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Re: Am I Being Used? by Nobody: 3:31am On Jun 20, 2015
Richy4:


Thank you so much.I know all that because it was transferred electrically. I can always print out the receipt. You see, if you are outside Nigeria especially the country were i am, you see your fellow Nigerian as brother. We are not much.moreover, we came from the same state in Nigeria.
Funny enough he is the type that wants everyone to believe he is rich. He used to work in mining. He doesn't like publicity just like me. I guess that was why we became friends.
I just wanna live it at that who knows what will happen in future.
In as much as i am angry, that money is not enough for me to go to court.

Hmm okk o bro. If you can afford to lose the money. I just don't like it when people just borrow money and just refuse to pay when they can afford it.
Re: Am I Being Used? by otokx(m): 5:49am On Jun 20, 2015
So people like this still exist; this is 2015.
Re: Am I Being Used? by manee2(m): 3:55am On Jun 22, 2015
EfemenaXY:


Once bitten, twice shy. Looks like you haven't learnt your lesson yet.

All it takes is ONCE for someone to breach the trust placed in them and once that happens, they shouldn't expect to get help / sympathy if the exact same situation occurs again. What I mean is this:

She pleaded with you for help with a promise that she'll repay you back but she never did. And why didn't she want your girlfriend to know? Sounds really iffy.

You sef aren't helping matters. You're a non-income earning student, so you definitely DO NOT have the money to throw away / give out charities. So why would you even tell her in the first place to "forget it"? Please stay clear from that girl. She sounds like trouble and she definitely isn't your responsibility.

You've done enough for her. Now face your front and mind your own business. And in response to your question on whether or not you're being used? Yes. Most definitely. She's playing and using you big time, mate.
__ it helped, TNX plenty
Re: Am I Being Used? by EfemenaXY: 11:45am On Jun 22, 2015
manee2:
__ it helped, TNX plenty

You're welcome. smiley

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