2goodbobo:
The term "Adultery" is a very serious issue in so many marriages and homes in our world today.
In-fact it is becoming a trend now and most people that indulge in it, see it as noting because
the Marriage institution is being taking for granted these days.However, People react differently
to it,some can stand it but some can't, some can move on from the trauma but some can't.

I just want to know your thoughts and contributions as to why most Women pray for their
Husband when caught in the act of adultery, hoping he will change and come back to them while
on the other hand, most Men send their wife packing and eventually divorce her for committing
adultery without even thinking twice?

that was before, women are now into the game also, only more discreet

moreover when a woman stays its not because of love or dedication, mostly its because of the children, and what pple will say..

CHoccolaTE:
Good thing Abrahamic religions are gradually fading into oblivion.......
They are the major reason why women are treated like dirt.

Have you been treated like dirt before?

bukatyne:


Hell on earth ke?

That woman is a poster Good wife

Lol poster good wife in my version of hell, imagine the trauma

It's only an Idi otic woman that gets caught.
Many are chopping under gee happily while keeping up the facade of happy homes.

Usually,if an average married woman cheats she's subconsciously tired of her tooth pick dick horseband and willing to face any consequence.Imagine resigning yourself to living with 1 inch eraser and the person attached to it is cheating ontop

I don't know about this whole kicking her out thing..In my neck of the woods,he's the one moving out.As I've said before, if I'm contributing to the rent or a huge chunk of my money went into building that house,my fat a ss ain't going anywhere.When you are tired,please move out or we sell the house and you gimme my share.

No one is forcing you to pray for a cheating husband. it's your choice..my own husband knowing my heart na stone of course does not expect me to forgive any indiscretion. If he chooses to,he's prepared for a raft of consequences,if I do I also don't expect forgiveness.If per chance we happen to forgive each other,fine but no one will leave me with the shorter end of the stick,lai lai.


Will a cheat change? maybe but I'll be damned if I spend the next 25 years of my life praying for him to realise his mistakes and come back to the forever persevering wife.By then,he'll probably have e rectile dysfunction and looking for who to be his nanny while he shits in adult daipers..Count me out mennn..

Loyalty begets loyalty in my books..simple and short.

Jahblessme:
It's only an Idi otic woman that gets caught.
Many are chopping under gee happily while keeping up the facade of happy homes.

Usually,if an average married woman cheats she's subconsciously tired of her tooth pick dick horseband and willing to face any consequence.Imagine resigning yourself to living with 1 inch eraser and the person attached to it is cheating ontop

I don't know about this whole kicking her out thing..In my neck of the woods,he's the one moving out.As I've said before, if I'm contributing to the rent or a huge chunk of my money went into building that house,my fat a ss ain't going anywhere.When you are tired,please move out or we sell the house and you gimme my share.

No one is forcing you to pray for a cheating husband. it's your choice..my own husband knowing my heart na stone of course does not expect me to forgive any indiscretion. If he chooses to,he's prepared for a raft of consequences,if I do I also don't expect forgiveness.If per chance we happen to forgive each other,fine but no one will leave me with the shorter end of the stick,lai lai.


Will a cheat change? maybe but I'll be damned if I spend the next 25 years of my life praying for him to realise his mistakes and come back to the forever persevering wife.By then,he'll probably have e rectile dysfunction and looking for who to be his nanny while he shits in adult daipers..Count me out mennn..

Loyalty begets loyalty in my books..simple and short.

I love reading your posts.

Timbuktou:


What's turning the world upside down is people not knowing their place and acting out of turn.

When God judges, He'll judge according to your place and assignment.

Care to expansiate more on the bolded?

Too ambiguous

pinkbee:

Example of a woman in her mid 30s;-
Married for 11years now,
No kid(s),
Husband has low sperm count, he holds PhD in cheating, keeps gifting wifey wit STDs n he's hardly home.
Wifey is usually lonely. She occupies herself wit her clerical job. She pays most of d bills with her small salary. Hubby spends most of his money on gbedu things.
She loves her husband and he loves her too.

What would u call that?

Bullshit. The husband definitely doesn't love the wife. While the wife is just a weakling.

lilmax:
When they accept its a man‘s world,i wonder why you guys think men and women are the same,we can marry as many women as we want to nothing can change that


Whats the best option? Tell the man to leave “her“ house(thats if theres any)? Men make the desicion thats why

You might wanna limit to "its a man's country". Because you can only pull such nonsense in naija and her sister countries and get away with it. Try that in a western world and have your philandering assess fried.

DollyParton1:

You might wanna limit to "its a man's country". Because you can only pull such nonsense in naija and her sister countries and get away with it. Try that in a western world and have your philandering assess fried.

Hey girl get out of my head.

It's a man's world only in areas where they are allowed to. Anywhere religious fanatics and third worldism is rife is the only place where it's a man's world.

The rest of the world have moved on from those days.its in their past now.
Maybe we will catch up someday.

Timbuktou:
The woman is meant to be an assistant to her man. Go through history, for every Cleopatra there are a thousand Napoleons. Rules binding both sexes are not the same. Equalists my disagree bit that is the truth. Every top woman in this world has a top man to defer to. Weep not women, that's the way of life.

That is because she allowed herself to be relegated to the background through history.
Now women are awake, they have risen and are taking no more shït and its condiments from no guy.
For those who still stay to pray for a cheating husband..... well may heaven help them. Ahem!!!

DollyParton1:

That is because she allowed herself to be relegated to the background through history.
Now women are awake, they have risen and are taking no more shït and its condiments from no guy.
For those who still stay to pray for a cheating husband..... well may heaven help them. Ahem!!!

Funny woman. Come back at me when women marry a man beneath their station without qualms, en masse. Then and only then will I accept that there's been a true change in ideology. Taking shiit or not is not a measure of equality

Timbuktou:


Funny woman. Come back at me when women marry a man beneath their station without qualms, en masse. Then and only then will I accept that there's been a true change in ideology. Taking shiit or not is not a measure of equality

What then to you is a measure of equality?
Pray tell me, how many men have married a woman above their status without issues, in significant numbers?

cococandy:


Hey girl get out of my head.

It's a man's world only in areas where they are allowed to. Anywhere religious fanatics and third worldism is rife is the only place where it's a man's world.

The rest of the world have moved on from those days.its in their past now.
Maybe we will catch up someday.

Lol... we are moving on gradually. We will get there with time.
Forget religion, I have noticed that those Niggas who don't even study their religious books that much, are the first to pull religious cover when it comes to issues like this.

DollyParton1:


Bullshit. The husband definitely doesn't love the wife. While the wife is just a weakling.

U know some women r scared of divorce. They'd rather die in d marriage. Everytime I see her, I feel pity 4 her because d sadness is written all over her.
She actually met him in dat kinda lifestyle b4 they got married. She keeps praying seriously 4 him 2 change but I'm very certain that he will never ever change.

fem29:


Lol poster good wife in my version of hell, imagine the trauma

What do we know?

pinkbee:

U know some women r scared of divorce. They'd rather die in d marriage. Everytime I see her, I feel pity 4 her because d sadness is written all over her.
She actually met him in dat kinda lifestyle b4 they got married. She keeps praying seriously 4 him 2 change but I'm very certain that he will never ever change.

Oh may heavens help her. The society is killing people daily. Why will someone be scared of divorce to the extent of staying with a man who treats her with no respect. When will people realise that Marriage is not an achievement and neither is it by force self.


Like I always say, my happiness first. This aint even about being selfish but #AintNobodyGotTimeForThat.

ITbomb:

I never even start with the parable
Abraham married 3 wives while Sarah married one husband and Abraham was a friend of God

You enh

crackhaus:
It's a man's world, quite simple really - the ones that don't like that can move to Mars.

Bros you harsh o. I thought when you get married, both have become one? I think the mantra
"Is a Man's world" is rather unfair to women.

initiate:


that was before, women are now into the game also, only more discreet

moreover when a woman stays its not because of love or dedication, mostly its because of the children, and what pple will say..

Well generally speaking, Men have the highest rate of cheating in marriage which we all know and
the larger percentage of women pray and ride or die with a cheating Husband rather than moving
out.I think men are more jealous sha, Hence, they can't take a cheating wife back.

pinkbee:

Example of a woman in her mid 30s;-
Married for 11years now,
No kid(s),
Husband has low sperm count, he holds PhD in cheating, keeps gifting wifey wit STDs n he's hardly home.
Wifey is usually lonely. She occupies herself wit her clerical job. She pays most of d bills with her small salary. Hubby spends most of his money on gbedu things.
She loves her husband and he loves her too.

What would u call that?

I will call that slavery na. kai so sad

When a woman cheats on her man , she brings an enemy into his most treassured armuory and makes him a subject to the enemy, its like selling top secret defence info of ones nation to an enemy nation, she forms an alliance with his enemy, its A crime worthy of death, a man owns the teritory but the woman takes care of the teritory, if he've got enough he can get more hands, hence the polygamy stuff...