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Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 12:50pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
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Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 12:51pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Some men are exceptionally violent and hit thier women at the least provocation. This is wrong and should not be encouraged. But saying nothing should make a man hit a woman is just being naive. The op hasn't told us what she did that made him hit her. It is possible she married a chronic wife beater and hence really needs help. Someone has posted a link to that effect. It is also possible she is a stubborn woman with a caustic tongue and frankly the man has had enough and feels a good spanking is in order to make her behave herself. Either way we are all human beings with varying characteristics. If you know what triggers your husband to hit you then kindly refrain from it. If he is a mad man and hits you without reason get people to take him to Psychiatric hospital. Either way settle yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 12:51pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
freecocoa:Thank u free cocoa |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 12:54pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Wat planet are u from? . Do u have a sister at all? SMH. God pls save women from the likes of you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 12:55pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Pineapp:Pleasssse! She is not a punching bag! 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Odilafta are you saying is right for a man to hit a woman? Pineapp!!! |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
this man was probably abusive when you were dating. if he wasn't physically abusive then, he was probably abusive in other ways but you overlooked them or thought he would change. if you don't want his family members involved because they won't do a thing, why don't you want yours involved? not letting family members know will only strengthen his power. you can get an organization involved, if you find one, but you should tell your family members too, for support. if you don't have kids, leave. if you have kids, leave, with them. there's no rule that says you must stay in an abusive marriage by force. he can injure you now, render you physically disabled, or worse, kill you.. avwerosuoo: |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Pineapp: 1:05pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Herzumpther:I'm saying its wrong for a woman to pass boundary. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by freecocoa(f): 1:27pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Joy1706:You are welcome. |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by freecocoa(f): 1:29pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11:No, meekness is not a woman trait, it can and should be possessed by everyone. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by VintageCocktail(m): 2:21pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
God, I am not gonna invite somebody to this section......so depressing with mind damming stories that is making singlehood very appealing. |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 3:15pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11:In d past women were known to be peacemakers, but these days they are more aggressive... |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by raumdeuter: 3:21pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
If you didnt attack him first then you are justified to leave |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Lol. People still open threads like this? Help ko, rescue ni. Mwtcheeew! 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by funlord(m): 3:32pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
avwerosuoo: avwerosuoo: The SOMEONE that can help YOU is either a BARRISTER or a JUDGE! Or maybe you should start taking KARATE lessons! 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 3:32pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:U're a very sensible fellow. Unbiased & down to earth. May God continue to enrich u with wisdom... 4 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 3:41pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
FrancisTony:So ur own definition of an alpha male is a woman beater? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 4:01pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Sharrraap!!!!!!!! How can u tag someone a woman beater, literally on d premise of comments alone. Are u sure u're a man? U sound like a woman. he is saying d truth, d post is obviously bias. Too many females hiding behind male monikers in this section sef... |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 5:20pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
snakebeat:you to Sharap and tell me another story are you that hungry for violence |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 5:43pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:Abeg answer my question or sit down. Why should a woman not be hit if she provoked the man? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
snakebeat: Col....onel27: |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by dinachi(m): 6:01pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Domestic violence is a very serious matter but I have found out many times that most people who are victims are usually people who have terrible character and caustic tongues. Sometimes, they also start the violence by engaging in highly provocative acts like pushing or shoving their husband when they are angry or even threathning their husbands. Some even go as far as preventing the man from leaving the house to cool off . Some will sieze the mans car keys and dare him to take it back others will lock the man in and dare him to break the door. Most of the time women who are beaten up asked for it with their eyes wide open and their arms outstrechted! Yet except in self defence, the man is supposed to reign himself in. Because men are not human. They are supposed to be Angels who can do no wrong! If a woman can not reign herself in and keep her tongue and hands in check being human, how then does she think another human being will be able to reign himself in? It is what it is! One trillion legislations will never stop domestic violence unless some people realize that we are all humans and treat everybody with respect. The woman who abuses her husband and the man who beats his wife are BOTH guilty of abuse. So Op until I hear from your husband or you tell exactly what the situation is nobody will be able to give a good advice. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 6:07pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Y wld I be having a conversation wit a mad man? (which is yur name by the way) Abeg Bleep off 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Do you -women-beaters- hit MObile POLice Officers when they provoke you? When they ask you to roll in the gutter with your suit, do you punch them? Why not man up and flex your muscles man to man when faced with a depressed red-eyed trigger happy Uniformed man?. No, all your energy is reserved for beating up a woman half your size. That's so manly, it gives me the shivers. 7 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Familyfirst: 6:33pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
avwerosuoo:You need to see a counsellor fast and I pray he follows you. I also advise you to visit: www.familyparliament.com for advise and contact of people that may help. |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by dinachi(m): 6:37pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Gaborone:You miss the point entirely! He is not married to trigger happy red eyed mobile police officers. And even at that people have beaten up mobile police and military officers before!.The question is why do you make it your life call to provoke your husbands and dare them to beat you? When you can't provoke police and red eyed military officers the same way? If you can't hold your mouth how then do you expect somebody else to hold back their hands. You do not have self control but you expect your husband to have.You are a hypocrite! 5 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 6:50pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
snakebeat:Amen jo. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by simpleseyi: 6:52pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy: Even if the woman's tongue is sharper than razor blade? |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Stillfire: 6:58pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
avwerosuoo: Found this site below. Never ever keep quiet about domestic violence! http://projectalertnig.org/contact.html http://projectalertnig.org/about.html Contact Project Alert on Violence Against Women (PROJECT ALERT) Address: 21, Akinsanya Street Off Isheri Road, Taiwo Bus stop (Behind FRSC) Ojodu - Berger P.O.Box 15456, Ikeja Lagos, Nigeria Telephone/E-mail: 234-1-8209387; 08052004698; 08180091072 projectalert@projectalertnig.org info@projectalertnig.org ABUJA OFFICE 26 Bamenda Street, Off Abidjan Street, Wuse Zone 3 Telephone: 234 -8708618 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 6:59pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
It has been dhik whipped that's why freecocoa: |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 7:01pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Lol.i knew that for every 10 irritant there will be one reasonable human being op that's what you are asking for below me Stillfire: |
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