1. Lack of attention and intimacy:
How long can you go without receiving love and
attention before you look somewhere else? Some can go
for only days or weeks, and others can go for years.
However, in general, women need and desire intimacy,
physical touch, and mental and emotional attention. If
you are not receiving this from your husband or
boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time and you may
seek it from another i.e. a caring guy friend, the
attentive guy who feeds your emotional needs at your
workplace, or the hot trainer at the gym. Women
deprived of attention, compliments, and compassion;
usually have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it
won't lead to sex but initially they crave the attention
and compassion that has been absent from their
relationship.
2. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For
those of you who have been cheated on, you know how
awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb
and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At
the moment you find out your man cheated, your whole
body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach
drops, and you feel nauseated. Clearly, it negatively
affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your
ability to trust the cheater ever again. When you have
been cheated on, some of you may want to get revenge
by making them feel the way you felt. This can lead you,
to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is that
cheating never solves a relationship problem.
Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion
and romance in your relationship are a much better
solution.
3. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL
orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex , not
enough sex, non-emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-
you-mam" sex, you may eventually lose interest in the
relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This
creates temptation to seek sexual or emotional
satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to
communicate your needs to your man with the hopes
that he will step it up a notch. You can do this on your
own or with the help of a sex therapist.
4. Weight loss/plastic surgery:
Male attention increases quickly after a boob job, a
butt implant or weight loss, and so does your self-
confidence. With all this male attention, your
temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-control
to resist some of those male offers. Once you realize
other guys want you, your desire to act on it may have
you feeling euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely
and make your pros and cons list.
5. Financial independence:
When you feel financially dependent on your husband or
boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or
leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and
financially unstable keeps you in a one-down position.
Now that women make their own money, enjoy working,
and are good at it, the need to stay in an unhappy
relationship is not necessary. That feeling of power and
independence can be like seeing the red carpet laid out
for you; all the way to those other fish in the sea.
6. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need
to seek validation from others. This can be in the form
of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you
don't love or value yourself, you may project that onto
the person you are in a relationship with, and believe
they don't love or value you. Even if your husband or
boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because
you find it hard to accept their unconditional love. I
suggest reading one of the many self-help books out
there on building your self-esteem, or get some
counseling to help improve self-confidence.
7. Feeling under-appreciated:
When you are in a relationship, you like to please your
man. Cooking a romantic dinner, buying sexy lingerie,
and listening with your heart, are just a few ways you
may show your love and appreciation. So what happens
when you don't hear "thank you, please or I love you.”
Holidays and birthdays come and you don't receive
anything meaningful, nothing at all, not even a verbal
acknowledgement. We all have thresholds, and once
yours is reached, you may decide to act on a "thank
you, please, or I love you" coming from another
direction. Let your man know he may lose you if he
continues to take you for granted.
8. Bored:
He doesn't spray on that good smelling cologne
anymore, his clothing is wrinkled, stained or way out-
of- date. When he comes home from work (assuming he
has a job), it's the same old thing; "what's for dinner"?
When the weekend comes, he says he's tired and just
wants to relax at home, or go out to the same sports
bar you go every weekend. The routine is the same over
and over again. You are no longer on the same page.
You barely have anything in common. You are feeling
emotionally distant from him. You find yourself looking
at other prospects and fantasize about being with
someone else. You begin to feel excited (something you
haven't felt in "forever" just thinking about it. There are
many ways to spice up an old, tired relationship.
Boredom is something that can be resolved with a little,
or sometimes a moderate amount of effort. It requires
both of you introducing new ideas and behaviors, and
some spontaneity. Be sure of what you want.

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