Ada Okeke shared her true life story online…
My people, I need your advice… I am the one
involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend
and we agreed to invite her over so that he can
see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone
number from me, though I told her before doing
that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he
made it clear to me never to disclose what he
does for a living to her now, but rather I should
tell her he is a security man living in Mushin…
( note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid
to disclose his identity now, because according
to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him
for whom he is and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know whether it’s
true, I told her yes… But she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well… She told
me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage
yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no
avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price
last February, they are planning for their
traditional marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him
and discovered he is a rich business guy… She
called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t
have lied to her in the first place, knowing fully
well we are friends… that a friend is not
supposed to lie to a friend… Her sisters called
me and told me the same thing. But when I tried
to explain things, they hung the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to
explain things to her sisters and apologize too,
but my own sisters are still with the opinion that
I did nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the
wrong thing?

You just tempted her. Who wants to leave with a poor man? Not in this life,not when we are have so many choices,we deserves better and always want to make sure our future is secured. We want a comfortable future.

Men reject women for dumb sh1t do how come women can't reject men for dumb sh1t?

Dt guy is nt her husband. Whn her husband come ,she wil get married.

MrsChima:
Men reject women for dumb sh1t do how come women can't reject men for dumb sh1t?

Females are evil. Gay is best

Brytawon:
Ada Okeke shared her true life story online…
My people, I need your advice… I am the one
involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend
and we agreed to invite her over so that he can
see her. At last he liked her, collected her phone
number from me, though I told her before doing
that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he
made it clear to me never to disclose what he
does for a living to her now, but rather I should
tell her he is a security man living in Mushin…
( note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid
to disclose his identity now, because according
to him, he is looking for a lady that will love him
for whom he is and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know whether it’s
true, I told her yes… But she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well… She told
me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage
yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no
avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price
last February, they are planning for their
traditional marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him
and discovered he is a rich business guy… She
called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t
have lied to her in the first place, knowing fully
well we are friends… that a friend is not
supposed to lie to a friend… Her sisters called
me and told me the same thing. But when I tried
to explain things, they hung the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to
explain things to her sisters and apologize too,
but my own sisters are still with the opinion that
I did nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the
wrong thing?

love to nigerian ladies is when you are wealthy. keep hiding your identity till you meet the one that loves truely.


nigerian ladies=money mongers

ronald4lif:
I know this story is a fairy tale but I don't think I would blame the lady here for rejecting his proposal. He could have use different jobs rather than the security officer choice. No one want to suffer and while it's advisable not to show-off one's acquisition so as to be sure the person is marrying you for genuine reasons it doesn't mean one should act as a wretched fellow.

Just like men attach so much emphasis on beauty and women with good cooking skills and general home ethics so does women want comfort. You can't undermine the importance of comfortability under any guise and feel someone should be committed or marry you. Those games only work in home videos.