ok.... where do I start ( I literally sighed)

I dated a Nigerian guy before, loved him to bits.... we broke up. Met another guy few months later and he was cool too, but after a month things just don't seem to work....

I LOVE me some Nigerian man, hoping to marry one someday (GOD BLESS ME) however I find it difficult to adapt 100%

Anyway, Nigerian+South African couples, how do you guys make it work.

regards,

Confused Sexy Lady

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I don't think there's a way to date a Nigerian just as there is no way to date a South African. Different strokes for different folks. The individual matters.

As a man, I could like to eat cold meals (I prefer cold meals) and your partner might prefer hot meals.

That's how it works. Just settle and talk to your man. Study how compatible you guys are. You'd "adapt" that way.

Cheers.

Ermm never dated a southy chick before....op wait for the next poster after me...e fit get better tin tell u

But generally you men are very difficult. LOL! BUT what I like is you hold a lot of traditional values (respect, love, hard work etc) WICH I LUUUURVVEE.

Mara eish, thanx tho

op u might be the cause.

I am married to 100 wives, 99 are from South Africa, the last one of them is from Nigeria. I can authoritatively tell you that South African girls rock. Yes, none of them can prepare me Egusi soup or Ogbono but they are the best when it comes to bed matters. The Nigerian girl handles my kitchen and prepares me delicious Nigerian delicacies, while the South Africans dance in my room with their one of a kind hips. South African ladies are beautiful and they can make an impotent man enjoy sex. I have never been to South Africa in my life but I really wish this my dream comes to pass. , I must taste South African punnany ooo.

Meilyn you just made my head hot with ur very downgrading comment, mind you I cook great rice n food red stew BUT I hate the smell of egusi so I cant eat it. AND to ZAIKON, maybe....I can be stubborn at times.. lol... but haven't met a guy strong enough to hold this down... hahaha

Wezma:
Meilyn you just made my head hot with ur very downgrading comment, mind you I cook great rice n food red stew BUT I hate the smell of egusi so I cant eat it. AND to ZAIKON, maybe....I can be stubborn at times.. lol... but haven't met a guy strong enough to hold this down... hahaha

Heyyy, I was only joking. How can I get married to 100 wives lol.... You believed that shi.t? Well, it is all good. Nigerian girls can't prepare your native food and vice versa. So I don't think that was degrading. Please, try to cool your head. Lol....

Its so easy

Any man who cannot put up with who you are doesnt deserve you... Trust me, I have been with a lot of stubborn girls and I find ways to adapt. You being stubborn makes the relationship more interesting. I try my best to understand a lady before doing anything stupid like breaking up etc...

Just find dat one u ar compatible with..& u ar good 2 go.

Edit

I totally agree Meilyn, it does boil down to compatibility....

and I know yopu cant have 100 wives, your "asset"will tire hahaha, any man's asset would gee!!

Wezma:
I totally agree Meilyn, it does boil down to compatibility....

and I know yopu cant have 100 wives, your "asset"will tire hahaha, any man's asset would gee!!

Loool, your head is there. Well, some men are very strong though. Mind you, we have people who married at least 50 wives in the world today. Yea, you are right, find a Nigerian man that is compatible, he must be down to earth, kind and loyal. Make sure he loves you though, most Nigerian men would do anything just to have a stay in South Africa.

LOL. Our men are very "difficult" just as you are stubborn (your words). .

Since you LUUURRRVVEEE our traditional values, you should blend with the rest too.

Nigerians and South Africans are very adaptable.

*sigh* segxi1960 (why is your name so complicated ) il try and blend, hopefully after my visit to Nigeria il have a better understanding and perspective

Xenophobia

HOW IS THIS EVEN XENOPHOBIA! oh Lord, spare the ignorant minds...

as for citizenship, @ Meilyn AHAHAHAHA ive seen a few cases it was tragic, God forbid that happening to me.

Wezma:
as for citizenship, @ Meilyn AHAHAHAHA ive seen a few cases it was tragic, God forbid that happening to me.

Lol, then you need to shine your eyes. Nigerian men are wiser than any country men you can think of. Most of us go to the extreme for a better life. There are enough good Nigerians out there though. I am one of them but I dont like singing my own glory. lol

Sveen:
Xenophobia

Stop being a nuisance to this forum. If you don't have anything to say then you better keep quiet please. If she was Xenophobic would she be creating this thread?

Somebody please tell me how I should reply directly to a comment, I just joined the fourm and im cluless and I cant read(its the end of my working day and my brain has already given up)

THANK YOU BATMAN SEEVEN for coming to my defense. Lets not mind narrow minds...

AAAND.. Meilyn, very true, YOU MEN (I hope you don't mind me using that term) can really do a lot to survive, especially IBO/IGBO (somebody please educate me on the spellings) oh! (and yes I have heard and personally seen a lot of underground work happening by Ibo people)

BUT on a serious note. I love Nigeria, I love the people, culture fashion etc. its just lovely.

Wezma:
Somebody please tell me how I should reply directly to a comment, I just joined the fourm and im cluless and I cant read(its the end of my working day and my brain has already given up)

THANK YOU BATMAN SEEVEN for coming to my defense. Lets not mind narrow minds...

AAAND.. Meilyn, very true, YOU MEN (I hope you don't mind me using that term) can really do a lot to survive, especially IBO/IGBO (somebody please educate me on the spellings) oh! (and yes I have heard and personally seen a lot of underground work happening by Ibo people)

I came to your defence and not other wise. At the bottom of every post, there is a QUOTE. Click on it and reply.

MEILYN:
Stop being a nuisance to this forum. If you don't have anything to say then you better keep quiet please. If she was Xenophobic would she be creating this thread?

Vituperation of side effect of drastic narcotics, I suppose?

oh exuse me, im sorry for that!

MEILYN:
I came to your defence and not other wise. At the bottom of every post, there is a QUOTE. Click on it and reply.

SO naira confuses me. if I where to come to Nigeria for a week, how much spending money would I need to have a fairly decent time.

You do not want to date or marry Nigerian men!

They are horrible husbands, fathers, and providers. Get a Ghana man.

THEY ARE?? LOL! please elaborate on you strong opinion. AND men from Ghana has really nice dark chocolate skin (I love dark skin)

MrsChima:
You do not want to date or marry Nigerian men!

They are horrible husbands, fathers, and providers. Get a Ghana man.

Nigerians in general. It is seen in my country as tribalistic to single out the Igbos and say they do anything to survive. My tribe is one of the minority tribes in Nigeria, the Igala tribe (Google would help you a lot ), we share same ancestry with the Igbos but we are different people. Our men are handsome and ladies are beautiful just like the Igbos. History has it that the two Tribes lived together and were close friends before the British came over to create a divide.

The Igbos have this love for a good life, so they work hard to achieve great things, they are intelligent people. There is this saying that 'You can't cheat an Igbo'. I really admire them a lot. My tribe doesnt have make good life a necessity but everybody would attest to the fact that we are accommodating people.

The dress sense of Nigerian tribe is fantastic. Hausa, Yoruba, Igbo, Benin and some other minority tribes in Nigeria dress so well. In fact, we dress to impress. Lol

Wezma:
SO naira confuses me. if I where to come to Nigeria for a week, how much spending money would I need to have a fairly decent time.

I think 1 South African Rans is about 15naira. It depends on where you want to stay, the stipulated time and the money you need would be calculated in that regard.