eipreel:
hmmm...*grabs chair with pen and paper* lovely piece I must say

eipreel:
hmmm...*grabs chair with pen and paper* lovely piece I must say but the latter part of no.6 tho

Akdegreat:

Taking note?
He's kinda correct with no 6 tho.

eipreel:


True that but I hope hez not referring to the extreme case with a "yes sir yes sir" kinda woman

stobery:
Their pix or idonbilivit

eipreel:


True that but I hope hez not referring to the extreme case with a "yes sir yes sir" kinda woman

gedtalks:
Guys I need Una support for here O!!!

These days Nigerian men don't compete for wives at all. EVEN VERY GOOD LOOKING LADIES HAVE TO COMPETE AMONGST THEMSELVES FOR A HUSBAND and believe it or not; responsible (ideal husbands) are really-really scarce.... talk less about RICH plus RESPONSIBLE (pardon my mistake) COMFORTABLE plus RESPONSIBLE. I want to use my experience as an example:

As soon as I got a good job (Lord I give you praise) I discovered a growing list of beautiful+well educated girls that if I dare ask "would you ...." before I finish speaking, they will say YESSSSSSSS!!! and start giggling with profound JOY. Somebody analyzed the reason to me like this: There are very few jobs in Nigeria. Naturally guys get more jobs than ladies. There are twice as much unemployed ladies than guys, so when a lady see's a guy that is comfortable, she see's him as capable of providing for her and being the man in her life (2 solutions in 1 shot). When a lady sees a responsible+comfortable man, she is both "applying for a job" and searching for a man, amongst many competitors of the same class she belongs.

I want to give ladies a hint to what traits most responsible NIGERIAN guys want to see in you and how to boost you chances of surviving the competition. Because whether you accept it or not, these days it is survival of the fittest.

1. Stop being too conservative:. If you're an "indoor", "I'm the quiet type" girl, then any smart good looking girl will beat you to that in one trial. If you keep staying indoors WHO will see you? Come out of the shell (that is why you are educated). Let ''the product'' be seen and heard.

2. Your appearance matters a lot - you need to look good 24/7 but in a generally accepted way. (neither too holy looking nor too sinful looking) . If you are Fat - my dear kill yourself to loose that weight O. Most guys (like me) ABHOR FAT GIRLS as wife because they look lazy, dirty and very sexually unattractive.

3. Your character - carrying Bible and going to church everyday DOES NOT MEAN you have a good nature . Even satan goes to church these days and calls himself ''pastor''. ACQUIRE SINCERELY GOOD NATURE. BE OPEN MINDED. BE SIMPLE MINDED.

4. For very good looking girls: Throw away "secondary-school-hot-chick" pride. When a joke is funny, laugh - be yourself but in a cultured way. Let people see that you are humble by interacting with ALL classes of people. When you come across ''low class'' and poor/illiterate men, DON'T CARRY YOUR NOSE UP, their brother might just be Mr Perfect or Mr Perfect might just be watching you by the corner.

5. Be perfect in courtesy. Learn to greet anyone/everyone politely. Greeting alone has given thousands of girls husbands.

6. Be African minded if you want to marry an African man. Never engage in such discussions to show that you want to be ''equal'' to your man. (its only a silly man that will look down on a lady that exalts him). We Men expect that you RECOGNIZE us as the oga's. It makes us feel good and kills all our fears about you.

7. Be positive minded- imagine good things and smile and pray for them to come.

Best of Luck Ladies !!!

Xiadnat:
....beautiful and CLASSY girls.

Number 6 just means low self esteem men...pansies. Kiss my butt.

:-/

Don't you think you should show him what he's supposed to kiss?

ZedX6:
Don't you think you should show him what he's supposed to kiss?

Xiadnat:
....beautiful and CLASSY girls.

MY RESPONSE TO THIS:
Let me just teach you a bit about advertising, hitting lime light, and as the case is trending ... you need to target the "loud" "bold" and "extrovert" audience. How many people will have read this if the title was "To ordinary looking girls". How many adverts do you see that use ordinary looking girls for bill boards??.

Number 6 just means low self esteem men...pansies. Kiss my butt.

:-/
MY RESPONSE TO THIS:
heyy yaa!!! sorry for your interpretation of a modern age/refined African man's cultural values maintained in the civilized way.... to be low self esteem. My dear I want my wife to adore me O! ...and make me feel good!!! you can destroy your cultural values 100% if you wish mann!!! No matter how civilized you fake being.... your skin will remain black.

gedtalks:


ladies wait O! is there any educated 100% yes Sir!! woman on the face of this earth . In fact even amongst illiterates... is there any in this age?? please give us example. if you have seen any

Vycko:
Hmmmmm...there's no straight jacket rule to life