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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 11:42am On Jun 18, 2015 |
zendy: |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 11:53am On Jun 18, 2015 |
[quote author=Sparkles003 post=34888639][/quote] That's if the Gold would allow you dig it. 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 11:55am On Jun 18, 2015 |
zendy: All the points you said are all good points but it takes both parties knowing wat they truly want and being honest to each other to make a relationship or marriage work. I ask for permission to correct your statement "that marriage can be a curse"if at your single state you already view marriage as a curse sorry to say this expect it to be that " curse" when you marry. I am of the school of thought that believe that what you expect in a relationship or marriage is what you will accept. For example:if you expect that all women cheat,when your woman cheats on you it won't be new to you cos you have already made provision for it by accepting that all women cheat. So it is with marriage,if you already viewed it as a curse,it means you have made provision for it in your marriage such that when it happens you won't not bother to make it work rather you accept it and look outside. If truly you are with someone that wants to be with you that marriage should be a blessing whether thru negative or positive times. don't mind the epistle |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 12:22pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
masterchi:I'm a lady and i work. the problem is every one is trying to play smart. In a country like Nigeria when you set your eyes to date a lady in her early 20s that i presume is still in school what type of work do you expect her to be doing apart from school and others. Some men wont go for the working class may be due to inferiority complex, "misjudgement of her character from afar",etc 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Revolva(m): 12:35pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Florblu: B.....h suck my d....k dats ur talent... 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by johnmark1234(m): 12:42pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
olowoba: |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Youngpo413: 1:08pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
lilmax:so worthless... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Youngpo413: 1:12pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Unibenstudent:she is already,the b!tch is a runz girl. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Youngpo413: 1:21pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Ctemi:yes but in reality,most ladies are golddiggers. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by curious321: 1:58pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I recently met with a guy who fits the description. For fun, I asked him what he looks for in an ideal woman. 80% of his answer was the woman's looks. Light skinned, thin, nice shoulders, have an air about her, natural beauty, not too much makeup. 20% was personality - someone sweet and simple. I was disappointed in the answer because I felt that if the woman doesn't fit the looks department, she won't be given a second look. That's why women end up bleaching and wearing promiscuous clothing, because they understand that 80% of the time, not one will give them the time of day unless they look a certain way. Now when it comes to personality and character, no one is perfect. For a man to believe he will find the perfect woman is unrealistic. Just as with every relationship, work needs to be put into making it work. And just as much as it is said that women are golddiggers....men of today are way too materialistic aswell. A good woman is not her nice clothes, weave, shape or face. If men keep chasing that, they will keep getting golddiggers. Good fit - afterall, both are after plastic. 3 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Sparkles003:nice perspective but question is how many working class ladies will date a guy starting up or even one slightly below their class? |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 2:34pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
lurlah2014: Yes o! When I see the love of a "strong" black woman, I am so terrified, I am like .............. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dj6_98tq4mY 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Aitee1: 2:34pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
RedBenson: In your case where is the gold sef The one God gave you to give to that one woman you've shared it with thousands of them already |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Aitee1: That's a lie. I've not shared any gold with any women. Women try to gold-dig me but God has given me the grace to refuse it. 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 2:44pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
craziebone: I dey o. Me, I don't attack women. I just say it as it is. If one says the Japenese produce very good electronic gadgets, that is not attacking the Japs. If one says the Black race is the least developed of all races on Earth, that is not attacking the Black man. It is just facts. What I say about most Nigerian women are facts from experience and observation personally and from other diverse and numerous people. Feminist on the other hand, I will attack as sharply and as hard as I can. Can't stand those c*nts for a second. They are selfish and have a deep hatred for men. They feel men should be put in a disadvantage and even punished for being men. That to them is "equality". The difference between the average woman and a feminist is that the average woman does not hate men. She is selfish though. It is all about "me, me, me, me" and always working towards how things would be to her advantage. They can see where injustice is towards men, but they don't care that much as long as it does not affect them. A feminist, on the other hand, climaxes when she sees that. 3 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Aitee1: 2:49pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
RedBenson: Kontinu |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 2:53pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
olowoba: Concerned about wetin? If people are not interested in marriage, how is that a problem? One of the articles I was actually composing as my next thread on NL was about the different forms of marriages/relationships couple could have for the future. But unfortunately, due to the intellectual decline of NL, I have decided not to waste any of my intellectual material on it anymore and I have suspended that thread. The marriage institution has been a failed institution throughout history for the 2 main participants, why should I be worried if bachelors and spinsters are not engaging in it. As for dying over African women, trust me, I normally don't give them too much regards unless they show they are not like the majority. If they ever get out of line, I am quick to knock them back. I have this unique ability to switch from jovial and friendly to a hardknock, no nonsense murrafucker if I need to be. It comes like a brutal shock. Some girls on NL would even confirm this. 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 3:22pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Sagamite: That's it. |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
gold diggers plenty for town.this explains the reason |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 5:27pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
RedBenson:Akuko uwa |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 8:04pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Sagamite:So you cannot have a civilized conversation like a normal human being? You have to turn to insults to get your points across . Am not surprised. You go on and on about black women's attitude but yours is even worse. Please don't quote me in future and I won't do the same. I can't stand uncivilized apes like you. 3 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by xfire: 8:10pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I remember meeting a guy when I used to work out in the gym. The guy used to live in London. He is 41 years old and he's yet to marry. He attributed his singleness to the materialistic nature of many Nigerian girls. He was always quick to say that Nigerian women are only after money, and very few of them are intelligent. He also talked about "the sense of entitlement" that sagamite mentioned. He said if he is ever going to get married, he would wed a white ladies. He feels that their attitude towards relationship is much better that what is obtainable here. The guy told me he has a sex mate and he's fine remaining a single guy, for life. By the way, he is very comfortable and comes from a well-to-do family. I tried to disabuse his mind but to no avail. I hope he gets married in the future. I know people in the oil sector who are also finding it challenging getting a life partner, most especially the ladies. These are ladies who got the job when they were not into any serious relationship. 3 to 4 years down the line, they are still single, and possibly searching. Though I must say most of them are below 30 but tending towards the mark. There are various factors that could cause a delay in settling down. I think it may be rather unwise to be extremely opinionated on issues like this. Sometimes, culture play a strong role. We must remember that African culture and value system on marital issues are remarkably different from that of the Western countries. The dependent nature of many African may be traced to cultural roots. I am not arguing for or against African ladies as most have already done. I just feel the issue needs to be analysed holistically, rather than trading blames. cheers... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Mixty: 8:19pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch:Don't mind the idiiot. He goes about ranting rudely about how black women are rude and uncouth but he himself is worse - such a self-centred and wayward way of reasoning. I have been observing him. He's probably pained that many black women have rejected him in the past. Mind you... I am a guy! 5 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by reizqatred(f): 8:40pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Most guys don't know what dy want. U ask a guy to describe his ideal woman especially d so call rich guys, dia description will go like dz : tall, fair, sexy, only few will care to know if d so called sexy gal is smartm intelligent, good behaviour etc. They all jes want a trophy to display to dia frnds. So after dating so many wrong 'gals' dy jes conclude dia r no wife materials outsyd, same goes for some ladies too. |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 9:31pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch: You are a cretinous fuuktard! So you thought you can use style to indirectly insult my family and I should be "civilized" with you? Why? Because you think I would say "Maybe if I behave like a real man, she would be impressed"? You know who the fck this is? I am SAGAMITE! If any man or woman ever step out of line, I will quickly fcking knock you back into line. Hooodrat fuuktard, in your typical useless black skank manner, you want to bring my mother into the equation and you are expecting me to have {imitates her} a civilized conversation with you? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_4e8iAofnrw 5 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 9:35pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
xfire: A friend of mine says the same about that intelligence thing. He says it in a different way though. He says black women are boring because they don't have an expansive thought process. He finds their outlook and thinking extremely narrow. He never dates or bangs black girls though. He is one of those that has ruled them out permanently since his early 20s. We, that have never met, keep on all saying the same thing and some girls will be saying "Oh, where do you meet this girls from". Let them continue deceiving themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 9:39pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Mixty: You are a cretinous fuuktard! Are you trying to suck up to her? You are looking for a pat on the head as a "real man"? Fooool! Don't let me pick on you and intellectually humiliate you in front of her. 3 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 10:23pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Mixty:Well I have never come across him before but he is the most myopic person I have come across on this site. Anyways I don't really care what he thinks about black women. He would be doing black women a favour by going for other races . Ignore the child okay. 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 10:25pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Sagamite:Mr Internet warrior all these rants for me . Life Really ain't that serious. Take a chill pill because to be honest you getting worked up for nothing and to someone who does not give a fk about what you think or do. Now run along child. Bye 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 11:55pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch: Shut the fck up ...... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy7kb5ABsyk But before you do, please try and pat Mixty on the head for being a good little Not like if you would reward his dumb arsse with anything more than insincere compliments that is good enough to keep him keen and loyal, so he can continue his white knighting. Or maybe you can buy him a box of soap. Guys like him needs lots of it. That would ne nicer of you. 2 Likes |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 11:59pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Notyourb1tch: Just noticed you have replied him. With a little kiss. Oh! How sweet. He is going to be very excited tonight. Mixty! Mixty! Mixty! Mixty! Mixty! That is all he is getting though. Now go look for an Alpha Male that can put you in you place to bend you over and give you one. Sissy boys only get that pat on the head. They are not the type that bones your arsse. 1 Like |
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Mixty: 12:17am On Jun 19, 2015 |
Sagamite:Guy you are simply nuts yiu are a psychopath You need to get your brain examined by a shrink 1 Like |
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