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I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 4:53pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice. There is this girl that do walk pass my street. Always well dress, well compose and "prettyful". I love her, so on this fateful day I walked up to her asked for her name, number and where she stays, she responded very well. To my surprise she lives at the end of my street, we never get to know or see each other because when ever I'm on holiday she's in school and whenever she's on holiday I'm in school. This is their second year they move to their house on my street. She's an igbo girl though I'm yoruba. I decided to ring her up the following day that I will like us to talk and get to know each other more. I told her to meet me at ostrich eatery and she said no that she doesn't feel like going out, she insisted I come to her place that is her house. On getting to the tail end of me street I called her to come out she said ok, she later called back to ask me "where am I?" I explained where I was to her just for her to tell me that's not her house that her house is at the far end of the next street. When I got there, I called her again and she said she was coming I was facing a different house thinking that was where she's going to come out from. I just felt a hand on my shoulder from behind. We both greeted each other. I watched her as she takes the lead on getting to the gate she knocks then I ask her "is this where you live and she says yes" I never believed my both eyes. it was a very big house. The gate man opens the gate and we both entered. She ask if I will like the pavilion or the visitors room. I told her the pavilion. She went in to fetch some drinks, we sat down and talked. so "I broke the ice" and tell her I love her and I will like both of us to be together. She looked at me and smiled saying I'm engage. I felt bad. To cut the long story shot. I love this girl. I'm in my final year at the university and she's in 300L at the state university of delta. I love this girl what will I do to make her mine or better still if it doesn't workout what will I do to forget her. She calls me more than I call her till today. I don't want her to friend zone me. Thanks looking forward to your advices. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nuisance(m): 4:58pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
See novel. Na omo ibo u follow, n u wan kill urself on top... She sey she don engage nah. Women plenty. Leave her alone I no get advice 1 Like |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Behira(f): 4:59pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
sitting inside my bathing bucket and quietly staring at my fone. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by goodmorning40: 5:00pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Hahaaa ur woeing methodeee Go to that baba alawo and arrange for her sharp sharp, u must not loose her becos she's a rich girl |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nuisance(m): 5:01pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Behira:Make I come join u make we rockey.. . |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 5:01pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nuisance:padi, that kind feelings nau. She dey burst my brain. I love her die. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Behira(f): 5:03pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nuisance:Pls just advice and dnt bring tribal prejudice into dis. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Cutehector(m): 5:03pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Me I personally dnt entertain such scenarios. I'v stoppd loving too easily like I used to. Like seeing a girl who is too pretty and immediately telln her dat I love her wen she has practically not done anythn to make me love her. Dats bullsheit.. Its only wen u knw 100 percent that someone shares d same feelings as u do abt them, den should u be confident enough to tell dem you love them. So u dnt get funny replies 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by dulux07(m): 5:04pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Since she's engage, let her be, there is nothing u can do, jst let things play out itself. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nuisance(m): 5:05pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Behira:You be anoda omo ibo . I'm entitled to my opinion |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Jason21(m): 5:07pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Behira:are u nake.d? |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 5:07pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
goodmorning40:lol, you are funny. I'm not even looking at her for being rich. I just like her she's damn! Cool. I have tried all I could to get her but couldn't cos she always tells me she's engage. Bro I no mind that babalawo paro oooo abeg you get any phone number? |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 5:10pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Cutehector:I understand, but in a situation whereby you are trying to forget about her and she still calls. Sometimes she tells me she's bored that can we walkout together. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Cutehector(m): 5:22pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
XVIER:if she is bored she should call her fiance and stroll out wit him.. I just can't tolerate such frndzoned life. Dats a no no for me, I hav other serious things to do as well. Why is is she callin me so much in d first place den? I dis like dat shiiit. I'm so fed up pretendin to be a frnd wen its obvious I really like her, I can't do dat.. I"d drop such frndship, and move on wit my life. I"m so good at that. Infact, there used to be a girl i liked sometime in d past. She outrightly frndzoned me. Buh she says she z fond of me bla bla bla. Dis gurl as am talkn to u chats wit me on whatsap evryday. If I dnt reply, she gets angry. Am like wtf! Am not ur boyfrnd so why get angry.. It got to a point whr I told her. Look. I can't continue this anymore, we act like we are dating but truely, u hav another guy who is fvckn u all d time whearas am d one playn mugu keepn u company. Dats bullshiiet. I calld off d frnship we had.. Told her she shouldn't call me anymore. Till now, we aint even talkn. And I"v enjoyed d peace. I rather be single dan to be someone's second choice. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by C4Ltd: 5:30pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
XVIER:Assistant boyfriend. no offence. she just wanted you to see that she's a big gurl in a big house. If you love her that much take her out to somewhere she's never been if you can afford that or you can do well to be just friends and keep both of yourselves company as neighbours should. my opinion thooooo |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Cutehector:me too bro |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by CertifiedFreak(m): 6:14pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Dude, girl can't live with you and can't live without you. You in some messed up shiat here. Be patient, never say never. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 6:44pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
C4Ltd:taking her out is not a problem. I can't be her friend cos me seeing her alone I will still develop same feelings for her whereby she feels nothing for me. I think I should just end the relationship. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by IamLEGEND1: 6:57pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 6:57pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Cutehector:ok, I get you point clearly. Saying her boyfriend should come and keep her company is not possible because they attend same school in delta and he lives in delta. I think I should quit it has you have said. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 7:02pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
CertifiedFreak:seriously, I don't even know what to do. Patient? I said when ever I bring up the issue about how I feel about her, she tells me she's engage but she always respond to me well I mean normal. She's someone that jokes and playful. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by XVIER(m): 7:03pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:lol, bro na advice I need nau. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by dredmatthew234(m): 7:04pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
dude , I really knows how it feels cos i was in that scenario with my current girlfriend ...I'll even say u narrated my story wen i first meet this girl, but almost a month after we meet ,she later called me herself and told me boldly on phone and in person that she has developed feelings for me and she really loved me , to me i thought probably she was just trying to study my character and all that before she accepted. and i could really see it in her behavior to me that she really loves me ... and we started the relationship and everything was going smoothly... on both sides she's caring, loving, truthful and we both enjoyed each tym together ( we do have sex ) truely she has someone she's dating before she meet me, which she told me wen i first asked her out and really she's is still dating this guy which she never lied about it ...cos she don't lie ( I've noticed her she always tells the truth even if i will be mad at her) the issue now is that the guy disvirgined her , so she respect the guy they've have been dating for almost four years ... I know she loves me , but it's hard wen u know someone you love is still having an affair with someone else .I feel bad each time i think of this ...but i really love her... I don't even think of double datin her my advice to you.... it's possible she has someone else she is currently dating, but if at the long run she falls for you ... can you really cope , even wen you know she's dating someone else ... cos u migth think its easy like i thought ,but it ain't my bother but if u can cope ,u can still continue pestering her till she accepts just advising you based on similar scenario... GOODLUCK!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by damilareoye: 7:07pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
your story was quite interesting and very touching... sorry eh, pray for miracle. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Next time she call don't pick it till she get pissed and complain about it then tell him what Cutehector told her ex.That's the best I can give you |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nuisance:ur moniker says it all. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Behira:who ask u? |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by DEIFIED(m): 7:26pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Just have to comment though i didnt read the op. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nuisance(m): 7:36pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:And what about my moniker. Abeg stay on ur Lane |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nuisance:nuisance. |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by MrCork: 7:47pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: I'm In Love: Please I Need Advice by goodmorning40: 8:04pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
XVIER:I tell u say I be baba alawo pikin, nawa for youoo. Ask ur elder bros he will direct you to that one he went to |
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