The feeling of jealousy isn’t a good feeling, but there are certain situations where it’s good to be jealous in your relationship. Jealousy is a natural emotion that we can’t control at times. We often get jealous for no reason, but if your partner behaves in a way that causes you to be jealous, don’t feel guilty about expressing your emotions. He should know about your feelings and he should admit his mistakes. When jealousy hits, make sure you have a reason for it and let your partner know about that reason. Good communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship. Here are seven times when it’s actually okay to be jealous.

1. WHEN HE GIVES FLIRTATIOUS VIBES TO ANOTHER WOMAN
If you are at a party or any other social gathering and you notice that your partner is extremely flirtatious with another woman, it’s absolutely natural to get jealous. Don’t hide your emotions. Let your partner know that you don’t like his behavior, but do it in a calm way. If needed, take a few deep breaths to release your anger first. The last thing you want to do is to cry and scream and ruin your day or evening.

2. WHEN YOU LEARN IMPORTANT THINGS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER FROM OTHERS
When you are in a relationship, you want to know everything about your significant other. It’s painful when you learn some important facts about your partner’s life from his friends, coworkers or neighbors. It’s okay to feel jealous. After all, why do his coworkers know about those facts and you don’t? Ask your partner why he didn’t tell you anything about it, but don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. Maybe he just forget to tell you about it, or maybe he has a crucial reason to hide it from you.

3. WHEN YOUR PARTNER TREATS HIS JOB OR HOBBY LIKE HIS SECOND RELATIONSHIP
If you partner spends all of his time at work, it’s not surprising you feel so jealous. While it’s great to love your job or hobby, you should also spend your time with family and friends. Discuss it with your partner and help him to find a good work-life balance. You love him and you want to spend more time with him. Tell him! He needs to make some lifestyle changes to live a happier life.



4. WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE HE DOESN’T CARE ABOUT YOU
Hearing your partner brag about his happy and successful day, when you are trying to cope with the hard times, is always difficult and it’s okay to feel jealous. Sure, you should be happy for your partner’s success, but if you feel like your partner doesn’t care about you and your problems, it’s a red flag. Just tell him that you are happy for him, but you have some serious problems so you don’t feel well now.

5. WHEN HE TRAVELS A LOT
If your partner is a travel junkie, chances are that he visits new places at least once a month. If you don’t have time or simply can’t afford to travel, you may feel jealous, and it’s bad and good feeling at the same time. Again, if he loves you and cares about you, he will never go anywhere without you. Don’t let your jealousy ruin your relationship, why not save for your lifetime trip together? You will have an awesome experience and improve your relationship.

6. WHEN HE BUYS EXPENSIVE THINGS
If your partner makes more money than you and he never buys cheap things (like you do), it’s okay to feel kind of jealous that you can’t afford to buy a super cool smartphone or brand name clothing. This is a situation when you have to cope with your jealousy alone. Remember, he loves you for who you are. If he doesn’t tell you that you wear cheap things, there’s no need to worry.

7. WHEN HE SPENDS MORE TIME WITH HIS FRIENDS THAN WITH YOU
If you feel like your partner spends more time with his friends than with you, don’t blame yourself for being jealous. Instead, let your partner know that you feel lonely because he doesn’t spend enough time with you. You should be his priority, not his friends.

Most of us believe that jealousy is a toxic emotion that can ruin any relationship, but it shouldn’t make you feel unhappy. There are situations where your jealousy can help you either improve your relationship or end an unhealthy relationship. However, if you realize you are too jealous in your relationship, try to get rid of this emotion and don’t let it ruin your life.

– Jennifer Houston/Womanitely
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I couldn't agree more...

Op aren't you the same person that ferments trouble in the religious section especially with the Muslims

SAMBARRY:
Op aren't you the same person that ferments trouble in the religious section especially with the Muslims

Am a changed person
As midolian
I don't do dat anymore

OREMUSSANCTUS:

Am a changed person
As midolian
I don't do dat anymore

you ve not stopped. You ve reduced it though..

Well, CHANGE takes a gradual process. Thank God for ya life

midolian:
you ve not stopped. You ve reduced it though..

Well, CHANGE takes a gradual process. Thank God for ya life

midolian:
you ve not stopped. You ve reduced it though..

Well, CHANGE takes a gradual process. Thank God for ya life

My dear brotherm you don leave religion and politics section come romance/family section?

No let us miss you oh..

OREMUSSANCTUS:

Am a changed person
As midolian
I don't do dat anymore

its a lie joor I don't believe you.




I still read your post today and you got me laughing hard


mohaMAD (pbuh) disaster be upon him
a criminal, bandit, rapist and pedophile. Isn't that your hand work

francizy:
My dear brotherm you don leave religion and politics section come romance/family section?

No let us miss you oh..

I don tire for ban weh dem dhe give me for politics section

SAMBARRY:
its a lie joor I don't believe you.




I still read your post today and you got me laughing hard


mohaMAD (pbuh) disaster be upon him
a criminal, bandit, rapist and pedophile. Isn't that your hand work

Stopped all of dat, if not for anytin buh for ma bro midolian
#nohomo

when her hubby is a mama's boy, the wife will die of jealousy

OREMUSSANCTUS:

Stopped all of dat, if not for anytin buh for ma bro midolian

ok so your boyfriend midolian is a Muslim that's why you stopped all the rascality?



See what 3rd leg can cause

lofty900:
when her hubby is a mama's boy, the wife will die of jealousy

True talk!

SAMBARRY:
ok so your boyfriend midolian is a Muslim that's why you stopped all the rascality?



See what 3rd leg can cause

No homo

OREMUSSANCTUS:

No homo

ok o.bet I'm watching you

OREMUSSANCTUS:

I don tire for ban weh dem dhe give me for politics section

Lol.. You can always post there without typing that your Isla..something and the other one na..

We can't loose our own to the romance section oh.. Just do come back

hmmm this is serious

francizy:


Lol.. You can always post there without typing that your Isla..something and the other one na..

We can't loose our own to the romance section oh.. Just do come back

I can't go to romance section
Its not ma calling
I just posted somtin dere, just to help dose in trouble
Ama bounce back on politics section too soon
Trust me

tartar9:
hmmm this is serious

Pls he nids our prayers
https://www.nairaland.com/2154501/drug-anxiety

OREMUSSANCTUS:

I can't go to romance section
Its not ma calling
I just posted somtin dere, just to help dose in trouble
Ama bounce back on politics section too soon
Trust me

That's more like it brov!