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Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 8:26am On Jun 16, 2015
I'm a guy of 29 but have'nt had sex ever in my life.When growing up i was told by some prophets not to have sex with any lady until i'm married.That if i have sex before getting married,my future will be ruined.Brethern,what do you people think about this,is it possible?Konji is killing me and i have begun have the feelings to have sex.Just 3yrs after nysc,i'm yet to get a job after working very hard to get one.Is God testing my patience or what because all the promises he made in my life,i'm yet to see them.Peeps,is it right to get atleast one lady to satisfy my urge?
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by gabinogem(m): 8:31am On Jun 16, 2015
How do u know it's sexual urge that's disturbing u?
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by ndbros4justice: 8:32am On Jun 16, 2015
If u could hold up till now just keep it up. no award is given for having sex
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by great03(m): 8:34am On Jun 16, 2015
Who told u God has been protecting u because u've been a Virgin? By strength shall no man prevail but by d grace of God.... Am not saying go and have se x.... It is a sin just like lying and every other sin... Let it b known to u dat ur been a Virgin has nothing with not having a job.

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Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Nobody: 8:38am On Jun 16, 2015
Hmmm... The question is stupid.. As big as u are, u dont knw what is bad or good?
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 8:40am On Jun 16, 2015
gabinogem:
How do u know it's sexual urge that's disturbing u?

How do you mean?
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 8:41am On Jun 16, 2015
ndbros4justice:
If u could hold up till now just keep it up. no award is given for having sex

Tnk you
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by donholy28(m): 8:42am On Jun 16, 2015
omo u don old o...16yr old don enter master and u just wan create account
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by LaurelP(m): 8:43am On Jun 16, 2015
OK you've not been having sex.

But have u been committing other sins? Then you're still a sinner. All sins are equal broda.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by gabinogem(m): 8:46am On Jun 16, 2015
lucky032:


How do you mean?
since u said u haven't had s*x before, how do u know it's sexual urge that's disturbing u what are the signs that u are currently experiencing as a 29years old guy?
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Nobody: 8:46am On Jun 16, 2015
You shouldn't make a decision not to have sex till you marry just because some prophet told you having sex before marriage will ruin your life.

You should make such a decision because you thought about it yourself and decided to abstain from sex.
You should look at things from your own perspective and weigh the options you have.
You should follow your own principle and not someone else's.

Our principles are guided by a lot of things including our religious doctrines, moral codes, ethics and our general perception of life.

If having sex before marriage goes against your very own principles, then don't, but if it doesn't, you are free to indulge.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by bastien: 8:47am On Jun 16, 2015
Yeah very bad, why can't you wait till 60yrs bozo
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by naijaboiy: 8:51am On Jun 16, 2015
misssclassy:
You shouldn't make a decision not to have sex till you marry just because some prophet told you having sex before marriage will ruin your life.

You should make such a decision because you thought about it yourself and decided to abstain from sex.
You should look at things from your own perspective and weigh the options you have.
You should follow your own principle and not someone else's.

Our principles are guided by a lot of things including our religious doctrines, moral codes, ethics and our general perception of life.

If having sex before marriage goes against your very own principles, then don't, but if it doesn't, you are free to indulge.
Someone is beginning to turn to mzmycoli(mother of epistles).

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Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by naijaboiy: 8:52am On Jun 16, 2015
donholy28:
omo u don old o...16yr old don enter master and u just wan create account
grin
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by nsiazu: 8:52am On Jun 16, 2015
LaurelP:
OK you've not been having sex.

But have u been committing other sins? Then you're still a sinner. All sins are equal broda.
1 Corinthians 6:16, 18-20 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by tonero230(m): 8:54am On Jun 16, 2015
gabinogem:
since u said u haven't had s*x before, how do u know it's sexual urge that's disturbing u what are the signs that u are currently experiencing as a 29years old guy?

Every humanbeing that is matured do have urge once in a while but maybe the urge now is getting much unlike before
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Cutehector(m): 8:58am On Jun 16, 2015
Endure brother... Endure. wink
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 9:06am On Jun 16, 2015
Cutehector:
Endure brother... Endure. wink
Tnk u
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 9:09am On Jun 16, 2015
bastien:
Yeah very bad, why can't you wait till 60yrs bozo

Not like that.Just the fear of God but the urge is much
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 9:11am On Jun 16, 2015
gabinogem:
since u said u haven't had s*x before, how do u know it's sexual urge that's disturbing u what are the signs that u are currently experiencing as a 29years old guy?

The urge comes once in a while as a humanbeing buh it is much now.Is there anything that could cause it at 29?
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Pheals(f): 10:02am On Jun 16, 2015
Op don't u know the usefulness of candle stick ??
Do ask me o
don't quote me !!
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by xkris11(m): 10:03am On Jun 16, 2015
At 29 you have no business been worried about having sex.
You should concentrate more on securing a good job and a good wife.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by gabinogem(m): 10:03am On Jun 16, 2015
lucky032:


The urge comes once in a while as a humanbeing buh it is much now.Is there anything that could cause it at 29?
Since u are doing it for the sake of ur religion, u have to bear it to the end. I believe the urge is as a result of ur mind, u have programmed ur mind on it, so u have to feel it. Wish u all the best tho.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Nobody: 10:05am On Jun 16, 2015
Pheals:
Op don't u know the usefulness of candle stick ??
Do ask me o
don't quote me !!
I don quote u
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 10:10am On Jun 16, 2015
xkris11:
At 29 you have no business been worried about having sex.
You should concentrate more on securing a good job and a good wife.

They are on mind tnks
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Emodeee: 10:17am On Jun 16, 2015
U r stylishly testifying to the sweetness of TOTO, I don't mean CREAM though.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Emodeee: 10:19am On Jun 16, 2015
donholy28:
omo u don old o...16yr old don enter master and u just wan create account


I dey tell u. Na wa oh. Dis generation are crazy about sex.
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by lucky032(m): 10:27am On Jun 16, 2015
Emodeee:
U r stylishly testifying to the sweetness of TOTO, I don't mean CREAM though.

Oh!it's sweet
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by bastien: 11:58am On Jun 16, 2015
lucky032:


Not like that.Just the fear of God but the urge is much
consult your gf
Re: Is It Bad To Have S*x For The First Time At 29. by Sparkles003(f): 1:20pm On Jun 16, 2015
If you get a word
from someone else,
you can’t really
know if it’s what
God is saying to
you or not, unless
He’s already
spoken to you
about it and they
are confirming it to
you. We can rely
on someone else
giving us input
that is supposedly from God, but what if it’s not
from Him? A prophetic word should always
CONFIRM what we already feel in our hearts God
is saying to us or has shown us in His Word. If
someone gives you a prophetic word that’s
entirely new to you, you have to (or you better)
go back to God for His confirmation. NEVER
structure your life on a word someone gives you
that God wasn’t already working in your heart
(and sometimes your circumstances) unless you
really 1) get it confirmed by Him and 2) in His
word, and 3) you have the peace of God in your
heart about it. That would be a three-fold
confirmation.
There is nothing in sex.after satisfying the urge comes regret.just hold on to God by reminding him all is word promises to you and you would be fine.also watch less sexual movies

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