Bozzax:


Yes.
If you are destined for hell, you will go to hell. As simple as that.

Think of life as a novel, and you as a character. Your script is already written and you will play the part.
You can't do anything about it.

U are a big liar!!!

Bozzax:
Your thread is erroneous in itself.

You can't scare your future husband away. It's destiny and it can't be changed.
If a lady has been destined to marry someone, she will marry the person, no matter what character she exhibits, no matter what she does wrong.

By your logic, every marriage is exactly the way God destined it to be. Do you mean there are no wrong marriages?

Let me cut it short dude, to fulfil your destiny, pray without season and dont follow trend

PMBlackett:
A lady has rights to turn down any man. Not every man that approaches a lady is her future husband. Neither does a lady turn down every man that approaches her. In order for a lady to know the true intentions of a man approaching her, certain behavioural walls have to be but in place. They are not negative. That a lady turns you down doesn't mean she'll turn down the next man, it's not by force for her to like you. If a lady dislikes you, she'll put up behaviours foreign to her, to make you lose interest in her, and leave her the fvck alone. . .

The same set of people condemning ladies behaviours with myopic 10 point views, are the same set of people that'll condemn her for being too open and accommodating to every man that approaches her, with 10 point views.

Hypocrisy abounds.

Your true colour or ur real nature is the one you display when dealing with the person you dont want.

If anything makes you put on a disrespectful or rude behavour, that who you are, and come to think of it, what if that person you claim you dont want is the husband that will bring you evalasting happiness but you chase him away rudely.

PMBlackett:


A lady has rights to turn down any man. Not every man that approaches a lady is her future husband. Neither does a lady turn down every man that approaches her. In order for a lady to know the true intentions of a man approaching her, certain behavioural walls have to be but in place. They are not negative. That a lady turns you down doesn't mean she'll turn down the next man, it's not by force for her to like you. If a lady dislikes you, she'll put up behaviours foreign to her, to make you lose interest in her, and leave her the fvck alone. . .

The same set of people condemning ladies behaviours with myopic 10 point views, are the same set of people that'll condemn her for being too open and accommodating to every man that approaches her, with 10 point views.

Hypocrisy abounds.

Hahahahahhahaha. Epic!

I believe if they Married @ the right time,they wont be itchy and touch about attitudes.
2ndly,whatever u sow u reap, many sweetiepies of Nowadays are so overdesperate and good at hooking innocent and goodlooking men.
They use charm,they use seduction,they use all sorts of hook and crook means to get what they want in a man!!!
Iam supdowned to note that ''GOD didnt even sanction almost 80percent of most modern day marriages ,so now that it has happened u cannot expect peace to rain with the bad lifestyles they lived when they were courting and dating
3rdly, The man failed to pray that the woman should manifest the real bad characters in courting so as to be free in marriage.
Behaviours are bound to change.both guys and ladies sometimes who r under pressure to marry sometimess hide their real characters to please one another.Truth is ,if you please Man and displease God before ur Marriage,you will lie a life of displeasure for missmarrying and pleasing MAN!!!!

4THLY,U MARRIEDCOS OF JOB BASED MENTALITY, OR GOOD RELATIONAL STATUS,U MARRIED BECAUSE OF SEUAL CURVINESS OR HIS PHYSIQUE.
U FAILED TO EXAMINE THE ODDS.U 0ARRIED BECAUSE U WERE LOOKING FOR A PROTECTOR THAN A HUSBAND.

TRUTH IS GOD IS THE ULTIMATE PROTECTOR!!!
AND WHEN UR SO CALLED HUSBAND CANNOT PROTECT U EMOTIONALLY OR PHYSICALLY,U TURN OFFENSIVE THAN DEFENSIVE.MANY WOMEN R LIKE THIS.
IT IS THIS REASON Y AS THE MATRIX LORD SURROUNDED BY WOMEN,LADIES,I SOMETIMES LAUGH AND AT SOME OF THESE ATTITUDES.

SOME MOTHERS R TO BLAME FOR FORCING THEIR DAUGHTERS INTO MARRIAGE AND U KNOW WHAT IT MEANS WHEN U DNT STRIVE FOR THE BEST OR USED CRROK MEANS TO GET WHAT U THINK I2S BEST,U WOULD SUFFER FOR MANSTEALING.

THATS Y MOST OF U BECOME OVERPROTECTIVE ,BECAUSE U USED JUJU TO MARRY OR BLACKPOWER THAN ASKING THINGS FROM GOD
LASTLY U BECOME DOMINEERING,SUSPICIOUS THAT HE I S CHEATING BECAUS) OF THE RECKLESS LIVES U LIVED BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!

sunnyt1:



Your true colour or ur real nature is the one you display when dealing with the person you dont want.

If anything makes you put on a disrespectful or rude behavour, that who you are.......

Very very provocative statement. It is often said that: if you want to know the true measure or character of a wo/man: observe him/her in these situations: (1) how they interact with people they don't think they need or add value to them or have interest in; (2) how they act when no one is watching them (3) how they behave or handle in stressful events etc. (4) how they act in times of lack (5) how they act in times of abundance. (6) interaction with family

People really need to take their time during courting/dating, to observe their potential mates thru seasons of life and in various situations with various people before you make informed decision on whom to spend the days of your life.

But, with the option of divorce, people rarely invest in quality relationships; after-all, finding a life mate has become a cheapened commodity that comes at any price/quality.

Yes, first impression doesn't always translate. It is very very likely that your life partner will not be immediately attractive to you at first sight/interaction etc. In fact, that's how nature most often ensure durability.

MHO anyway. Que sera sera! Life is what you make of it; glass is half full or half empty-- Some destinies are set in stone, most destines are determined by each individual.

Xiadnat:


Very very provocative statement. It is often said that: if you want to know the true measure or character of a wo/man: observe him/her in these situations: (1) how they interact with people they don't think they need or add value to them or have interest in; (2) how they act when no one is watching them (3) how they behave or handle in stressful events etc. (4) how they act in times of lack (5) how they act in times of abundance. (6) interaction with family

People really need to take their time during courting/dating, to observe their potential mates thru seasons of life and in various situations with various people before you make informed decision on whom to spend the days of your life.

But, with the option of divorce, people rarely invest in quality relationships; after-all, finding a life mate has become a cheapened commodity that comes at any price/quality.

Yes, first impression doesn't always translate. It is very very likely that your life partner will not be immediately attractive to you at first sight/interaction etc. In fact, that's how nature most often ensure durability.

MHO anyway. Que sera sera! Life is what you make of it; glass is half full or half empty-- Some destinies are set in stone, most destines are determined by each individual.

Hey what's up with u ?


Been a while

[quote author=Bozzax post=34320787]Your thread is erroneous in itself.

You can't scare your future husband away. It's destiny and it can't be changed.
If a lady has been destined to marry someone, she will marry the person, no matter what character she exhibits, no matter what she does wrong. [/quote

Am sorry for u. if u don't know that Destiny can be destroy u better take note. do u know how many destiny ar lying waste in d grave? a lot have kill their destiny with impatient. A boy who was destined to be a banker was stoned to death bkx he was caught while robbing. is that Destiny not killed? we were destined to live in the garden of eden but eve then adam disobeyed and was sent out of eden gardan. is that destiny not died? B careful not to do things that will kill your destiny. If destiny is that easy no body will go to school to become what they want. There will b no need for education. all we will do is just to lazy away till the appointed time, our destiny shows up.

Bozzax:
Your thread is erroneous in itself.

You can't scare your future husband away. It's destiny and it can't be changed.
If a lady has been destined to marry someone, she will marry the person, no matter what character she exhibits, no matter what she does wrong.

Am sorry for u and those hitting like for u. if u don't know that Destiny can be destroy u better take note. do u know how many destiny ar lying waste in d grave? a lot have kill their destiny with impatient. A boy who was destined to be a banker was stoned to death bkx he was caught while robbing. is that Destiny not killed? we were destined to live in the garden of eden but eve then adam disobeyed and was sent out of eden gardan. is that destiny not died? B careful not to do things that will kill your destiny. If destiny is that easy no body will go to school to become what they want. There will b no need for education. all we will do is just to lazy away till the appointed time, our destiny shows up.

Bozzax:


Yes.
If you are destined for hell, you will go to hell. As simple as that.

Think of life as a novel, and you as a character. Your script is already written and you will play the part.
You can't do anything about it.

u ar saying now that Adam and eve were destined to sin?

if a girl brake a boys heart your teacher calls that destiney?

if your father slap your mother na Destiny?

if u go steal and got caught na destiny?

if u died in the hands of quake doctors with fake drugs na Destiny?
if it is true that will ar like characters in a novel written by u, then y do we av Mind for thinking and decision taking? y do we av conscience? we ar suppose to b like dummies, like dullbaby. like machines, doing a particular thing like pen for writing. like robots. but we ar man made in the image of God. with mind, brain, heart and soul, no battery to start and remote to control,ok. there is no script. we ar alive. we do what we like and when we like. and we ar responsible for every decision we take. we think before doing anything that is the defference from a character in a novel and reality.

I tire for u. someone here said he is not going into argument with u and so am I.

MissGdope:

There's nothing like a predestined partner. You can find the right person in different individuals. If your theoory was correct then some people's destined partners could be presently dead or gay

spot on...wait oo, wah of d ones dah their supposed destined partner is in another continent.

Still trying to make sense outta it...

Hmmm...number 5 though.


Bet I cant date a short guy na..something abt dem jare

Annypie:
Hmmm...number 5 though.

Bet I cant date a short guy na..something abt dem jare

That they are quick to anger abi ?

Annypie:
Hmmm...number 5 though.

Bet I cant date a short guy na..something abt dem jare

That they are quick to anger abi ?

mr tosyn,

i am fairly new to naira land. i however think respect is due you. i admit i might not totally agree with all the points raised, but i believe that in a unique way u have captured a few cogent ideas in simple terms. I think it has been a fun discuss.

thIs is very true

KingTom:
Ema binu my boss. Abeg I lie for ground dey beg, abeg


Oya make I do the work
Cc: McEwen

are u a mod? Why do people most times mention u in their posts?

sapiorxxual:
are u a mod? Why do people most times mention u in their posts?

I'm not a mod sir, my friends just mention me

sapiorxxual:
are u a mod? Why do people most times mention u in their posts?

we be mods,with super powers

Kingtom,where you dey since na

McEwen:

we be mods,with super powers

King tom,where you dey since na

We dey around na you no see as the guy don dey fear us

KingTom:
We dey around na you no see as the guy don dey fear us

before nko? we na old lawdiii na

McEwen:
before nko? we na old lawdiii na

You know this!!!!!!

PMBlackett:
A lady has rights to turn down any man. Not every man that approaches a lady is her future husband. Neither does a lady turn down every man that approaches her. In order for a lady to know the true intentions of a man approaching her, certain behavioural walls have to be but in place. They are not negative. That a lady turns you down doesn't mean she'll turn down the next man, it's not by force for her to like you. If a lady dislikes you, she'll put up behaviours foreign to her, to make you lose interest in her, and leave her the fvck alone. . .

The same set of people condemning ladies behaviours with myopic 10 point views, are the same set of people that'll condemn her for being too open and accommodating to every man that approaches her, with 10 point views.

Hypocrisy abounds.

amen

tosyne2much:
It ought to be chores

There are few errors in the write-up


Once a thread hits the FP, it's automatically locked and cannot be modified

This thread hit FP 15minutes after dropping it.. I got to see my errors after it got to the FP

ok ooo

Bozzax:
Your thread is erroneous in itself.

You can't scare your future husband away. It's destiny and it can't be changed.
If a lady has been destined to marry someone, she will marry the person, no matter what character she exhibits, no matter what she does wrong.

Destiny ni destiny ko, when dont have go character your destiny will be ruined for real.

MrDojo:
Nice wrt up Op....

No.11 this is one of the most annoying things a girl can ever do to you they Dump u in the ALMIGHTY FRIENDZONE ....I believe d@ a lot of women ave lost and will continue to loose their future hsubands if they dnt stop drop every single person in the friendzone......bt the painful tin abt the friendzone is d@ the guy she is even datin may nt even like r as much as u do.....
Bt again OP nice job..

hahahaha. this comment really cracked me up ooo.in fact friend zoning don epp a lot of girls ooo especially in dealing with those persuasive type of guys.buh e badt shaa

Bozzax:
Your thread is erroneous in itself.

You can't scare your future husband away. It's destiny and it can't be changed.
If a lady has been destined to marry someone, she will marry the person, no matter what character she exhibits, no matter what she does wrong.

"Cause and effect" is an important aspect of mankind's existence on this planet!