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To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by BreezyRita(f): 10:15pm On Jun 07, 2015

We are duty bound to look out for friends no matter what.
Most of the time, we find ourselves in the position where we have to tell them the truth. But it is difficult when its a truth that will hurt them.
And when it brings them nothing but pain, we end up with this feeling of being the cause of their problems.

What will you do when you catch your best friend's partner cheating?

Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Cutehector(m): 10:16pm On Jun 07, 2015
i will mind my business!
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Hazardd(m): 10:18pm On Jun 07, 2015
~ nothing concern me so i will keep my mouth shutundecided
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by dulux07(m): 10:18pm On Jun 07, 2015
If he/she is truly ur best friend, tell them with proof n wisdom. It might seem ur hurtin him/her know, but ur saving him/her rm future disaster
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by pasqal09: 10:19pm On Jun 07, 2015
I'll let them know about it.
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by phlio(m): 10:20pm On Jun 07, 2015
I better just waka pass and go tell my friend not to eat her food
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Cutehector(m): 10:20pm On Jun 07, 2015
pasqal09:
I'll let them know about it.
pasqal we need to hav a chat
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by ZedX6: 10:24pm On Jun 07, 2015
BreezyRita:

We are duty bound to look out for friends no matter what.
Most of the time, we find ourselves in the position where we have to tell them the truth. But it is difficult when its a truth that will hurt them.
And when it brings them nothing but pain, we end up with this feeling of being the cause of their problems.

What will you do when you catch your best friend's partner cheating?

Not everyone is your best friend. For her to have attained the "best friend" level in your heart, she really means something to you. Some best friends are even closer than a blood sister.

If she's your best friend, you owe her the truth. Tell her what you found out. If she's _stupid enough to let a cheating scumbag who she isn't married to, to come between her and her supposed best friend, then she isn't worth your time.

But you'll have established yourself as an integrity keeper. . . Walk with your head held high for doing the right thing - expose his cheating ass!

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Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Jun 07, 2015
I will sit my friend down, and ask him questions. I don't think its right not to talk about it

I believe its someone you love that you correct. So why not?
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by pasqal09: 10:25pm On Jun 07, 2015
Cutehector:
pasqal we need to hav a chat
About?
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Rosemary216(f): 10:28pm On Jun 07, 2015
It depends on d kind of person ur frnd is. If i find out something like dis, telling my best frnd won't b a problm. I know if i tell her she would handle d situation maturely. Bt if i knw she wud make a mess of d whole tin i wud jst shutup, if she finds out herself its good, if she doesnt, well its nt my fault. I wouldnt want to b d architect of deir misunderstandin!

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Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Cutehector(m): 10:29pm On Jun 07, 2015
pasqal09:

About?
its private. let me pm u
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by PreacherxSon(m): 10:30pm On Jun 07, 2015
#BuhThatsNonOfMyBusiness !!!
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by BreezyRita(f): 10:38pm On Jun 07, 2015
PreacherxSon:
#BuhThatsNonOfMyBusiness !!!

It becomes you business when your friend is being played.
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by PreacherxSon(m): 10:42pm On Jun 07, 2015
BreezyRita:
It becomes you business when your friend is being played.



Tadaaaa !!!
Am a rev Preacher and all my frnds are rev. Frs, so who wan play who ?
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 07, 2015
Lol.

My friends know me nah. I don't mince words. If I catch the partner cheating, I WILL tell him or her.
What they then do with that information is left to them.
However, I will not talk unless I have irrefutable proof. I do not like making a fool out of myself,
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jun 07, 2015
BreezyRita:

We are duty bound to look out for friends no matter what.
Most of the time, we find ourselves in the position where we have to tell them the truth. But it is difficult when its a truth that will hurt them.
And when it brings them nothing but pain, we end up with this feeling of being the cause of their problems.

What will you do when you catch your best friend's partner cheating?



I will talk to the partner and ask him/her to confess to my friend. But before doing so, I will make sure I gather enough evidence in case he chooses not to confess and decides to deny everything.
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by jamex93(m): 10:59pm On Jun 07, 2015
i fit tell oo


it really depends
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 07, 2015
ZedX6:
Not everyone is your best friend. For her to have attained the "best friend" level in your heart, she really means something to you. Some best friends are even closer than a blood sister.

If she's your best friend, you owe her the truth. Tell her what you found out. If she's _stupid enough to let a cheating scumbag who she isn't married to, to come between her and her supposed best friend, then she isn't worth your time.

But you'll have established yourself as an integrity keeper. . . Walk with your head held high for doing the right thing - expose his cheating ass!
Ditto.
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MsBliss(f): 3:42am On Jun 08, 2015
Find a way to let her know without hitting the nail on the head .
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MrTeymee(m): 4:14am On Jun 08, 2015
MsBliss:
Find a way to let her know without hitting the nail on the head .
You no dey sleep ni abi u dey meeting grin?

Since he z my best friend, I'm just gonna have to tell him
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MsBliss(f): 5:53am On Jun 08, 2015
MrTeymee:

You no dey sleep ni abi u dey meeting grin?

Since he z my best friend, I'm just gonna have to tell him
lolzz just finished making call with my love and decided to log in and check what's happening online .
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by BreezyRita(f): 6:23am On Jun 08, 2015
vfactor:



I will talk to the partner and ask him/her to confess to my friend. But before doing so, I will make sure I gather enough evidence in case he chooses not to confess and decides to deny everything.

Ok. I like this.
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MrTeymee(m): 5:54pm On Jun 08, 2015
MsBliss:

lolzz just finished making call with my love and decided to log in and check what's happening online .

Aww night call so cutee grin grin
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MsBliss(f): 6:59pm On Jun 08, 2015
MrTeymee:


Aww night call so cutee grin grin

You think that's cute


It totally deprived you of your sweet sleep but when you think of how important the person is,you know its worth the stress .
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Deefuray(f): 7:29pm On Jun 08, 2015
I'm definitely going to tell her
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MrTeymee(m): 7:34pm On Jun 08, 2015
MsBliss:


You think that's cute


It totally deprived you of your sweet sleep but when you think of how important the person is,you know its worth the stress .
Of course it is. No girl is worth that stress. Nyt call don baff ..
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MsBliss(f): 9:19pm On Jun 08, 2015
MrTeymee:

Of course it is. No girl is worth that stress. Nyt call don baff ..

Baff?? what does that mean ?
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jun 08, 2015
PreacherxSon:





Tadaaaa !!!

Am a rev Preacher and all my frnds are rev. Frs, so who wan play who ?
what are u doing here then? Impostor!
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jun 08, 2015
What are parables for?
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by czarr(m): 10:38pm On Jun 08, 2015
....friend?..mind ur biz. best friend?...tell her asap!..u owe her that much!
Re: To Tell Or Not To Tell??? by MrTeymee(m): 10:52pm On Jun 08, 2015
MsBliss:


Baff?? what does that mean ?

Err it means baff?? Where are u based let's start from there embarassed

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