May 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: The premise of that thread is simple in my opinon Men sleep around and have secrets\ women you can sleep around too and keep secrets 1. what is your own take away from the thread |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by bukatyne(f): 7:05pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Is that really the premise of the thread? |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by pickabeau1: 7:35pm On May 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: when do u answer a question plainly..i said in my opinion What is your own take away from the thread |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 7:58pm On May 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: her point is - what a man can do, women should also do.......which is quite funny. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by RoyalRoy(m): 9:31pm On May 29, 2015 |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 11:24pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogar: Correct! Still didn't finish ![]() not expsosing anyone though, men just need to stop the double standards. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 11:27pm On May 29, 2015 |
coogar: Errrmm, not exactly. More like - if it's a sin for the woman, then it should be a sin for the man |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 11:29pm On May 29, 2015 |
Kimoni: there's no double standard anywhere..... men need the education, women do not. before a man can confidently walk up to a woman and chat her up, there must have been several try-outs. so many rough edges until he becomes smooth & sleek with his game. a man is usually the chaser, the woman is his target. nature designed it that way, it's not our fault! Kimoni: it's a sin for both genders but the consequences are much more graver for the woman. she's the only one who can get pregnant & the one more susceptible to STDs. this is why the attention is much more focused on the woman than the man. 3 Likes |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 12:12am On May 30, 2015 |
TV01: |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 12:59am On May 30, 2015 |
coogar: You confuse me Coogar, Women don't need education? I'm cool with men chasing and women being their targets. No issues with that. Like I told TV, the woman getting STD faster does mean the man will not get it eventually. It's just a timing difference. So eventually, the risk evens out. Consequently, both genders need to be focused on equally. |
Re: Boys Night Out Discussions by coogar: 1:08am On May 30, 2015 |
Kimoni: i mean the education of wooing, not formal education o!
exactly! and this is why men are compelled to do try-outs till they are perfect at it. have you ever wondered how some guys are great conversationalists around women & some other guys are dirt-boring you want to hang up the phone after 20 seconds.....the education is the difference. ![]()
of course, men are still at risk but the degree of the damage it can cause in women is higher. besides that, men tend to notice the symptoms almost immediately as there's no hiding place in the body of the man. a woman can harbour gonorrhoea in her body for ages and not notice. she would only know until she infects her partner. if the partner keeps mum about it.....if she gets pregnant, her baby would become blind. |
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