Raymondenyi:
Hello fellow Nairalanders and romancelanders... i'm here again, seeking to learn, I really wanna know; why is marriage so much emphasized, when over 70% of it fails.
I have a cousin, who just got married last month, only for me to learn today, her husband has started beating her up; and pushing her out of his house on any slightest provocation; she is already fed up (ending it is imminent)....
Now this is not the only, there are several other cases I know; most of them very early, and the ladies re only bearing it; to only pass time.
Why the overhyping of marriage; when most will always fail? True response pls

GeneralQuamdeen:
70% fails or want to fail

Teempakguy:
The op is yoruba

Teempakguy:
The op is yoruba

Teempakguy:
The op is yoruba

psucc:
OP what is the essence of your living when over 80% of your mate had died?

Better go Ondo or Rivers and drink their ogogoro.

Raymondenyi:
Hello fellow Nairalanders and romancelanders... i'm here again, seeking to learn, I really wanna know; why is marriage so much emphasized, when over 70% of it fails.
I have a cousin, who just got married last month, only for me to learn today, her husband has started beating her up; and pushing her out of his house on any slightest provocation; she is already fed up (ending it is imminent)....
Now this is not the only, there are several other cases I know; most of them very early, and the ladies re only bearing it; to only pass time.
Why the overhyping of marriage; when most will always fail? True response pls

Raymondenyi:
my brother 70% fails; truely.... No sire; i'm Niger deltan...

Sexxkillz:
This simply means that 70% of people marry for the wrong reasons.

Marriage is for people who are truly in love. The 30% successful marriages are between those who know the essence of marriage, who value marriage, who respect their marriage bed and marital vows. . . People who are ready to lay down their life for the other person. People who marry for companionship. People who want to raise a family together in love. People who cannot do without each other. People who want to wake up every morning to stare into the eyes of the one they love. People who. Realize that money, beauty, sexiness etc are all superficial. People who realize that the sexy girl of today will look like her grandma tomorrow.

The other 70% all marry for the wrong reasons.
- she's sexy - one day, sexiness ends. Marriage fails.

- nice boobs - boobs bow to gravity, and he finds another girl with better boobs. Marriage fails.

- nice shape - there's always a lady with a better shape out there. He sleeps with her, and the next one. Marriage fails.

- lovely round yansh - better yanshes out there. Same as above.

- nice smile - better smile out there. Same as above.

- money - money finishes, or they meet someone richer. Even complain that they have all the money, but "love" don finish. Marriage fails. Love doesn't fail.

- rich family - same as above.

- fame - fame ends, money ends, same as above.

- money - sigh

- sex - legal sex. After the euphoria dies down, marriage fails.

- children - after they've gotten the kids they want, they'll look outside for sexier women. Marriage fails

- pity - he helped me. This was never for love.

- compensation - same as above

- money - sighs

- lust - sighs

I'm even surprised we don't have up to 85% of marriages failing. People who marry for the wrong reasons will fail. There's no magic to prevent it.

Marriage isn't a vice. We just have a majority of people jumping into it to feel among. They think it's all about proposing on tv, youtube, instagram or proposing with davido singing while the girl rolls on the floor or goes to hide. They think it's all about the "awwwwwwww" from total strangers on social media. I don't have an iota of pity for such people. They should shut up and stop complaining. . . Better still, ask the other 30% how they keep their marriages strong.

The singular fact that 30% succeed is enough for everyone to strive to be among the 30%. . . Let the other 70% continue in their foolishness and continually look for someone or something, to lay their failures on.

If you fail to plan, you've planned to fail. . . Simples!

firestar:


What's your drink of choice?
I owe you one.

Red wine.

Sexxkillz:
Red wine.

Sexxkillz:
This simply means that 70% of people marry for the wrong reasons.

Marriage is for people who are truly in love. The 30% successful marriages are between those who know the essence of marriage, who value marriage, who respect their marriage bed and marital vows. . . People who are ready to lay down their life for the other person. People who marry for companionship. People who want to raise a family together in love. People who cannot do without each other. People who want to wake up every morning to stare into the eyes of the one they love. People who. Realize that money, beauty, sexiness etc are all superficial. People who realize that the sexy girl of today will look like her grandma tomorrow.

The other 70% all marry for the wrong reasons.
- she's sexy - one day, sexiness ends. Marriage fails.

- nice boobs - boobs bow to gravity, and he finds another girl with better boobs. Marriage fails.

- nice shape - there's always a lady with a better shape out there. He sleeps with her, and the next one. Marriage fails.

- lovely round yansh - better yanshes out there. Same as above.

- nice smile - better smile out there. Same as above.

- money - money finishes, or they meet someone richer. Even complain that they have all the money, but "love" don finish. Marriage fails. Love doesn't fail.

- rich family - same as above.

- fame - fame ends, money ends, same as above.

- money - sigh

- sex - legal sex. After the euphoria dies down, marriage fails.

- children - after they've gotten the kids they want, they'll look outside for sexier women. Marriage fails

- pity - he helped me. This was never for love.

- compensation - same as above

- money - sighs

- lust - sighs

I'm even surprised we don't have up to 85% of marriages failing. People who marry for the wrong reasons will fail. There's no magic to prevent it.

Marriage isn't a vice. We just have a majority of people jumping into it to feel among. They think it's all about proposing on tv, youtube, instagram or proposing with davido singing while the girl rolls on the floor or goes to hide. They think it's all about the "awwwwwwww" from total strangers on social media. I don't have an iota of pity for such people. They should shut up and stop complaining. . . Better still, ask the other 30% how they keep their marriages strong.

The singular fact that 30% succeed is enough for everyone to strive to be among the 30%. . . Let the other 70% continue in their foolishness and continually look for someone or something, to lay their failures on.

If you fail to plan, you've planned to fail. . . Simples!

emperorchedda:
Marriage: An overrated word

One of the useless and senseless words in the dictionary

Subjects the man to slavery

He takes charge of a left over goods some other dude must have over used before she ends up in the unlucky guy's arm and calls him husband.

We should just procreate and everyone goes back to his/her normal life.

Because marriage favours only the female so they grab it with all their hearts

Teempakguy:
Good.
Now, let me make you realize. In ANYTHING that humans do, the percentage of success is always less than that of failure.
Ninety percent of businesses fail
seventy percent of all inventions never work
ninety five percent of ideas never get acted upon.
So you see. However, that is what makes it all the more exciting. Marriage is something that can fail. If you go into it, you HAVE to make it work. 30% know this. And that is why they are successful.
Even if just two percent of all marriages are successful, it is still enough to prove that it is possible for your's to work.

Raymondenyi:
Hello fellow Nairalanders and romancelanders... i'm here again, seeking to learn, I really wanna know; why is marriage so much emphasized, when over 70% of it fails.
I have a cousin, who just got married last month, only for me to learn today, her husband has started beating her up; and pushing her out of his house on any slightest provocation; she is already fed up (ending it is imminent)....
Now this is not the only, there are several other cases I know; most of them very early, and the ladies re only bearing it; to only pass time.
Why the overhyping of marriage; when most will always fail? True response pls

Sexxkillz:
[size=5pt]This simply means that 70% of people marry for the wrong reasons.

Marriage is for people who are truly in love. The 30% successful marriages are between those who know the essence of marriage, who value marriage, who respect their marriage bed and marital vows. . . People who are ready to lay down their life for the other person. People who marry for companionship. People who want to raise a family together in love. People who cannot do without each other. People who want to wake up every morning to stare into the eyes of the one they love. People who. Realize that money, beauty, sexiness etc are all superficial. People who realize that the sexy girl of today will look like her grandma tomorrow.

The other 70% all marry for the wrong reasons.
- she's sexy - one day, sexiness ends. Marriage fails.

- nice boobs - boobs bow to gravity, and he finds another girl with better boobs. Marriage fails.

- nice shape - there's always a lady with a better shape out there. He sleeps with her, and the next one. Marriage fails.

- lovely round yansh - better yanshes out there. Same as above.

- nice smile - better smile out there. Same as above.

- money - money finishes, or they meet someone richer. Even complain that they have all the money, but "love" don finish. Marriage fails. Love doesn't fail.

- rich family - same as above.

- fame - fame ends, money ends, same as above.

- money - sigh

- sex - legal sex. After the euphoria dies down, marriage fails.

- children - after they've gotten the kids they want, they'll look outside for sexier women. Marriage fails

- pity - he helped me. This was never for love.

- compensation - same as above

- money - sighs

- lust - sighs

I'm even surprised we don't have up to 85% of marriages failing. People who marry for the wrong reasons will fail. There's no magic to prevent it.

Marriage isn't a vice. We just have a majority of people jumping into it to feel among. They think it's all about proposing on tv, youtube, instagram or proposing with davido singing while the girl rolls on the floor or goes to hide. They think it's all about the "awwwwwwww" from total strangers on social media. I don't have an iota of pity for such people. They should shut up and stop complaining. . . Better still, ask the other 30% how they keep their marriages strong.

The singular fact that 30% succeed is enough for everyone to strive to be among the 30%. . . Let the other 70% continue in their foolishness and continually look for someone or something, to lay their failures on.

If you fail to plan, you've planned to fail. . . Simples![/size]

Sexxkillz:
Marriage is for people who are truly in love

Sexxkillz:
This simply means that 70% of people marry for the wrong reasons.

Marriage is for people who are truly in love. The 30% successful marriages are between those who know the essence of marriage, who value marriage, who respect their marriage bed and marital vows. . . People who are ready to lay down their life for the other person. People who marry for companionship. People who want to raise a family together in love. People who cannot do without each other. People who want to wake up every morning to stare into the eyes of the one they love. People who. Realize that money, beauty, sexiness etc are all superficial. People who realize that the sexy girl of today will look like her grandma tomorrow.

The other 70% all marry for the wrong reasons.
- she's sexy - one day, sexiness ends. Marriage fails.

- nice boobs - boobs bow to gravity, and he finds another girl with better boobs. Marriage fails.

- nice shape - there's always a lady with a better shape out there. He sleeps with her, and the next one. Marriage fails.

- lovely round yansh - better yanshes out there. Same as above.

- nice smile - better smile out there. Same as above.

- money - money finishes, or they meet someone richer. Even complain that they have all the money, but "love" don finish. Marriage fails. Love doesn't fail.

- rich family - same as above.

- fame - fame ends, money ends, same as above.

- money - sigh

- sex - legal sex. After the euphoria dies down, marriage fails.

- children - after they've gotten the kids they want, they'll look outside for sexier women. Marriage fails

- pity - he helped me. This was never for love.

- compensation - same as above

- money - sighs

- lust - sighs

I'm even surprised we don't have up to 85% of marriages failing. People who marry for the wrong reasons will fail. There's no magic to prevent it.

Marriage isn't a vice. We just have a majority of people jumping into it to feel among. They think it's all about proposing on tv, youtube, instagram or proposing with davido singing while the girl rolls on the floor or goes to hide. They think it's all about the "awwwwwwww" from total strangers on social media. I don't have an iota of pity for such people. They should shut up and stop complaining. . . Better still, ask the other 30% how they keep their marriages strong.

The singular fact that 30% succeed is enough for everyone to strive to be among the 30%. . . Let the other 70% continue in their foolishness and continually look for someone or something, to lay their failures on.

If you fail to plan, you've planned to fail. . . Simples!