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Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by missKiffy(f): 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Cutehector:It might seem minor to you but it's a actually a big deal 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Bflexing(m): 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Na wa o, for younger generation?? Anyway, kiss your children. When your husband see u doing that, he will know something is wrong somewhere and will be ready to talk or at least, negotiate ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by ArabianPrince: 3:46pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Am sure the wife has a repulsive foul smelling breath or she got holes in her teeth as bacteria depot. She needs to see dentist and practice good oral hygiene.....brushing at least twice a day, use listerine mouth wash and avoid food and drinks that supports bad breath. Probably the guy must have noticed sores in his mouth after kissing or had series of sore throat after kissing wife. Some ladies breath or mouth odour is D.I.E. (Mouth smelling like Poo). Sometimes I wonder if they eat poo. There is no correlation between beauty and good dental hygiene...neither is beauty a guarantee of exclusion from repulsive foul smelling breath. ![]() |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by EbolaParasite: 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
germainediva: Tell her to start brushing her teeth and floss regularly. The husband is being nice. Her mouth stinks PERIOD. By the way, she is a cooonnnnnt for kissing her ex. Anyway, all these tales by moonlight stories sef.... ![]() |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by abbey621(m): 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana: Sorry to say but you have a lot of growing up to do! 6 year old marriage with 3 kids and the best advice you can give is to find happiness elsewhere? SMH! |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by EbolaParasite: 3:49pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
ArabianPrince: Exactly! |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by menxer: 3:52pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Na wa ooo! this is a very simple issue to resolve, since kissing is forbidden inside the house (I assume f.ucking is allowed); do the kissing outside and the f.ucking inside. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Abugab(m): 3:53pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
She should get her head examined. If na kiss dey worry her make she go begin kiss up and down then. Because she no see kiss she go kiss her ex, well dog wey wan die no dey hear e master whistle. Na her marriage and joy she wan loose so over kiss matter. When e don red for her, make she compare which one come pay her pass. She is obviously an idle woman |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by abbey621(m): 3:54pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Issues like these all boils down to communication. Are you trying to tell me that a 6 year old marriage is not mature enough to be able to tell each other anything? If the problem is with you, your husband should be able to share with you how to resolve it. Calm him down one day, fix his favorite meal, rub his back and then let him know what's bugging you. Unless the man is related to Abacha, he would definitely want to resolve the issue. On another point of view, are you sure he didn't accidently discover you kissing another man? Times without numbers I've seen guys deal with unfaithful partners by killing them slowly ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by HRich(m): 3:56pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
nwadiuko1:If you dont like kissing during romance hour. Then you are still in the dark bro. |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Hilarious. Cheaters would always look for a lifeline, some reason to present for their despicable actions. Cheat on, woman! Please come back later to persuade the world when you finally take the route of adultery. Why did you marry him when you knew he didn't fancy kissing? Unstable as water, untrustworthy generation! |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Moana(f): 3:59pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
abbey621:arent men with more than 3kids finding happiness elsewhere everyday? So why are u acting like its new? 3 Likes |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Moana(f): 4:02pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
abbey621:you missed the part where its written that she has complained to him about it? She should continue speaking to deaf ears abi? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by danlaw: 4:02pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
thorpido: You are right. It could be her breath or her personal hygiene which the husband would not want to say it out. Someone women do not want to look good after having babies and think they can rekindle the old swag with her present status as a mother. Let her go back and check herself properly to know why the sudden change. Her old Ex can kiss her even if maggot is been seen inside her mouth without minding because he wants to taste her punny. |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 4:05pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
The lady in question has a history of posting useless topics which all make front page. Some of her previous topics are, why do men cheat sweet, Hubby complains of wife not giving him mouth action, wife complains of hubby not kissing her. It's interesting that all these topics make front page. I think she's on someone's payroll and should not be taken seriously |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Cutehector:bros abeg comot near thatv beach..i no get strength to save you if that water carry you... ![]() ![]() |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by abbey621(m): 4:09pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana: Funny, people like you just don't get it. Women can get bleeped by any guy but to find one that will put you in his house and call you his wife is very scarce! Single ladies are still looking for husbands not to talk of after 3 and to make things worse when the kids ask why did you leave our father, her response would be "he refused to kiss me", nonsense! |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by duerap: 4:11pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Another dumb woman on the loose! |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by abbey621(m): 4:12pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana: The keyword here is complain. Instead of complaining she should try communicating. It's not about the message but the way the message gets to the receiver! |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Moana(f): 4:12pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
abbey621:its only a stupid man who will leave his wife over a kiss, since you are trying to make it seem like something very trivial |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by danlaw: 4:13pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Op, having gone through most of your posts, I can put this straight to you that you are the one involved. All your posts are ' 'my friend told me". You are only deceiving yourself.Go get yourself cleaned up and stop messing up trying to get answers to your problems, rather than saying it the way it is. https://www.nairaland.com/2375411/mouthaction-marriage https://www.nairaland.com/2354206/sidechick-vs.sideguy https://www.nairaland.com/2379699/party 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Moana(f): 4:14pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
abbey621:last time i checked u use words to make a complaint so it is communicating 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by NobleG1(m): 4:15pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
If something is a problem for one of you, then it's a problem for both of you. Clearly, this is one of those times. Kissing is probably an act you enjoy not just because it's a sensuous promise of more to come, but because it symbolizes your intimate connection. Without it, you're worried that something bigger has flown out of your life. You're right to worry. Even though your husband still wants sex, your instincts about his loss of passion are probably on target. Passion does wane over time for men and women, especially with the stresses of parenthood. Yet many men will continue to have sex without it. Stop nagging your husband about the kissing and have a serious heart-to-heart with him about your underlying worries. Try normalizing the situation for him first. Tell your husband that you understand men sometimes feel less desire after they see their wives become mothers. Then put the problem in a positive light by asking what both of you can do to revitalize your sexual relationship. You might suggest regular date nights, for instance, as a way to stop feeling and acting like parents 24-7. Or your husband may reveal that he's resentful or angry about something, like the fact that he's working while you stay home with the kids or something. Addressing the larger issues together may well get him to be more affectionate because he won't be bottling up his feelings. You may really need to press him on this issue, but don't give up. Your husband may avoid conversations about passion because he's afraid to admit he doesn't feel any. But it is an important part of most couples' relationship, and you'll both benefit from getting it back. Kissing your ex. may indicate you're the problem. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by kobonaire(m): 4:18pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
By the time she begin to kiss the house boy na then he go hear word. 1 Like |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Ex ![]() ![]() |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by fuchong(m): 4:27pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
I don't know why some people don't want to grow. Imagine someone's 'Kiss". OK go ahead and look for kiss by all means because ur Husband is interested in it any more |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
This is a new low! If kisses become nil, na make we jejely close shop. Abi, how does he expect me to get interested in the deed if kisses are not allowed? Might as well bunk a log! Orisirisi |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by CaptainJune: 4:30pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
germainediva:Either hubby is a gay or he is cheating on you or he is no longer attracted to you. Explore these three possibilities cos the answer lies in one of them. Hope you have a plan of action in case it is any one of them. As regards your ex, stop feeling guilty. Only thing is give him a wide berth otherwise you'll keep making the same mistake over and over again until your home crashes. I really feel sorry for your marriage. Many ignorant folks here never take into consideration the fact that it takes a spark to burn a forest. The spark could be something as negligible as a kiss. Your husband is a complete selfish and inconsiderate prig. Your body belongs to him as his body belongs to you. Married couples should never deny each other their bodies since their bodies are no longer theirs by marital union. If in any case he remains adamant in his stance on kissing, be ready to live the rest of your life without that aspect of your marriage. What's the worst that can happen? |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Story for the gods o |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by onome2013: 4:33pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Instead of her to think about how the children will gradute, she is thinking of irrelevant thigs like kiss Is good the man share the wahala so that she will know khaki is not leather |
Re: Hubby No Longer Wants To Kiss by abbey621(m): 4:36pm On Jun 16, 2015 |
Moana: You are right it is communicating but the type of communication we are seeking here is called effective communication. Any mad person can make noise but it takes a reasonable minded person to deliver the message effectively to the intended audience! I'm an Aries if there's one thing I hate in a woman it is one without a sense of direction or time. If you want something from me better cool the hell down and discuss with me when I'm relaxed otherwise you'll just be speaking to thin air! |
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