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Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Stillfire: 8:31pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Lol, the operative word has been bolded. Not many women can boast their husbands do half of them. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 8:33pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: so not letting women carry dane guns to fight the fulani soldiers isn't chivalrous? ![]() ![]() ![]() thank you - this is what african feminists should thrive to scrap instead of concentrating on inferior or superior gender. there are areas where women are overprivileged already & there are areas where they are underprivileged. fairness to me = african feminists reducing the excess privileges women already have & adding more privileges to where women came short. however, you will find out that feminists don't seem to care about the areas where men are shortchanged.....they just want more & more rights without responsibility. 5 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Stillfire: 8:35pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar: Buhahaha, you are not serious! We should see ourselves as opposites but equals. ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Ewuro4: 8:37pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: Oh shoot! Why did I mention that? ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by freecocoa(f): 8:37pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar:Ok then, so only married women aren't equal to men and those men being their husbands, guess this means that, so long as a woman isn't married, she is not lesser than a man. ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 8:37pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: good & evil are opposite......are they equal? ![]() freecocoa: she's not! this is why some women don't even marry. without marriage, she won't have to cook for any man or suffer any sort of domestic violence. she can buy sëx if she needs one or buy a vïbrator. apart from marriage, there's no other sphere in nigeria where women are treated differently to men. women go to school, women work wherever they want, women have the rights to vote. so what is the problem? 7 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar:Man made culture not woman. women are the ones benefitting from this illegal trade the most. ask cococandy - she's an ada. in 20 years time, she would go back to her village and become the chief tax officer for any groom that intends to marry in her borough. it's a cycle!Trash! ![]() Which state is she from? I'm from Owerri, Imo state and I haven't heard all these, as my cousin elder sister never did it. it still applies - background check is still alive & kicking.For Village girls mostly/only. Mind you, Village girls are very submissive. Find one for yourself. ![]() you see?Good. Only Yoruba girls can be submissive. i am sure they would rather prostrate than pay for that long list of things to buy for the traditional wedding. prostrating is evil but it's the lesser evil here. ![]() ![]() Lastly, fathers gain mostly from that endless list. It's men that gain from their fellow men for selfish reasons. 3 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Coogar, check again! Our Igbo men are not complaining. Most of the men that frequent this section and argue about submissiveness are not Igbo except that dude Njokusomething. Our Igbo men love us. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 8:49pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: women are the major drivers of this archaic culture. widowhood & marriage are left for the women of the village to handle. men don't have a say in this matter.
so who are the umuadas? men?
in this 21st century where village girls are watching pörn on their mobile phones? tell that to the birds. village girls are notoriously corrupt these days - much more than the city girls
every woman should be submissive to her husband. if submission isn't in her dictionary then she shouldn't marry - abi na by force?God constructed marriage with terms & conditions. if you can live with the conditions, fine. if you cannot, leave the institution alone. ![]()
i disagree....... women are the major benefactors of this list & they are the ones who continue to let the culture thrive in eastern nigeria. this is why they stylishly make fun of the girl who isn't married yet......they don't do that for the mockery alone, they do it for the purpose of their bellies. VictoriaBee: how can they complain ? they have fled the villages to marry yoruba women in lagos. i cannot count the number of times i have seen igwes begging that the laws should be removed so that senior village maidens can marry. ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Stillfire: 8:53pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Lol, I have never posted that kind of epistle before. Me sef surprise. ![]() Big bumper aka busybody would be proud of me. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Holamarncy: 8:58pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
hmmm.i hadly drop post Bh ill do dis.i read it all from A-Z i think its a simple thing the feminine race av lots to learn. They tend to compete with virtually every thing on earth including other females i once settled an argument btw two ladies in my house when i Jxt moved in as a student ,one on of then blamed the other cos she dresses up Jxt to show off and parade herself in front of her and also buying d same type of cloth she sees on her (fashion war) and at dat tym we guys v been so cool with each other playing ball together on muddy field.dat is an example of how a female being can be. Also a woman would want u to treat her like a fragile entity and at d same tym b d center of ur world like a king , to b honest its nt easy coping with dat. i think d female gender should concentrate more on Der strength than weakness .all being av there weakness and strength even d "al-mighty" male beings. most men will never engage in word war with a lady, instinct would tell dem dey stand no ground so dey use their more efficient strength (an advantage sighting example o i dnt mean all men should use dat . ) and about marriage i think d lions should teach human more of give and take cooperative living . a female lion z nt as strong as a male lion who lacks mental hunting dexterity .Bh d female has d hunting skills .so she hunts while d male protect d pride .dis can only b achieved cos dey knw Der strength and weakness and nt beliven or assuming they r equal. . ---- my opinion though 3 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 8:59pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
stillfire..... this is an example of what i am saying. look at this list very well & tell me a man who pays this would not lord over his wife. ![]() [img]http://3.bp..com/-dVPKWuTtr6Y/VUHaueXKhMI/AAAAAAABaMg/hVoK_tsBTU4/s1600/Igbos.jpg[/img] 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar:I don't understand. forget! so who are the umuadas?Village submissive women. ![]() You mean my mum would leave her house and travel to attend that rubbish in the village? ![]() in this 21st century where village girls are watching pörn on their mobile phones? tell that to the birds. village girls are notoriously corrupt these days - much more than the city girls ![]() ![]() In this Nigeria where there's no network connection? except you mean live porn. every woman should be submissive to her husband. if submission isn't in her dictionary then she shouldn't marry - abi na by force?God constructed marriage with terms & conditions. if you can live with the conditions, fine. if you cannot, leave the institution alone.Submissive? Respect a man? I agree Boss me around? Never i disagree.......You are from where? how can they complain ?Be deceiving yourself. Even Men that don't earn more than 20k in a month, get married in an Igboland. These NL rumour about how Igbo women are expensive is trash. |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by kaboninc(m): 9:06pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Chai...na only me waka come late! All these academic efforts on nothing sef.... When I tell them that it is a man's world, they charge at me with the only thing they have - their mouth. So as a man, I keep calm and watch how they rant and ramble and razzle themselves! After all said and done, it stops at the foot of a man. I don't know if FrancisTony is a s.hemale. The person behind that moniker is just a boy. A kid. Fresh from the block. Even his childish arguments just gives him up. What's the connection between boys being called dogs by girls and this topic? Or does he not know that girls are called b.itches (a female dog) also because of their promiscuity? Honestly, I think the major reason for divorce (and even in relationships) is as a result of this independence stance championed by our brainwashed ladies by confused feminists. A lady claims equality with a guy and yet looks unto him for direction. A wife claims equality with her husband but also acknowledge him as her 'leader'. She can as well claim equality with her father. The true essence of feminism is to champion equal opportunities for both gender (especially with respect to opportunities traditionally in favour of men). Also, should there be an instance that such an opportunity is traditionally or preferential to a female, the cause should also be extended to accommodate the males. But here, for lack of our understanding and the nature of a Nigerian to dabble in discussions she knows nothing about, tilts towards an opinion that's just dangerous and destructive and worst still far from the original idea. To be candid, fair and honest, based on the true definition of feminism, the Nigerian father who ensures that as his son is educated, so are his daughters. And that includes the very many educated 'feminist'. The father who ensures that as his sons are financially empowered, so are his daughters. The man who encourages his daughter to aspire for political positions just as he encourages his son too. These men are the true feminist. Not the inferiority-tainted ladies who champion a cause solely to victimise the male folks and claim equality status. 8 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 9:09pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
VictoriaBee: she's not in the village. if she's in the village, she must take part. it's her duty to take part. they all belong to one age group or the other. they hold meetings & discuss things that would develop their environment.
there's no network everywhere, abeg!
so you are ready to be submissive in a relationship that has mutual respect? so why have you been arguing since? ![]()
enugu south! 1.3km(due west) from moca's village. ![]()
that's not true! bride price is a big problem in the east. this is one of the ex-governors begging for the tradition to be scrapped so that men can afford the girls rotting away in their father's houses. http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/04/reduce-bride-price-akonobi-ex-military-governor-of-anambra-pleads-with-igbo-parents/ 1 Like |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Stillfire: 9:10pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar: That is not a determinant of chivalry. Someone had to take care of the kids during war-times ![]() ![]() We are focused on where we are disenfranchised at the moment and on how femininity is viewed. Today in Nigeria, women cannot go to a hotel without the accompaniment of a man. That is a slap to my face. Privileges has not killed anyone and I don't see anyone dying from it, that is why you are fighting to maintain your male privileges ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by TooNoisy(f): 9:12pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
cococandy: So you have said marriage is very important to women - and also men. But who does a woman marry? A man. So you have stated that it is very important for a woman to have a man in her life. Yes or no. I take that as yes, however, this is something most feminists will disagree with. If it is very important, then why castigate women who really want to get married. Secondly you have said you would rather be married and I believe you are married to a guy to love. For you, love is the main thing in choosing a partner. Love is actually very difficult to define but that is a topic for another day. But another woman may choose to marry for a different reason. Must love (that we can hardly define) be the only reason in choosing a partner? Can there be other reasons like profile of the potential spouse, family background or cultural similarities? Financial ability, procreation etc? Some of these are valid reasons. Then you bring up another igbo adage that says "the one that nobody married" as one of your reasons for feminism. I equate that to calling a man poor. So if someone says - that man is very poor; would you now become very bitter, sad and form a movement around it. That someone mocks an unmarried woman does not mean she has zero value. It's similar to calling a man poor. You have just decided that the adage means the woman is entirely worthless and has zero value. 9 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Stillfire: 9:12pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar: I agree bride-price should be scraped and if it isn't women should pay a groom-price too. I think I even prefer paying a groom price so I can own a man. lol Coogar will be my wife hahahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 9:19pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: who says men cannot take care of the kids then. surely, some widowers(albeit few) who were taking care of their kids before the war got drafted to fight......how's that fair on them? in any emergency situation - women & children are the first to be rescued. when armed robbers come, men hide their wives & kids to confront death. how isn't that chivalry?
fellow women queered the pitch for you! what do you want hotel owners to do when well-dressed pröstitutes lurk around their edifice to sell sex. i heard they arrested about 3,000 of them in abuja last night - don't worry, you would soon be able to go to any hotel without being accompanied by a man. ![]()
i disagree..... too much privileges actually screw things up. it was when some drunk caucasians decided to implement the human rights act that the world got really screwed. look at the world around you - can you tell me everything is well with the way people are now marrying animals & objects? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by kaboninc(m): 9:21pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: The word is not ours but the definition can be likened to acts we're capable of. Then again, your dad who gave your education is an example of someone who has helped the 'weak-vessel' African woman. And that's a true feminist - extending educational opportunities to a female. 1 Like |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by freecocoa(f): 9:22pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar:The problem is that you are wrong, I gave examples the last time. |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 9:23pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
Stillfire: so you can lord over me and i can submit to you? ![]() ![]() ![]() freecocoa: the example you gave also happens to men. women aren't the only ones who suffer sex discrimination. men are constantly discriminated against on a daily basis....why don't men complain? if you need a housemate today, you would choose a female housemate over the male. how's it different from an employer that prefers a male job applicant in his company? both cases are gender discrimination! 9 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by kaboninc(m): 9:24pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
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Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by cococandy(f): 9:35pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
TooNoisy:those two have nothing in common. But I don't expect us to agree. So leave it at that. |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by freecocoa(f): 9:37pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar:Probably you don't complain because it's been ingrained into your head that, a man isn't supposed to complain about 'any little thing', so you keep quiet. You don't know that I'll choose a woman, if I know a man who can really do the job, i'd hire him. These are the types of things that feminism is fighting, it just so happened that, women have always had it harder, that's why there's more focus on women. 1 Like |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
NifemiOlu: @bold the hilarity in that ehhh. .. ![]() African especially Nigerian feminists are the least informed. majority of the them don't even know what it is about or the purpose and idea behind the movement. some are just following the crowd, others probably learnt of it two weeks ago and are carrying the matter on their head like hawkers, and some just think 'feminism' is a cool word. very few really understand the concept which is really about equality of the sexes, not seeing the menfolk as monsters or wanting to have superiority over them. Yet the so called self-acclaimed feminists would want me to pay for the meal after a date, wouldn't pay tax, wouldn't even support in the payment of school fees for their kids. 80% of Nigerian women don't contribute a dime in payment of their children's school fees, house rent, purchase of foodstuffs. equality of the sexes indeed. may god continue to punish whoever brought this blooper to this country. even all these small 17 year old girls would wanna be standing up to men and ranting what they don't know for all you pseudo and fake Nigerian feminists, first of all you do not possess a testicle, you can never be a man. you were made a pussssy for a reason secondly I've never seen any case of gender discrimination in Nigeria. If anything, women are even more favoured.. thirdly, go get a job and quit all this frivolous gobbledygook.. hasta la vista 4 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by coogar: 9:47pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
freecocoa: of course.... no one tells me to man up more than my mom. when my siblings cheated me while growing up, all i was told was to man up, big boys don't cry. ![]()
it depends on the job.... if it's a task that requires less manual stuff, then you can choose a woman. if it's to dig a borehole, would you choose a woman? ![]()
women have had it harder? how? ![]() ![]() i cannot believe you are saying this. women have had it very easy. what i kept hearing growing up was its not easy to be a man. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
coogar:You sound like an Edo boy. I'm done. ![]() |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
cococandy: . I observe its mostly ibo women that cling on to these feminist ideologies. An escape from the scars of their chauvinistic males had wrought on them. 2 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
I struck a nerve with my post. You can't win an argument but resort to derogatory word. You go wait tire for my reply. 2 Likes |
Re: Feminism: A Joke In Nigeria—for Now! by cococandy(f): 9:59pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
blublahd:erm ok |
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