It's funny when someone has an issue and come here to seek help and then peeps starts criticising the individual. Seriously, it baffles me. Nairaland is a convergence of humans from all works of life and all classes of people. Why do you guys think google has answers to almost everything? Because there isn't anything you can think of, imagine, or perceived that someone else somewhere maybe oceans away hasn't done the same.

Nairaland has taken the face of an e-community, e-family, e-neighbourhood where people present their challenges to one another (just like in the real world) hoping to get answers because someone has been through it and solved it thus, or knows someone who knows someone that has been through same and solved it this way or that way.

Please make una stop fronting. A certain member that came to ask about an issue her new born is having knows a hospital existed before she came here with the hope someone somewhere might have an answer having gone through a similar experience or a doctor/paediatrician in the house giving her a clue to what could be her baby's problem. Me I taya sef. A kind word like "oh! it's nothing to worry about just take her to the hospital" from someone might have just been the help she needed instead of the matching order dished out to her to take her baby to the hospital by most respondents. I noticed this happens a lot. E no good abeg.

Do you guys know the number of doctors, lawyers, engineers, councillors, pastors, pegans, atheists, ritualists, yahoo boys, native healers, armed robbers etc that we have here on Nairaland?

Enough of forming 'ITK' abeg.

I don talk my own. Oya make una talk una 'hown'.

This is like my family.
I feel alive here.
#smile

True

Thank you for this.

You don't expect frustrated souls to dish out kind words of hope faith and love

Moreover

And of course real friends are hard to come by talk more of e family

True naaah my people.

In fact where is lalastica de lala? This matter deserves maximum exposure. Oya Feature this post alias 'Front Page' thinz.

SAMBARRY:
You don't expect frustrated souls to dish out kind words of hope faith and love

They can unfrustrate themselves.

I personally have learnt a lot from here. So much that if I have to stay away for any reason for some time, I would be counting the minutes, hours or days to return. I am so, so addicted!

andromida:


They can unfrustrate themselves.

how?

You're so right OP, people are so negative and harsh here.. always looking for faults and a way to taunt the other..

Also, people give comments based on their present mood, you don't expect a frustrated or bitter person to give kind advices. .. so don't take every advice given here seriously as some may be passing through difficult times...

Then, some people are just insane

I really wish we could take things lighter with each other here .. nairaland isn't our home, it's just a forum...

SAMBARRY:
how?

Its complicated i no know o

andromida:


Its complicated i no know o

an embittered soul only spreads his bitterness and anger about and I'll give you reasons for so much unbridled anger on nl


1. Salary not paid
2 joblessness
3 broke asses
4impotence
5hiv aidd, syphilis, gonorrhoea, prostrate cancer etc
6 landlord harassment
7.people used to violence
8 sexual frustration
etc and so forth



so you cannot expect people who fall into one or 2 of this categories not to carry their bile every where they go like hunch back

SAMBARRY:
an embittered soul only spreads his bitterness and anger about and I'll give you reasons for so much unbridled anger on nl


1. Salary not paid
2 joblessness
3 broke asses
4impotence
5hiv aidd, syphilis, gonorrhoea, prostrate cancer etc
6 landlord harassment
7.people used to violence
8 sexual frustration
etc and so forth



so you cannot expect people who fall into one or 2 of this categories not to carry their bile every where they go like hunch back

This is some heavy stuff for any one to pass through. I hope they find healing

andromida:


This is some heavy stuff for any one to pass through. I hope they find healing

Amen. So feel sorry for them when they are at it. They're only letting out all their frustrations and nl is the perfect place for that

SAMBARRY:
an embittered soul only spreads his bitterness and anger about and I'll give you reasons for so much unbridled anger on nl


1. Salary not paid
2 joblessness
3 broke asses
4impotence
5hiv aidd, syphilis, gonorrhoea, prostrate cancer etc
6 landlord harassment
7.people used to violence
8 sexual frustration
etc and so forth



so you cannot expect people who fall into one or 2 of this categories not to carry their bile every where they go like hunch back

hmmmmm. . . . . food for thought.

Yeh!

For real?

I knew it.

BluStreak:
It's funny when someone has an issue and come here to seek help and then peeps starts criticising the individual. Seriously, it baffles me. Nairaland is a convergence of humans from all works of life and all classes of people. Why do you guys think google has answers to almost everything? Because there isn't anything you can think of, imagine, or perceived that someone else somewhere maybe oceans away hasn't done the same.

Nairaland has taken the face of an e-community, e-family, e-neighbourhood where people present their challenges to one another (just like in the real world) hoping to get answers because someone has been through it and solved it thus, or knows someone who knows someone that has been through same and solved it this way or that way.

Please make una stop fronting. A certain member that came to ask about an issue her new born is having knows a hospital existed before she came here with the hope someone somewhere might have an answer having gone through a similar experience or a doctor/paediatrician in the house giving her a clue to what could be her baby's problem. Me I taya sef. A kind word like "oh! it's nothing to worry about just take her to the hospital" from someone might have just been the help she needed instead of the matching order dished out to her to take her baby to the hospital by most respondents. I noticed this happens a lot. E no good abeg.

Do you guys know the number of doctors, lawyers, engineers, councillors, pastors, pegans, atheists, ritualists, yahoo boys, native healers, armed robbers etc that we have here on Nairaland?

Enough of forming 'ITK' abeg.

I don talk my own. Oya make una talk una 'hown'.

I quite agree with you. And the comparison with Google is on point.
It's just that one also has to be careful to filter the advices one get from here and the Internet in general. But its a great place to sample opinions.

Kimoni:


I quite agree with you. And the comparison with Google is on point.
It's just that one also has to be careful to filter the advices one get from here and the Internet in general. But its a great place to sample opinions.

Now you understand clearly the concept of coming here "Opinion Sampling", more like a survey in some instances. I dont see anything wrong in that.