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Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:18am On Jun 03, 2015 |
I have been wondering what the rush is actually all about when it comes to marriage, how can someone barely 20yrs get married and be able to cope with all the stress and burden associated with married life? This topic came up as a result of a wedding invitation i recieved. As in this particular girl about to get married was my classmate back then in junior school and should be aproximately 21yrs.. Left to me,i wil say it depend on the level of maturity of the would-be-couple but since it has been scientifically proven that the more you grow in age,the more mature u tend to become,i have then be wondering why the rush to early marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage by amichaelz101(m): 8:20am On Jun 03, 2015 |
OP.... So if a man come to u for marriage, u will decline? 2 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by agarawu23(m): 8:22am On Jun 03, 2015 |
it's all about choice and chances. |
Re: Early Marriage by adexeli(m): 8:22am On Jun 03, 2015 |
On this side of the world. . I'd dare not give anyone the motivation to do so . . The factors involved in marriage is more than mere attraction |
Re: Early Marriage by dharay99: 8:22am On Jun 03, 2015 |
alry |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:26am On Jun 03, 2015 |
adexeli:just my thought. The attraction will fade with time. |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:28am On Jun 03, 2015 |
amichaelz101:kk? U cn't express ur thought in a proper way? |
Re: Early Marriage by Jovanna(f): 8:29am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Let them continue to rush, those kind of people does not know what marriage entail, they are blinded with love... Na GIGO be dier case RUSH IN RUSH OUT |
Re: Early Marriage by ANGELMARVE(m): 8:30am On Jun 03, 2015 |
crap thread and a weed smoking OP |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:33am On Jun 03, 2015 |
ANGELMARVE:am nt suprise.. Define crap thread? I guess u wouldn"t be able to. Lolz! Idîôt... |
Re: Early Marriage by ANGELMARVE(m): 8:35am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:are u seeing ur period? 3 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by Calebosko(m): 8:36am On Jun 03, 2015 |
@ op,and her girls surporters dey there,when u don clock 40 and no man ask u wey ur fada from, then u wil av answer to their reasons,time wait for no girl,menaupause is real, its adviceable for man to stay long but as for girls when d oportunity cums,grap it with ur both hands 6 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Calebosko:smile! Bt at least be4 one get married the lady particularly should have something to holdon to in term of finance bt in a situation wer reverse is the case,how do u expect such marriage to last? Couple with the young age. |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:47am On Jun 03, 2015 |
ANGELMARVE:no but i can see blood dripping from ur stîñking diçk. |
Re: Early Marriage by Calebosko(m): 8:48am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:d guy na omo babaolowo na,gud if ur d kind of lady that dont depend on a man"s money,becus all d girls av seen always go for a man with too much money |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 8:57am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Calebosko:what do you know. just opened your mind and started thinking nonsense. we all know that there's no time but does that mean that you must get married under 20. can you even let your girl child marry at that age? but you come here and say nonsense. the only reason I see fit to marry is when the girl is pregnant and the parents of those involved are willing to bind by marriage. this is what happens when teenagers come to a public forum to say rubbish without thinking. you think marriage is what you rush into and at the end you can't cope anymore, then you come here to complain to us. go to the family section and see what marriage is all about. for better for worse |
Re: Early Marriage by donbenedict(m): 9:43am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Early marriage is fvckd up |
Re: Early Marriage by numericalguy(m): 9:47am On Jun 03, 2015 |
The only thing I detect is that the OP is filled with envy because her friend is happily getting married while she (the OP) probably doesn't have a good man to call her own. Statistics the world over has shown that those who get married early are likely to stay married longer and grow into one another to become one. My advice to the OP (and other girls that may think like her) is to learn to develop good characters and humility as these are qualities any good man can smell a mile away. 5 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 9:57am On Jun 03, 2015 |
numericalguy:buhahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Jealous? Of who? Why? Listen mister,everylady has a priorty,i just voice my opinion online, beside at my age now,the last thing on my mind is marriage,the fact that i open a thread about a lady,my classmate precisely, getting married at a very young age does nt in any way imply am jealous. I gotta alot of things to sort out. Get dat into ur fùçking head and stop reading absurd meaning to things... Pwee. |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 10:01am On Jun 03, 2015 |
numericalguy: SMH! |
Re: Early Marriage by ANGELMARVE(m): 10:37am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:smh u dat has worms coming out of her stinking and rotten pussy. 2 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 10:59am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Ladies and Gentlemen I offer to disagree with the notion of the OP which describe maturity as measurement of age. I will like to ask a question which it's answer require deep insight; If maturity is a measure of age why then do we still see divorce in homes where the couples are well advanced in age, despite they marry in the criteria of prescribed age by the so called scientists? 2 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by misspicy(f): 11:13am On Jun 03, 2015 |
21years is even better,i had a junior then back in secondary school,she got married at d age of 18 to a 52 years old airforce officer....to the glory if God she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl and has since been doing fine..... i will say its a matter of luck,so girls r so lucky while some r unlucky,as for me i wuldnt even try it.....i prefer to be psychologically ready bfor marriage. |
Re: Early Marriage by Diamby: 11:16am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Cykik:@cykik you think it is not right for a lady to marry at that age,but it is right to continue committing fornication,abortions and the likes.If you don't know a ladies fertility reduces with the monthly period and age.So u prefer to a lady commit fornication and incur the wrath of God than get married and have it legitimately. 3 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by numericalguy(m): 11:22am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy: And who made you the judge to tell everybody when to get married or when not to get get married. The fact that you have chosen to get married at the age of 45 or not to get married at all is your own personal choice and is not a yard stick for everybody to follow. If truly you are not envious, you would not be wishing that your "friend's" marraige collapse. Besides, why are you drinking panadol for another person's headache. 4 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 11:37am On Jun 03, 2015 |
@NUmericalguy, are u dat dense? In what way am i wishing my ex-classmate ill luck? Listen u foöl,i just voice my opinion out and also wish to hear odas views. It left for u to add urz or dissagree wit good reasons. For pete's sake if u cn't reason broad then get the fùçk outta my thread. Am tired of trying to convince u on my stance. Beside in what way am i trying to decide marriage age for people?. Infact ur post makes me sick! Dnt mention me again, shallow mentality piss me off. |
Re: Early Marriage by Vision4God: 11:39am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Marriage is not all about money! D blessings of marriage are numerous. As 4 early marriage, if d gal in question is ready, & d love is der, pls de shud go ahead. Its sweet esp wen d couple grow & do tins togeda. Mind u....every1's destiny is different. Also som pipl marry late, & widin a year der alredy frustrated wt d whole marriage tin.... 4 some, reality dawn on dem wen de c d kids of der mates dat got maried early, & d parents doing well(all round). De bgin to say....'u are so lucky 2 hv settled, now workin & kids grown up' & @ d end der d ones dat evn advice u on marriage matter eida in church or counselling offices. Life is sweet!!!! |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 11:43am On Jun 03, 2015 |
amichaelz101:am nt just ready to tie the knot. Beside,it nt about getting married but staying married happily |
Re: Early Marriage by bettercreature(m): 11:52am On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jovanna:What does marriage entails? are you divorced? its not about age its about maturity and exposure,I have seen a 19years old lady who is more matured than 29yrs old one so what are you saying ? @OP go find a good spouse for yourself 1 Like |
Re: Early Marriage by mayorkyzo: 12:10pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
I smell jealousy or envy |
Re: Early Marriage by Unike1(m): 12:30pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:I think it's more appropriate to analyze this on a case by case basis rather than take a holistic view or make general statement. Yea, truly she's a young girl that ordinarily one would expect to be in the university and not talking about marriage at the moment. Again, I didn't read anywer in ur post wer u stated she's not doing something meaningful. U rightly mentioned that it's scientifically proven that with age, one gets more mature. Shd we den wait till we r 40 before we consider settling down? Considering the saying that "a fool @ 40 is a fool forever". My dear, if u av a tenable reason y u think she's rushing into marriage, u could state it. Den we can look into ur argument from dat perspective. My fiancée got admission into the university at the age of sixteen(the youngest in d class) at 21 she had obtained her 1st degree. As we speak, she holds a sensitive position as a Research Analyst in a top stockbroking firm. A feat she wouldn't av attained if she wasn't mature to handle. We shouldn't wait for a TIME set by man before we can take that bold step in life. Marriage is no child's play nd shd be treated as such. I would rather u educate her if u feel she's been hasty bt then I gues it's łate. Wot she needs nw is ur prayers and support. My submission. 2 Likes |
Re: Early Marriage by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jun 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy: Relax jollyjoy |
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