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| The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
It 'll started when I was in my ss1. we relocated into a new area and I was kind of putting on a solo and I don't care attitude. just to boost up my self esteem and gain moral. After some month's, walls begin to crumble and plans begin to change. I became friend with about five dudes all thanks to football. we became tight friends with one guy named Paul. we became close friends ever then. I came across one girl, on a faithful day. she was pretty, fair, caring etcetera. mesmerized by her beauty, I begin enquiry about her and found out she lived a couple of houses away from mine. it was a breakthrough, but that was my first real feeling of true love. due to lack of experience I was scared to approach her. whenever I try breaking the communication barrier between me and her, I get goosebumps and shivering down my spine. A popular saying says "time flies". as time flew on, comfortably on first class, my hopes continued to get more and more slimmer due to the number of guys always trying to woo her. to worst things up my dad wasn't helping issue, when he took me to a boarding school. the little crippled hope I had, was beheaded. my chances of seeing her almost zero. While in school I begin to let myself believe in reality, that my hopes are gone. I never let my intentions known, I never spoke to her, I was just dieing in silence. With time I begun to get over it in school. I studied hard, got good grades and up my game with the opposite sex. flirt around with all the beautiful girls I could, but at the tall end I discovered that I never felt anything near compared to what I felt for floura (the girl back in my hood). After my secondary school, came back home a new me. she was still getting more beautiful. She broke our jinx of snubbing each other. we begging to ride well as normal friends. we made good use of anytime we meet to just talk, laugh or discuss about the future, the hood and God. she was a religious obsess person. I enquired from her if she heard a boyfriend she said no. While living on the sun with happiness, I planned how to let her know about my feelings. The day I wanted to let my friend Paul know about my hiding secret to get advice before striking, I discovered that he was also interested in her. when I brought her topic up, told me that he have try wooing her twice bought she turned him down. and he heard more time with her, due to her been in the same society with him in their church. when I noticed his intension I withdraw the idea of letting him know I am also interested. This guy is madly in love with her but the issue is that, the love he got for her is not reciprocal. he felt even sick, when she turned his offer down the third time. he ones told me that it will take the grace of God for him to forget about her. The way she acts towards me makes me feel 100 percent sure, she loves me. Paul have been my best friend for almost 4 years now and I will arguably say I am number if Miss dilemma has a list. My question is, please and sincerely if you were in my shoes what will you do? and if you ones heard a similar issue how was yours, did it end up good or bad? |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Cutehector(m): 1:39pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
No matter what happens, let no girl cause quarell btw u and ur bestman.... She aint worth the scuffle.. Buh u could talk to him, seek his permission to try ur luck on her... |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by donholy28(m): 1:43pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
I am already in ur shoes after reading that...OK back to business...ask yourself what do u value most and what type of friend is he....would he understand... |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Cutehector:yeah I think that is a great advice. but my fear is he all think I back stab him...b'cos he comes to me for advice. |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
donholy28:am afraid he won't he is kind of crazy about her |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by mosefin19(m): 1:56pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
dis thing happen to me 2...bt my frnd leave her 4 me cuz she found out dat she luv me most ..u can't force d gal 2 luv ur frnd. .she will go 4 d person she luv.. BT don't let a gal cuz a prob btw u and ur best frnd.. 1 Like |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by mosefin19(m): 1:57pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
just try 2 sort things out wit ur frnd |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by donholy28(m): 2:05pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
whizzzz:hmmm problem dey o....just use style hint say u like her |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
donholy28:bad quy...lol |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Cutehector(m): 2:24pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
whizzzz:bakstabbin is a bad thing. Ok why not tell d gurl dah see, ur bessfrnd is so madly in luv wit her and why isn't she gvn him d greenlight. Play the matchmaket. Mk her see reasons why she should say yes to him. |
| Re: The Dilemma, About My First And Only Love And My Best Friend. by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 18, 2015 |
Cutehector:am also in love with her |
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