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To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by gedtalks(m): 4:15pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Guys I need Una support for here O!!! These days Nigerian men don't compete for wives at all. EVEN VERY GOOD LOOKING LADIES HAVE TO COMPETE AMONGST THEMSELVES FOR A HUSBAND and believe it or not; responsible (ideal husbands) are really-really scarce.... talk less about As soon as I got a good job (Lord I give you praise) I discovered a growing list of beautiful+well educated girls that if I dare ask "would you ...." before I finish speaking, they will say YESSSSSSSS!!! and start giggling with profound JOY. Somebody analyzed the reason to me like this: There are very few jobs in Nigeria. Naturally guys get more jobs than ladies. There are twice as much unemployed ladies than guys, so when a lady see's a guy that is comfortable, she see's him as capable of providing for her and being the man in her life (2 solutions in 1 shot). When a lady sees a responsible+comfortable man, she is both "applying for a job" and searching for a man, amongst many competitors of the same class she belongs. I want to give ladies a hint to what traits most responsible NIGERIAN guys want to see in you and how to boost you chances of surviving the competition. Because whether you accept it or not, these days it is survival of the fittest. 1. Stop being too conservative:. If you're an "indoor", "I'm the quiet type" girl, then any smart good looking girl will beat you to that in one trial. If you keep staying indoors WHO will see you? Come out of the shell (that is why you are educated). Let ''the product'' be seen and heard. 2. Your appearance matters a lot - you need to look good 24/7 but in a generally accepted way. (neither too holy looking nor too sinful looking) . If you are Fat - my dear kill yourself to loose that weight O. Most guys (like me) ABHOR FAT GIRLS as wife because they look lazy, dirty and very sexually unattractive. 3. Your character - carrying Bible and going to church everyday DOES NOT MEAN you have a good nature . Even satan goes to church these days and calls himself ''pastor''. ACQUIRE SINCERELY GOOD NATURE. BE OPEN MINDED. BE SIMPLE MINDED. 4. For very good looking girls: Throw away "secondary-school-hot-chick" pride. When a joke is funny, laugh - be yourself but in a cultured way. Let people see that you are humble by interacting with ALL classes of people. When you come across ''low class'' and poor/illiterate men, DON'T CARRY YOUR NOSE UP, their brother might just be Mr Perfect or Mr Perfect might just be watching you by the corner. 5. Be perfect in courtesy. Learn to greet anyone/everyone politely. Greeting alone has given thousands of girls husbands. 6. Be African minded if you want to marry an African man. Never engage in such discussions to show that you want to be ''equal'' to your man. (its only a silly man that will look down on a lady that exalts him). We Men expect that you RECOGNIZE us as the oga's. It makes us feel good and kills all our fears about you. 7. Be positive minded- imagine good things and smile and pray for them to come. Best of Luck Ladies !!! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by demmy0325(m): 4:16pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
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Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by eipreel(f): 4:19pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
hmmm...*grabs chair with pen and paper* lovely piece I must say but the latter part of no.6 tho 1 Like |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by gedtalks(m): 4:21pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
eipreel: thanks dear. *little but good sign of humility. |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by olamydey(f): 4:25pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Nice piece 1 Like |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Nice write up sir 1 Like |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by stobery(m): 4:27pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Their pix or idonbilivit |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
eipreel:Taking note? He's kinda correct with no 6 tho. |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by ednut1(m): 4:28pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
so many single 30-35 year old babes out der. nawa o. den u attend wedding d babes getting married are 22-25 age range mostly. so who go marry d old ones o |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by sexylogan(m): 4:31pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Op, you are completely on point. 1 Like |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by eipreel(f): 4:39pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Akdegreat: True that but I hope hez not referring to the extreme case with a "yes sir yes sir" kinda woman |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by gedtalks(m): 4:45pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
eipreel: ladies wait O! is there any educated 100% yes Sir!! woman on the face of this earth . In fact even amongst illiterates... is there any in this age?? please give us example. if you have seen any |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by gedtalks(m): 4:49pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
stobery: "'pix "bross appearance is NOTHING compared to character O!!!... just my little piece if advice shar |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
eipreel: I don't think so |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by tosyne2much(m): 5:04pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
This is the thread where I belong 1 Like |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by humilitypays(m): 5:27pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
gedtalks:Very lovely and honest write-up that will help those who wishes to learn and change where necessary. I only disagree with the point that guys get more jobs than ladies; the table is gradually turning- more ladies are getting better jobs in Nigeria of today. Well done guy, voted up! |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
....beautiful and CLASSY girls. Number 6 just means low self esteem men...pansies. Kiss my butt. :-/ |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by ZedX6: 5:39pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Xiadnat:Don't you think you should show him what he's supposed to kiss? |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
ZedX6: Ohohooh..ahaha..heheheh...ooo...ah..aha....hehehe....sighs. You try sha. Cheeky you! See as you dey make me laugh hard. :-( |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by gedtalks(m): 6:05pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Xiadnat: , |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Masculity(m): 6:06pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Ladies take note guys nowadays are becoming too expensive. *refering to my girl* |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by eipreel(f): 6:35pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
gedtalks:Yes some of em still exist...not their fault tho especially victims of battery |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Hmmmmm...there's no straight jacket rule to life 2 Likes |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
I like this, Pm me for chilled zobo and fried frog. |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by b3llo(m): 12:10am On Jun 14, 2015 |
Nice work... Let she who has eyes and brain, read and understand. 1 Like |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by Nobody: 1:00am On Jun 14, 2015 |
Vycko: I agree with you. |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by sarmiie(m): 2:51am On Jun 14, 2015 |
This!!!! |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by xp17(m): 7:34am On Jun 14, 2015 |
op, you nailed it all on a single stroke, especially That number 6. All these ladies keep listening to opera Wilfred who is yet to walk through the aisle. How can one mentor what she's All men, (that includes women) are born the same and should be given equal right, opportunities and placement, But in marriage, it's a different ball game and the man is the head while the woman is his PA . the PA guilds, directs and advises Him, and always put him on track. The PA does her work with caution and her words comes politely as a suggestion . Call your man a nobody and watch him always goes out to a beer palor (bar) where he would be called oga na origin abi na odeku and you all know it's always a bad end making decisions on origin or odeku. Or call him my all and watch him always runs to you with all he got. The choice is yours to pick. @ op, the truth is most women re just good enough for dating and one night stand. |
Re: To Beautiful And Classic Girls Still Searching For Husbands by redgem(f): 8:25am On Jun 14, 2015 |
Op you are right...I'm an indoor person and I really need to change that 1 Like |
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