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Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Biliamin(m): 9:24pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
1. Many ladies will end up being single for life because of the media exposure: It is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset if it’s not how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels? 2. Many ladies of nowadays dislike cooking and doing home chores: Just because they have been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family. Now, with this kind of attitude, how do you expect a man to desire to marry you when he knows pretty well that he is only buying more headache and trouble rather than a helper for himself? 3. Modern fashion and craze for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage: How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest mobile phones and ipads to the detriment of her woman worth? How can a single lady maintain this lifestyle for long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle? How do you expect a man from a responsible family background, and who is in his right senses to propose marriage to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery, perfume name them. Of course, majority of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but wouldn’t want to propose marriage even if she is earning the money by herself because her expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to most responsible serious- minded single men. Only men that are out for fun will be closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal from them is as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle. 4. Excessive make-up turns most decent and serious- minded men off: If you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive make-up, and more don’t even like it at all. Excessive make-up makes you look like an Egyptian Mummy. A slight make-up is okay, but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious- minded men. Unless you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage. 5.Cut Down Your Participation in social network sites: If possible, limit your use of facebook and twitter accounts because they may be doing you more harm than good, but you wouldn’t know until you hit 35 years plus and still single and searching. No man would want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network site to another because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be unfaithful, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you to have a thousands of friends on facebook, same on twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo, eskimi, and you are not even a celebrity? 6. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always ringing. A girl who is always on phone talking, chatting and laughing. You are out on a date with a guy, but you keep on texting the whole date. Who is she texting anyway? Same goes for you. Flip your phone over or turn it off. It’s just disrespectful. Keep away your phone You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement. 7. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating: Because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think and work towards equipping yourself so that you can be of value and also add value to his life. The kind of value that will convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved. 8. Your Friends Run Your Life: How do you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which one is not? When will you wake up and face the fact that even though those best friends of yours cherish you, most of them wouldn’t want you to get married before them or you to get married to their best man. 9. You Move Around In Groups: Often times, you miss the advance of a good decent man when you move in groups, be wise. Again, men don’t always fancy ladies that move around in groups because most ladies can only be reasonable enough when you separate them from their group of friends. 10. You Give Everything Out During Dating: As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry so as to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant s3x and companionship, good food and tidied home. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant s3x, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me, how the hell do you expect him to get the desire of marrying you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on s3x supply, cooking, home-keeping once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life? 11. You Package Yourself Wrongly: In your attempt to look s3xy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest, more dis-tractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most of the times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively s3xy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s3x urge. 12. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing: Definitely, you are a ‘hot girl’, a ‘pretty girl’, a ‘s3xy girl’. Looks will win you so many men, both good and bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the greatest things that will determine whether any of these men will stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. 13. You Are A Liability: In as much as we know that the present economy of the world in general is harsh, men and society in general careless about how you react to this situation. Meaning? You are from a poor family background, and you have no job or you are earning below $500 a month but you want to wear designer clothes, shoes, jewellery and perfume. You also want to carry Prada and Gucci hand bags. Who is going to foot the bills? There are zillions of decent and honourable things you can do as a single lady to at least meet your own financial needs without slεεping around with men or depending on one man to supply all your needs. Finally, cut your skirt according to your length. You are from a poor family, your parents earn below $500 a month, but you want to look like Rihanna, wear the same clothes she wears, you want to live a similar life Beyonce lives, and you want to dine in the costliest hotels and restaurants, and you are jobless or you are earning below $500 a month. Now tell me sincerely, how is it possible to achieve this foolish goal without patronizing immoral lifestyle to meet the insatiable demands? 14. Your Role Models Are Totally Strange And Bad! If you want to be a great woman tomorrow, start now to emulate great women- study their foot paths, their lifestyle, their ways of life and try to inculcate their lifestyle into your bad habits- poor manner and laziness in you. Stop looking up to music stars and fake celebrity ladies as your only role model in life. Please wake up before you end up single for life, for which I pray not. http://www.media254.com/why-single-ladies-born-in-80s-90s-may-never-get-a-husband-soon/?utm_campaign=shareaholic&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=socialnetwork 3 Likes |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
Hmmm |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by vislabraye(m): 9:32pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
9. You Move Around In Groups: Often times, you miss Very true... 1 Like |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
yeah most of your points makes sense, the smart ladies will surely get married. |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by mentorandfriend(m): 9:38pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
Really? |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by ammyluv2002(f): 9:40pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
icedbeatz:Being smart does not guarantee a husband....it takes grace and not one's smartness. God is the giver of any good gift and that includes a husband so chill |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by doublewisdom: 9:42pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
The fewer of them that get married, the more of them we can lay. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
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Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by MizTyna(f): 9:45pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
Who are those getting married Saturday after Saturday? Evil spirits? Most of the points are just what no reasonable person should do,irrespective of gender. Some do it tho and still get married. It still depends on your partner |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:God will always be graceful but as humans you must play your own part because God will not come down from heaven to give you the things you desire and by smart I mean the ladies that truly knows their place, what they want and most importantly how to get what they want. A lady's always plays part in aiding a man to finalize his decision on getting married by consciously or unconsciously /subliminally proving that she's a worthy partner. just so you know being smart paves way and gives an edge in almost all situations. |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by ammyluv2002(f): 9:52pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
icedbeatz:Yeah, you're right but remember there are times, when we have it all planned out as in being smart yet it didn't click even the bible made it clear " it's not by power or might but by the spirit says the Lord of host" Yes, you have to be smart but grace supersedes every other thing. |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:Grace supersedes all that's why I typed about it first, we can do shitt, we won't be shitt without his grace so basically we all have his grace maybe not equal I don't know but we all sure do but the actions we take and the decisions we make determines how our life turn out to be. |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
icedbeatz:sMART!! |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
doublewisdom:gosh! |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
I couldn't read your epistle but a mere glance at some points shows u are very on point. I will Pm u two bottles of chilled zobo . |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by ammyluv2002(f): 10:05pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
icedbeatz:Ok! I get |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
MizTyna:tRUE! 1 Like |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by MrTeymee(m): 10:11pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
Charity comment |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
I lack manners no b small |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by pwerrymansion(f): 11:33pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
It irks me to the base of my stomach how pple dissipate needless energy to write trash or stereotype on Nland abt women.This sudden proclivity against the women folk is denigrating and heartbreaking. It seems a lucrative headline/topic on this forum. Women this and women that! The Mods should place an embargo on these insipid headlines gosh! Even some boys who haven't even experienced puberty seem to know very much abt the women folk. So pathetic! Btw I didn't read this poo! |
Re: Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by fretfingers: 9:06am On Jun 15, 2015 |
If most of d girls born in d 80's and 90's don't get married... Na who we go marry den... Shey na d ones wey dem born for 2000's abi the ones born prior to d 80's and 90's... Maybe the 70's downward... |
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