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Re: Whom To Blame!!! by mymissingrib(m): 2:31pm On May 30, 2015
blessingee:


Nothing is truth until its been empirically proven
DATS MY OWN FINDINGS SHA
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by IYANGBALI: 2:33pm On May 30, 2015
Acekidc4:


Me Ediot BA
sowie,you are not an idiiiiot but a fool grin
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by ijustdey: 2:34pm On May 30, 2015
Vivian has being forking her boyfriend which means she is not morally right because at the end of the day she might not marry her boyfriend..... On the other hand she wants a job if 350,000/with her body on the line and this doesn't mean she won't drop some when the uncle friends feels honey some other times



So, for both situations.........
Both guys are porting the honey pot
One might lead to the altar
The other is a job and steady pay...
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The choice is hers
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Briareos(m): 2:34pm On May 30, 2015
koruji:
Yes, it is simplistic to translate things in money terms always. Societal values matter because when those breakdown there is nothing that will stop the man from sleeping with her and then kicking her out the door. Also, if she slept with him to get the job can he expect her to do her job properly?


What if she has gotten to the final stage of the interview and only she and another person remained and there is nothing to distinguish between them? (I'm reaching I know)

There are so many possibilities to consider and since we aren't privy to the details, let's argue on what we know.

I do agree societal values matter, but don't confuse societal values with morality. And don't mistake the two for personal values which I believe in this particular case, supersedes the others. What if she is not conflicted sleeping around or at least, sleeping to get a job? What if she is a liberal, or highly sophisticated enough to take "sex" as simply as an "asset" she possesses to be used as she wishes?

If s
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 2:35pm On May 30, 2015
Acekidc4:

Old Cheap Talk!!
whats the new expensive talk?
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Acekidc4(m): 2:36pm On May 30, 2015
IYANGBALI:
sowie,you are not an idiiiiot but a fool grin

For ya Mind Now, you dey Play Abi
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by omoelu1(m): 2:36pm On May 30, 2015
Justifying immorality with immorality...
I came, I saw angry angry
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 2:37pm On May 30, 2015
Jona don turn naija 2 ''f... n get d job''. GMB, pls u must do sth. Anyway i no support any of dem bt i blame Vivian because na as her uncle see her dey drink only tea, him decide to add sugar, bread and butter 4 her as per ''good uncle concerned''
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by M4gunners: 2:41pm On May 30, 2015
koligs:
If you support uncle alex, click like and if you support vivian, click share.
People clicking like here,got questions to answer the day God will call upon them.
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Jdfada: 2:44pm On May 30, 2015
If Vivian open her leg to get the job, that leg must remain open to keep that job. She may be morally weak. But she knows what is self worth and she values her self worth more than the trappings of the job. Mind you a married woman without self value will even jump into bed without hesitation for even a lesser offer.
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by VickyRotex(f): 2:52pm On May 30, 2015
I support Lilian.

Ask a lady that slept with a man, to get a job, how she felt afterwards.

She'll tell you how guilty and bad she felt.

Except she doesn't wanna be truthful.

Btw self worth and self respect is more valuable than any job put together.

There should be dignity in Labor

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Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Qmab: 2:58pm On May 30, 2015
Nonsense! Sleep to get the job (if you get it), sleep to preserve it. Its better not to compromise.
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:00pm On May 30, 2015
Ezenwammadu:
Yeye story thank God i did not comment

cheesy cheesy cheesy see life, thank say i nor reply you

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Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:03pm On May 30, 2015
pring:
I support vivian.
People should stop promoting immortality.
Any job you get by opening ur legs will still end because you opened your legs.
Money has never being everything on earth and people should under stand the power of endurance because it pays.
A womans pride has been thrown to the dogs.

and you think sex with your girlfriend is moral?

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Re: Whom To Blame!!! by mamaope(f): 3:04pm On May 30, 2015
danaiks:
Surely Uncle Alex all the way undecided
C'mon bi.tch wise up!!
if Vivian were to be your daughter will you still think Uncle Alex is right?
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:06pm On May 30, 2015
VickyRotex:
I support Lilian.

Ask a lady that slept with a man, to get a job, how she felt afterwards.

She'll tell you how guilty and bad she felt.

Except she doesn't wanna be truthful.

Btw self worth and self respect is more valuable than any job put together.

There should be dignity in Labor

after your one night stands, did you loose your self worth?
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Aitee1: 3:07pm On May 30, 2015
Briareos:
I think this goes beyond morality. Or, it is outside the scope of morality. She has a social responsibility to her boyfriend to NOT sleep with other people if their relationship is exclusive. This responsibility, although not binding, separates her from a cheat and a wh.ore.

Now, she can inform the said boyfriend about this dilemma and she can go ahead and be pragmatic and exchange her body for a sumptuous job. It is her body, it is her business.

Oga briareos I dey hail oh, how's tv/movies section as big brother Africa no dey again we don rest for your ban

Miss ya... wink grin
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:07pm On May 30, 2015
icebeatz:
Nigerians need mental re-orientation!!
How could you possibly support uncle alex
I mean, the demand for sex in order to be given a job you duly qualify for is a crime on its on!!!

what if the uncle alex friend is single, and would like to marry her in the future?
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by VickyRotex(f): 3:07pm On May 30, 2015
donnypool:


after your one night stands, did you loose your self worth?

Are you the one I had the one night stand with?
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:10pm On May 30, 2015
phibah:
If Jess were to be in that position...what will he do?
Remember...Joseph at the age of 17 refused to sleep with Potiphars wife and considered it a great wickedness against God..

was Joseph straffing another girl or was he a chosen one by God?
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:14pm On May 30, 2015
VickyRotex:


Are you the one I had the one night stand with?

lets be sincere, what if the uncle's friend is single, don't you think she might benefit more?

as for the one night stand, many girls have done it, including guys. It depends on ones self. If you wanna feel guilty about it, then go ahead. but if you wanna let slide out of your life, its still your choice.

if i had one night stand with you, you will not even leave my house, because its comfy
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Pascal181: 3:15pm On May 30, 2015
hopelink1:
i refuse to comment
Me too
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by enellinoh(m): 3:20pm On May 30, 2015
phibah:
If Jess were to be in that position...what will he do?
Remember...Joseph at the age of 17 refused to sleep with Potiphars wife and considered it a great wickedness against God..
oga, u can't compare Joseph to dat dull brain Vivian na grin
phibah:
If Jess were to be in that position...what will he do?
Remember...Joseph at the age of 17 refused to sleep with Potiphars wife and considered it a great wickedness against God..
oga, u can't compare Joseph to dat dull brain Vivian na
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by harrysterol(m): 3:25pm On May 30, 2015
lomprico:

If vivian is ur girlfriend or fiancee nko?
if the person can help y not smiley

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Re: Whom To Blame!!! by mcyemite(m): 3:26pm On May 30, 2015
vislabraye:
Hard truth..... . Sleeping in exchange for material benefits is...............fill in the gap.
is nothing... angry
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by harrysterol(m): 3:26pm On May 30, 2015
mizzochocinco:
May God put your daughters in the same position and may they feck their way up, shout amen.
that will be her choice, either fvck to the top or work hard to the top
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by mcyemite(m): 3:28pm On May 30, 2015
koligs:
If you support uncle alex, click like and if you support vivian, click share.
if I was to be her boyfriend(the one thousand times fucker)i will be the one spreading her legs for uncles friend..
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by VickyRotex(f): 3:30pm On May 30, 2015
donnypool:


lets be sincere, what if the uncle's friend is single, don't you think she might benefit more?

as for the one night stand, many girls have done it, including guys. It depends on ones self. If you wanna feel guilty about it, then go ahead. but if you wanna let slide out of your life, its still your choice.

if i had one night stand with you, you will not even leave my house, because its comfy


I doubt if she's gonna benefit more. A man who lures a woman into his bed on the condition of giving her a job, doesn't love her. And I doubt he's gonna ever wanna settle down with her, the chances are slim.

Btw, let me say this.

I'm not in support of Premarital s€x.
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by jooey11: 3:32pm On May 30, 2015
@op, make I ask u: d uncle no get daughter? will he and can he subject his own daughter through d same? When his own daughter does d same den we can talk abt d justification for him to inflict d same request on his niece.
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by enellinoh(m): 3:42pm On May 30, 2015
VickyRotex:
I support Lilian.

Ask a lady that slept with a man, to get a job, how she felt afterwards.

She'll tell you how guilty and bad she felt.

Except she doesn't wanna be truthful.

Btw self worth and self respect is more valuable than any job put together.

There should be dignity in Labor
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Nobody: 3:46pm On May 30, 2015
VickyRotex:



I doubt if she's gonna benefit more. A man who lures a woman into his bed on the condition of giving her a job, doesn't love her. And I doubt he's gonna ever wanna settle down with her, the chances are slim.

Btw, let me say this.

I'm not in support of Premarital s€x.

now you know, a sin is a sin.

If her boyfriend can support both of them, then she can say no.

but if she is poor, accept the offer, sex for a month, take the 350k, start up a business. if many ladies with children out of wedlock are getting married, why not a business woman. (there is only 50% chance she is gonna marry her BF after all)
Re: Whom To Blame!!! by Mishydoo(m): 3:49pm On May 30, 2015
[size=14pt]Let her date her her Uncle's friend simple!....Den she wnt feel shez paying for anything [/size]

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