Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,130 members, 7,977,265 topics. Date: Thursday, 17 October 2024 at 12:46 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue (12126 Views)
"My Husband Smells My Panties Anytime I Come Back From A Journey" — Wife / How My Husband Pushed Me Into Having Sex With Other Men / Anytime I Sleep With Her, I Receive Strange Knock On My Head —husband (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 7:03pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:. See now you have thrown an insult. Simple question you can't answer and do you know why? Because you want to eat your cake and have it. You know you can't control your tongue and yet you want to be free to use it to hurt others without repercussions. If you meet me physically and use such caustic words like 'madman' on me... I will warn you once, twice, three times. After which if you persist in being rude I will bend skinny li'l you over my knee and give you a good spanking after which I will fill your mouth with bitter leaf so that next time you will think twice before insulting those bigger and stronger than you cos you are a woman and you feel "nothing should make a man hit a woman". Nansense. 4 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 7:05pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Gaborone: We - women beaters- don't go about provoking people bigger and stronger than us. It's simple survival instinct. But women won't hear and will continue chopping highly avoidable slaps in the name of "nothing can make a man hit me". 5 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 7:05pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
snakebeat:obviously |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 7:10pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
This one never sleep for cell for one week and made to sign a no violence pact with government /human rights agents go and ask your fellow women beaters that just spent the weekend in cell and ask them how they enjoyed the cell with men thrice stronger than them after then come back and rant 5minsmadness: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Meaning, you- women-beaters- are perfect beings who have never provoked anyone. Talk about the quintessense of perfection You must have been made from a different kind of dust. Men who don't beat women have a lot to learn from you. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 7:27pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:This guy needs help! Seriously? And u call me little.....ROTFL have u seen me? .Anyway, there will be no need to meet physically just end dis conversation am done wit u. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 7:32pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
simpleseyi:For a woman to talk to her husband in such a manner he must have provoked her na. Wen she is nt sick....its either he is lies, cheats on her, keeps late nights,he drinks to stupor etc. I am woman and I won't find it funny wen my man does such things. |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
dinachi: Oh, now I get: A man's self control drops to zero when it relates to his wife. I believe that's the reason why the same level of provocation while resulting in a husband pummeliing his wife, would result in his saying, "Yes sir! Yes sir! I'm in the gutter already sir!", to a Uniformed man. Thanks for pointing that out to me. And just so you know, you missed my point too, which is, if you can exercise self control when face to face with a uniformed man harassing you for no reason, you should be able to do same for your wife. You do not cherry pick your battle here, just because you know while flexing your muscles for one would lead to your death, and the other is a mere walk over. Be a man and deal with that uniformed man too. Thanks. 4 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by dinachi(m): 7:53pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Gaborone:Yet the woman who says yes sir to a uniformed man will charge at her husband and wash him down with words! What stops the wife from exercising the same self control when face to face with a military man with her husband ni? Some men have beaten up military men and even killed some. So your argument is a no brainer. My question which you have not answered is if the wife cannot exercise self control and reign in her mouth while should she expect another human being to reign in his hands? Are they not both humans? Women fight with their mouths, men fight with their fists! So when a woman throws caution to the wind and expects her husband not to follow suit, she is simply being hypocritical! And stronger women have even beaten up their husbands. So do you support domestic violence only when the woman is doing the beating? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by KanwuliaJara: 8:15pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
See im mutt like "my husband"! You get husband or animal for house? Abeg quench dia jor! Mtcheeeeeeeew! |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 8:19pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Notice the way I said I would "discipline" her. What would be her complaint to the authorities? 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 8:21pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Gaborone:Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 9:23pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Spurious!!! |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 9:26pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
FrancisTony: Baseless.... |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by snakebeat: 9:49pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
dinachi:10000000likes for this. What a prudent comment! May God continue to increase ur knowledge.... 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 9:55pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy: Yes i've seen you. Skinny little teenager. Abi na lie? |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:In yur dreams. |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 10:33pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:plenty violence inhumane treatment and threat to life |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 10:45pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Why should a woman not verbally insult a man if he provoked her? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 10:57pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:my dear if you have the 1999 constitution help me open to chapter 4 , section 33 and 34 and read it I hate blind argument and for those who don't have the 1999 constitution of the federal Republic of Nigeria I'll type it for you since there are a couple of mentally challenged people around here (33).1 every person has a right to life and no one shall be deprived intentionally of his life, save in execution of the sentence of a court in respect of a criminal offence of which he has been found guilty in Nigeria (2) a person shall not be regarded as having been deprived of his life in contravention of this section, if he dies as a result of the use, to such extent and in such circumstances as are permitted by law of such force as is reasonably necessary (a) for the defence of any person from unlawful violence or for the defence of a property move to 34 (1) every individual is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person and accordingly (a) NO PERSON SHALL BE SUBJECTED TO TORTURE OR TO INHUMAN OR DEGRADING TREATMENT end of discussion! !!!!! |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by peedeeasobie(m): 7:44am On Jun 16, 2015 |
Pineapp: Answers like this shock me! I can almost believe that you are a woman beater! 1. "will you marry her"? Is marriage the ultimate? Are all unmarried people living a less fulfilling life? So, its better for her to die in the marriage! 2. "madam access yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off"? Are you for real? On no account should a man hit a woman except its self defense! 3. If its your sister, is this the advice you will give her? Very strange! 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by jrerico1(m): 8:03am On Jun 16, 2015 |
lilspiceyy: avwerosuoo: She'll grab your husband.. don't listen to her, most of them are still searching. Find mature women on how to handle the case |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 10:58am On Jun 16, 2015 |
jrerico1:U are so immature! Grab her husband? For wat? Am only offering my two cents and it's left for her to take it or leave it! Any mature woman wld encourage her to leave that marriage cos that man wld one day injure her or worst still kill her! |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by dinachi(m): 3:09pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Everyone is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person. Women who abuse and badmouth their husbands una hear am? So that you as a woman already knows that you are breaking the law when you abuse your husbands! If you disrespect your husband you have broken the law. No person shall be subjected to torture or inhuman or degrading treatment. Another good point. So before you point accusing fingers to your husband for packaging you physically after you abused him, emotionally tortured him and degraded him, let it be clear to you O woman that you broke the law first! 5 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by CaptainJune: 5:50pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
lilmax:Is that how you react to every wrong your wife does, applying fisticuffs? @Op, first things first, seek separation from him. Any husband who turns heavyweight boxer only against his wife is a spineless coward with very little self-confidence which explains his peculiar tendency to employ brute force when he discovers to his horror that he is not able to match his intelligence with his wife's which translates to an unforgivable injury to his pride and ego, and as such should be severely punished with battery to avoid future re-occurrence. The problem is that it becomes a habit that cannot never be changed by keeping silent or trying to reason with him. Any day you speak up, irrespective of how long you've put up with his excesses without complaining, he reacts the only way he knows - with multiple punches to your eyes, jaws, chin, nose, teeth, stomach, etc. It is now his defense mechanism. What is yours? Silence? Lady, I can only say you got married to Kim Jong-un in a man's body. Your survival depends on your separation. This is your only effective defense mechanism if you want to live another day. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by mcdokwe(m): 6:45pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:hmmm, u never chi chom chin, I know of a lady who would call to insult like kilode just because one travelled, and couldn't call (as expected by the lady) not minding his constant explanation which every thinking being can fathom with. Now she didn't call the guy, didn't text, but once it strikes her, she'd go as far as borrowing phones to call, text and hurl insults if she couldn't do it with her phone. Now tell me the crime d man committed here. If you are one lady who would respect her man, kudos, keep it up. But please don't make excuses for those who don't. Neither will I make excuses for any man who'd hit his woman. Let's learn to respect each other 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 9:34am On Jun 17, 2015 |
Gaborone: How many men have you seen fighting that are of unequal build? Whether you want to believe it or not, the fear of a punch to the face is one major reason why men respect each other. The only reason women run their mouths is because they know there are no consequences for such. Where I'm from, though, men don't hit women, if we want to treat a woman's Bleep up, we contract it to other women. Case closed. 4 Likes |
Uncle Charlie... / Is It Compulsory For A Married Woman To Take On Her Husband's Surname? / A Mother's Letter To Her Unborn Child
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 65 |