My sister is having introduction next two weeks. I have informed my fiancee but I didnt want her to come.
The reason being that I didnt want all my house wives to know know of her yet and there is no how she is come without assisting them.
NB: My family and hers have done pre-introduction.
Please advice?

abdrazak:
My sister is having introduction next two weeks. I have informed my fiancee but I didnt want her to come.
The reason being that I didnt want all my house wives to know know of her yet and there is no how she is come without assisting them.
NB: My family and hers have done pre-introduction.
Please advice?

Introduction is no biggie compared to the marriage proper, Introduction is mostly family members only so she shouldn't be upset about it. Just let her know and I'm sure you will be fine.

How wife?

Op which one is pre-introduction again....anyway introduction is supposed to be within the family except for people that have money to waste, so just tell her to cool down & wait for the d-day, when she'll be highly welcomed.

justi4jesu:



Introduction is no biggie compared to the marriage proper, Introduction is mostly family members only so she shouldn't be upset about it. Just let her know and I'm sure you will be fine.

Thank you bro

debolly:
Op which one is pre-introduction again....anyway introduction is supposed to be within the family except for people that have money to waste, so just tell her to cool down & wait for the d-day, when she'll be highly welcomed.

I pray she understand.
Thanks debolly

I dnt understand you o op

abdrazak:
My sister is having introduction next two weeks. I have informed my fiancee but I didnt want her to come.
The reason being that I didnt want all my house wives to know know of her yet and there is no how she is come without assisting them.
NB: My family and hers have done pre-introduction.
Please advice?

Why dont you want your housewives to know her yet?
Is she not the woman that you want to marry?
if she wants to go and work, its up to her
Just tell her not to come complaing that they told her to clear the plates or any other menial jobs as the "youngest wife" in the family.
It also depends on how big the intro is. Some are sitting room affairs with house cooking and some are canopy affiars with caterers. If if its a big one and other not so close family members and frieds have been invited, then she should be there.


Pls what is pre introduction? As in both families meeting each other informally?

Introduction is usually just for family members n shes not family yet, if it were other celebrations, like birthday or a naming party, wedding ceremony.. only then Will there be a problem if you dont invite her...yyou can just let her know bout it n that it's strictly family

Nawa ooo... Everything na issue...

I just tire..

If I was the fiancee...I would be happy not to attend. I really don't like too much familiarity with a family I'm not yet married into.

If you go there now no gree assist to work, they will start envisaging bad wife.

Abeegii..

MarvellousGod:
Nawa ooo... Everything na issue...

Jamean:
I just tire..

If I was the fiancee...I would be happy not to attend. I really don't like too much familiarity with a family I'm not yet married into.

If you go there now no gree assist to work, they will start envisaging bad wife.

Abeegii..

Hmmm y will u too go there and will not assist dem do some things

Is it by force

ElDeeVee:
Hmmm y will u too go there and will not assist dem do some things

Jamean:
Is it by force

Jamean:
Is it by force

Its not by force but its necessary dear

So what makes it necessary That they will say I won't be a good daughter-in-law.

ElDeeVee:

Its not by force but its necessary dear

Jamean:
So what makes it necessary That they will say I won't be a good daughter-in-law.

Of course a good daughter in law should assist her in would be in law whenever she comes visiting

abdrazak:
My sister is having introduction next two weeks. I have informed my fiancee but I didnt want her to come.
The reason being that I didnt want all my house wives to know know of her yet and there is no how she is come without assisting them.
NB: My family and hers have done pre-introduction.
Please advice?

If you don't want her to come, tell her not to with reasons.

Full stop

tearoses:


Why dont you want your housewives to know her yet?
Is she not the woman that you want to marry?
if she wants to go and work, its up to her
Just tell her not to come complaing that they told her to clear the plates or any other menial jobs as the "youngest wife" in the family.
It also depends on how big the intro is. Some are sitting room affairs with house cooking and some are canopy affiars with caterers. If if its a big one and other not so close family members and frieds have been invited, then she should be there.


Pls what is pre introduction? As in both families meeting each other informally?

I dont want them to know of her yet just because of house wives gossiping nature.
Meaning of pre-introduction: They have accepted me by her family being her fiancee

Mariecakes:
Introduction is usually just for family members n shes not family yet, if it were other celebrations, like birthday or a naming party, wedding ceremony.. only then Will there be a problem if you dont invite her...yyou can just let her know bout it n that it's strictly family

Got it Mariecakes. Thats my thought also

Jamean:
I just tire..

If I was the fiancee...I would be happy not to attend. I really don't like too much familiarity with a family I'm not yet married into.

If you go there now no gree assist to work, they will start envisaging bad wife.

Abeegii..

Thats what I want. I dont want them to be familiar with her now

Jamean:
I just tire..

If I was the fiancee...I would be happy not to attend. I really don't like too much familiarity with a family I'm not yet married into.

If you go there now no gree assist to work, they will start envisaging bad wife.

Abeegii..

I dont want familiarity between them now

bukatyne:

If you don't want her to come, tell her not to with reasons.
Full stop

I have explained to her with reasons... Thanks bukatyne

abdrazak:
I have explained to her with reasons...
Thanks bukatyne

abdrazak:

I dont want them to know of her yet just because of house wives gossiping nature.
Meaning of pre-introduction: They have accepted me by her family being her fiancee

Okay
Just give her your reasons and ask her to trust your judgement.

So tell her about the intro..but let her know your reasons for her not to attend.

abdrazak:
Thats what I want. I dont want them to be familiar with her now

Jamean:
I just tire..

If I was the fiancee...I would be happy not to attend. I really don't like too much familiarity with a family I'm not yet married into.

If you go there now no gree assist to work, they will start envisaging bad wife.

Abeegii..

GOD bless you real good for this advice.
We think alike.

I don't relate with people easily on first meeting. I have to study them to know how to interact with them. I do this to my extended family; so my fiance's shouldn't expect anything less.

That's just me.