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Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by tpiadotcom: 9:41pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
iswearinowell: op just inform your ladies they'll be paying for what they eat? |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 9:43pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:Its very obvious you lack comprehension skills. Madam look at the title of the thread and come back to quote me sensibly. If not just remain on your dumb lane let me see more sane people to converse with. Common bill? You said. So how many times have you paid for a bill when you go out on a date? You seriously sound like a typical nigerian broke girl. Mtchew! 2 Likes |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
naijaboiy:A coçk actually lays egg when it becomes old though. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by tpiadotcom: 9:48pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 9:58pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:Are you kidding me? Abi no be hen dey lay egg again? |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by DollyParton1(f): 10:06pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
naijaboiy: DollyParton1:Ok I agreed, my mistake. This one post is the only place I referred to the male folks. But I redeemed myself later on when I broke it down. DollyParton1:Then I said thats what I would do. I am female and there is no way this was exclusively referring to male. DollyParton1:And this referred to both gender. So what are u talking about? |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
naijaboiy:True. A coçk lays egg when he's old. Those that grew up in the village in the 80's or early 90's should know this. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by tpiadotcom: 10:16pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: crap. 1 Like |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
angieberry:You girls keep saying it depends on the type of girls you meet. This has got me wondering if there are other sets of persons called "different girls" in this Nigeria. Abegi! Abi have you met them? @Ronald4lif @Naijaboiy |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by lilmax(m): 10:26pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Like you don't know? going dutch to them is like asking them to ask guys out |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by treesh(f): 10:27pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: That's because you keep going for the same type To the issue at hand, it is mainly because of the stereotypical roles society hands to us. Maybe I'll foot the bill at a date one of this days |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by angieberry(f): 10:33pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Well the way y'all keep on tagging Nigerian girls to evil, I naturally assume that you come in contact with the wrong girls. Most girls I interact with are not the money loving, blood sucking, gold digging witches you describe. AgapeCharis: |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
treesh:The stereotype appears to be true actually. It's a fact that a great percentage(that renders the other percentage insignificant) of girls we have here in our country are parasitic in nature. They expect the guy to carry the financial burden alone because he is the man. Just from your above post, I can deduce that you have not for once foot the bills on a date and you even used "maybe" to refer to a future date which means you may end up deciding not to do so. On this subject, a great great percentage of you are all the same. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 10:37pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
DollyParton1:Like I said before the rest of the points you proved are exactly my points too. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 10:39pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:I thought I was the only one who saw that. "Maybe" she would pay for a date one of these days. SMH It's not even as if we men want these ladies to be paying for these bills. But the moment they brought up that "come to my house syndrome" we also had to attack them back with the "going dutch" method. Abi nor be so? |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
treesh:Until you do that stop complaining. You still belong to the other group of girls mentioned here. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
angieberry:I beg to differ miss. An average Nigerian girl has leeching and gold-digging tendencies. Some leech consciously as in intentionally milking a guy's pocket while the others just see it that it's a guy's responsibility to foot her bills. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:Well I won't lie. I haven't met leeches among the girls i've encountered so far. But it doesn't strike out the fact that they are in the majority,,sadly. I may just be a lucky guy. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by angieberry(f): 10:43pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
I'm an average Nigerian girl. I don't have those tendencies. Again, the wrong girls. AgapeCharis: |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Na so o. They can't eat their cake and have it. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 10:47pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis:At all mehn! They want to win both ways. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by naijaboiy: 10:48pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
angieberry:So how about a date some day so you can prove it. *woman wrapper mode on* |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by ronald4lif(m): 10:48pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
angieberry: You and your clique of friends might not fall within the category of girls our submission was illustrating and your friends are a teenier fraction on the larger scale of girls who expect men to pick up the bills on a first date. We normally wouldn't complain as I personally would love to foot the bills but our reaction was based on the footings of ladies on a thread that propelled the OP to come up with this one. On that thread, most ladies frowned at the Nigerian guys attitude of always inviting a girl to their homes rather than a public place, which in most cases restaurant. They cited Western custom as their reason. But forgetting or shying away from the fact in same Western society it's a culture for a woman to pay for her own bills, most of the time. For the records, this western culture is observed by indigenious Westerners not Nigerian immigrants as a lot of them aren't different from their ilks in Nigeria. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Yea, you're lucky. Those girls are among what we call negligible value in Physics. Most of them now go wan dey build office for guy head. angieberry:Okay. I've got a question for you though. Have you at any time asked a guy out on a date and foot the bills?? A simple yes or no will do. 1 Like |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by tpiadotcom: 10:52pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
why are two guys talking to each other in coloured cursive font? three guys, if you count italics. 1 Like |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Same here Although I know most Nigerian ladies are like that, at the same time it is very easy to meet a decent, well-mannered, independent and beautiful Nigerian lady. So what are your problems? |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by ronald4lif(m): 10:53pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: Good question. I hope she answers that sincerely. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by ronald4lif(m): 10:59pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Insidous: Don't get into a crossfire, miss. This thread is like a revenge of one created today were guys got lambasted for inviting girls to their homes. How can you people expect a date out in a restaurant and place all the bills on the guys shoulder?. And when they employ ways of cutting cost and minimising expenditure it becomes a problem?. It's payback time. |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by angieberry(f): 11:07pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
@agapecharis You should first ask me if I go on dates na?? But when I go out(casually) with male friends, I pay for my own stuff (while they protest, of course), but e no concern me And, in would never ask a guy out @ronald4liff At that other thread, the main point the op was trying to make was that she felt it was very suggestive when a man asks a girl(especially one they barely know) to come to his house. I also concurred on that. I didn't read the thread to the end and I don't know how it was derailed into arguments about footing the bill And in the west, where chivalry is still very much alive, I want to believe that the man still foots the bill Lol. I don't have anything to prove. I know my worth naijaboiy: |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
ronald4lif: There are guys who still pick up the whole tab in the western world, what is your beef . Personally, whether I offer or not would depend on the circumstances. Well, I think the problem we have in Nigeria is the non-reciprocal attitude of our girls in relationship- WAIT O! Don't they cook for you in return? That should definitely count. *Back to disqus* I think who is to pick up the tab on a date is not the issue, the issue is our girls attitude towards relationship as a whole. Both sexes are guilty of having a sense of entitlement however it magnified in our women, that is where the problem lies. 3 Likes |
Re: When Will Nigerian Ladies Start Going Dutch On A Date by butanep(m): 11:13pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
DollyParton1:@ bolded. You are here on nairaland lying and saying what you have never done and what you can't do. Take it or leave it, most of you girls are just bunch of broke ass looking for who to prey upon. |
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