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Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 1:27am On Jun 16, 2015
The idea of having an orgasm or feeling arousal during rape or molestation is a confusing and difficult one for many people, both survivors and secondary-survivors (friends/family). Many do not believe it's possible for a woman or man to achieve orgasm during rape or other kinds of sexual assault. Some believe having an orgasm under these circumstances means that it wasn't a "real" rape or the woman/man "wanted" it.

The studies and reports on physical response to molestation and rape shows numbers ranging from 20% to over 50% of survivors having this experience. That this is not an exact figure shows the need there is for more and better research.

This is not a topic often open for discussion even within the mental health community and there is concern that raising it outside the professional community will lead to misinterpretation and misunderstanding (e.g., the myth(fact?) of victims "enjoying rape."wink It's also one reason why there isn't more research done on this and similar topics.

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Re: Arousal During Rape by Braaad: 1:29am On Jun 16, 2015
noted
Re: Arousal During Rape by Tocheagle(m): 2:00am On Jun 16, 2015
Odiegwu
Re: Arousal During Rape by kenny091(m): 2:06am On Jun 16, 2015
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.

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Re: Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 2:20am On Jun 16, 2015
kenny091:
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.
lies
Re: Arousal During Rape by XtraSmooth404: 4:09am On Jun 16, 2015
kenny091:
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.
You were there I guess undecided
Re: Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 5:10am On Jun 16, 2015
kenny091:
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.

Your forfathers from Pluto cos the last time i checked, no rape case has been reported there...
Re: Arousal During Rape by saintneo(m): 5:38am On Jun 16, 2015
rape is rape! Can one stay under water without gasping for air? Can one endure pain without flinching?


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Re: Arousal During Rape by fr3do(m): 5:44am On Jun 16, 2015
rape is about the emotional effect, whether a victim is aroused or not is no issue.

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Re: Arousal During Rape by kr0ne(m): 6:44am On Jun 16, 2015
kenny091:
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.
Pictures?
Re: Arousal During Rape by naijaboiy: 6:54am On Jun 16, 2015
kenny091:
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.
Your last line raped you. undecided
Re: Arousal During Rape by naijaboiy: 6:57am On Jun 16, 2015
i've actually been wondering too. Since rape is a forceful sexual encounter,,i didn't think there would be any form of arousal.

Now in a boy's case I wonder how the erèction happens.
Re: Arousal During Rape by czarr(m): 7:01am On Jun 16, 2015
.....Getting aroused doesn't mean you wanted it.
Re: Arousal During Rape by dBard: 7:08am On Jun 16, 2015
@o.p...this is actually a controversial issue.
Does d fact that the woman got 'wet' mean it wasn't a rape, or that she enjoyed it

I think it has to do with the person navigating the zone btw fantasy n reality.
For some women, 'rape' is part of their sexual fantasies..her undergoing d act becomes quite confusing to her mind which then blurs d line btw d trauma of d reality and d fantasy.

Also, rape is a very traumatic experience and the mind deals with trauma in different ways, to lessen d effect on d individual, and one of those is 'switching off'. In such cases, the person zones out of the experience (blanks out), and the body is left to respond to the physicality of the action, which might result in some measure of arousal.

Lastly, females get aroused by 'exciting' (f lack of a beta word) , thrilling experience..a car race, extreme sports, or during vigorous exercises...things that can cause heightened senses, it's quite physiological. rape in itself can put her in this State of heightened awareness/excitement, which if not careful can lead to a form of arousal.

Then there are the Perverts...



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Re: Arousal During Rape by dBard: 7:10am On Jun 16, 2015
@o.p, get the mods to move this to the Family or Health section if u want intelligent answers/ discourse.

Topic will get rubbished here.
Re: Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 7:44am On Jun 16, 2015
kenny091:
Like they say. Konji remains a bastard.
rape is never the fault of the woman though. Our forefathers walked around naked yet they were not rapists.
are you sure? Even adam and eve were not naked. Or they left u a photo album?
Re: Arousal During Rape by kenny091(m): 8:01am On Jun 16, 2015
Look at all this serial rapists attacking me o. Even till date we have tribes in the Nigerian hinterland that do not wear clothes and if u need a picture look for that of king jaja of opobo and his wife that was published on nairaland not too long ago.
Re: Arousal During Rape by Luckygurl(f): 8:14am On Jun 16, 2015
naijaboiy:
i've actually been wondering too. Since rape is a forceful sexual encounter,,i didn't think there would be any form of arousal.

Now in a boy's case I wonder how the erèction happens.

What about a situation where the rapist makes effort to arouse the victim?
Will there be a response or not?

This topic is better of in health section.
Just maybe arousal during rape is a physical response to stimuli over which the mind has little or no control over.
Re: Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 8:19am On Jun 16, 2015
czarr:
.....Getting aroused doesn't mean you wanted it.

Of course it does.Who does not like getting pleasured?
Re: Arousal During Rape by naijaboiy: 8:43am On Jun 16, 2015
Luckygurl:


What about a situation where the rapist makes effort to arouse the victim?
Will there be a response or not?

This topic is better of in health section.
Just maybe arousal during rape is a physical response to stimuli over which the mind has little or no control over.
But how fast will a rapist be able to arouse a victim especially in the case of a woman.

@bolded,,but if the mind has no control over the response to arousal how come in normal circumstances a person can still choose whether to get sexually stimulated or not.
Re: Arousal During Rape by repogirl(f): 9:58am On Jun 16, 2015
Arousal or not, no means no.....

btw if the female is aroused then why are there bruises and bleeding sometimes upon examination?
Re: Arousal During Rape by Luckygurl(f): 10:01am On Jun 16, 2015
naijaboiy:

But how fast will a rapist be able to arouse a victim especially in the case of a woman.

@bolded,,but if the mind has no control over the response to arousal how come in normal circumstances a person can still choose whether to get sexually stimulated or not.

Lets not totally rule out the possibility of it happening.

The mental and physical components of the human body often run in the same direction and most times work in agreement but not always. An incidence of rape just might be an example.
Who knows the arousal might be a way of responding to the fear and anxiety felt by the victim.
Re: Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 10:01am On Jun 16, 2015
repogirl:
Arousal or not, no means no.....

btw if the female is aroused then why are there bruises and bleeding sometimes upon examination?
u talk inteLligently
Re: Arousal During Rape by nerodenero: 10:03am On Jun 16, 2015
After being subdued and rendered powerless to resist by the rapist, is it not possible for the individual being raped to reach orgasm because he or she might assumed being made love to by a loved one? We have seen a situation where a woman shouts the name of a loved one when another man is making love to her. She reaches orgasm with the assumption that the loved one is the one making love to her. Some individuals can even achieve sexual satisfaction without affection.

Reaching orgasm or not, there can NEVER be an excuse for rape in the sense of claim that the abused received gratification.
Re: Arousal During Rape by kellyJames5(m): 10:13am On Jun 16, 2015
Op nice topic,I've been wondering too.
Kingtom please what can you say about this?
Re: Arousal During Rape by KingTom(m): 11:00am On Jun 16, 2015
kellyJames5:
Op nice topic,I've been wondering too.
Kingtom please what can you say about this?
That young man nerodenero has said it all smiley wink
Re: Arousal During Rape by funkyjms: 11:39am On Jun 16, 2015
Sexual masochism!

Reminds me the movie- The Little Death
Re: Arousal During Rape by KingTom(m): 11:44am On Jun 16, 2015
Luckygurl:


What about a situation where the rapist makes effort to arouse the victim?
Will there be a response or not?

This topic is better of in health section.
Just maybe arousal during rape is a physical response to stimuli over which the mind has little or no control over.

From a health point of view, the vagina may be dry but when compared to a very sexually active person a nymphomaniac if I may, those ones have the power to do so they have the power to have orgasms
Re: Arousal During Rape by robosky02(m): 11:53am On Jun 16, 2015
Today is June 16th is the "DAY OF THE AFRICAN CHILD" who speaks for the countless kids been molested without any voice

add your view:

https://www.nairaland.com/2383043/today-june-16th-day-african
Re: Arousal During Rape by Mprex(f): 1:39pm On Jun 16, 2015
arousal during rape is not a sign of acceptance of the sex act in progress and shouldn't be seen as one.


our body hormobes must react to certain signals whether we like it or not
Re: Arousal During Rape by MrCork: 1:45pm On Jun 16, 2015
RichardFuld:
The idea of having an orgasm or feeling arousal during rape or molestation is a confusing and difficult one for many people, both survivors and secondary-survivors (friends/family). Many do not believe it's possible for a woman or man to achieve orgasm during rape or other kinds of sexual assault. Some believe having an orgasm under these circumstances means that it wasn't a "real" rape or the woman/man "wanted" it.

The studies and reports on physical response to molestation and rape shows numbers ranging from 20% to over 50% of survivors having this experience. That this is not an exact figure shows the need there is for more and better research.

This is not a topic often open for discussion even within the mental health community and there is concern that raising it outside the professional community will lead to misinterpretation and misunderstanding (e.g., the myth(fact?) of victims "enjoying rape."wink It's also one reason why there isn't more research done on this and similar topics.

.WTF (((NOT AGAIN))..ok,,so u study Rape 20 to 50% to get arouse & u askin us wot we tink??....SHAME ON U & U SHUD BE JAILED!!(no ofeiinse). angry

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Re: Arousal During Rape by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jun 16, 2015
My fellow Investment Banker just got all his charges dropped.You just need to pay the slut in cash and she will willingly have sex with you again.LOL


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