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Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by GogetterMD(m): 3:23pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Please don't contemplate ditching Islam, marry the 2nd guy or wait for another suitor 4 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by MKO4ever(m): 3:23pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
I think none of them is good enough for you, so please just wake up and move on with your life. BTW: hope you have not allowed any of them to gain access to ............... ? |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by mashnino(m): 3:24pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Jaydee009: where |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by acehood907(m): 3:35pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
MuhdG:simple |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by acehood907(m): 3:37pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Don't forget dat hl fire and paradise 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Edifyer: 3:39pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Why don't you ask the christian guy to revert to Islam and then marry him that will be beneficial to both of you. I he truly loves you then he should not have issue reverting to Islam. 6 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by cocolacec(m): 3:40pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
My dear Sister i will share a story about a sister who was in the same situation as yours 13years ago.She was very Beautiful and men wanted her ,the single muslim Brothers couldnot stand her short temper .The married muslim men wanted her as the second wife in her religious group regardless of her issues.She later settled down with a christian who works and had 2 Children .Right now as i am tying the marriage has fallen apart ,the husband has abandoned the home completely not caring for her Welfare and the kids.Morale of this story.This sister lost part of her religion (full hijabite turned to scarfite) ANother advise is if you want to marry the muslim man you can decide not to live in the same house with the first wife but the xtian is a no go area for muslim women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0HZRAR-buA 3 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by SweetSoup(m): 3:43pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Is it morally or religiously right to date 2 men at the same time? As a Muslim myself, i won't advice you to marry a non Muslim because of issue of divided home, expecially when you start raising children except both couples are willing to compromise. A lot of families are struggling to deal with this problem, while some others have found a way to deal with it. Just my opinion 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by tajudeent: 3:44pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
You don't convert to Alislam because of marriage,only by faith in Allah. It well known that desperate suitors do as you suggested and go back to their religion once they get what they want. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Gboskee(m): 3:46pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
greatestluv4all:in islam it is prohibited for you as a lady to marry a non muslim(polygamy,khafir) thats all! and please go get some knowledge cause from your epistle its like you need to dig more,, |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Omotayor123(f): 3:47pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
greatestluv4all:Do you remember the song " Islamdeen is my religion, I am happy to be a Muslim No circumstance insha Allah can change my Opinion". Let that song be your Guide. I pray Almighty Allah will not lead you astray. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
You can marry him while he keeps his religion and you keep your. Better stil wait for another chance if you consider polygamy so offensive. But never you leave Islam, it is an eternal mistake 3 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by asumo12: 3:57pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
greatestluv4all: Sister where's your istikhara? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by susolzik(m): 4:01pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Why would you consider marrying a non-muslim in the first instance, when it's clearly prohibited for a Muslim lady to marry a non-muslim! While I quite agreed that age might not be on your side, why not seek for Allah's intervention and put your trust in Him alone. Though the choice remain yours, but never forget that we shall account for our deeds on the day of resurrection. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by moscobabs(m): 4:02pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
wow!!! I love these Muslim guys sa. their responses without insult make me love them walahi. Islam is indeed a religion of peace. am a xtian by birth and religion Muslim in thinking and belief do not ask me why . idinastratalimustakimo. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Kingharzyz(m): 4:04pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
There are other Muslim brothers out there ... so why stress... |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
lawallawal86: her choice in this context shouldnt be about religion,it should be about who she is more contented & comfortable with.She can marry d muslim guy if she is happier wit him & wit bein a 2nd wife.If not,then d christain guy is a beta option. Or beta still,she can 4get abt dem both & wait 4 a single muslim whom she will marry without any fault. 4 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by larukey: 4:13pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
My beloved sis, fine age is not by your side but i wld rather advice you never to leave your religion for a man. if you dnt mind been a second wife its ok you marry the muslim but if you have got a problem with that just like every woman please hold on for another suitor and quit any further tempting act with both of them |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by adeA1(m): 4:13pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
A confused sister indeed who has not been convinced of what ISLAM is all about. Hnnn! But why confuse my dear sister? Islam has never bn a religion of confusion as everythin is vividly define in such a devine manner that Non- Muslims re even unequivocabely attested to it. I tot its needful to bringforth a little admonition with some refrences to the ISLAM as being the only acceptabl religion in Allah's sight. My sister do u knw the QUR AN as being a scripture that is all encompassin as in that encapsulates all other revealed books from our savious? My sistr ur answer should be YES. Okey, islam as a religion had bn entrenched in many verses of the QuRan. ISLAM, a religion that had bn the only relion confirmed by ALLAH;- inna d deena indal laahil islam. ISLAM, only religion that teaches how &who to love that wll lead one to heaven(paradise);Q 43 vs 67. A religion that had ever bn practised by all the ever sent prophets of ALLAH- q2 vs 131-133. My sister am typin almost in tears why the hell u want ready to trade ur religion- the only acceptabl one wit wordly benefit. The present life that wll last for just hundred of years. My sister dnt leav uncertainty for certainty- I mean u re not sure of what inheret in this urs relationship wit unbeliver . Also muslims are worshipin a certain, define n defined GOD wit a certained n defined n devined way of worship- with a thouroughly convinced Scrpture Whereas others are livin in a perpetual state of confusion- everythin about them is confusion. I wish u understand n perceiv what I knw of islam. I wish u well in shaa ALLah 2 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by animalz: 4:14pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
U NO BLAME ANYBODY. SOMETIMES WOMEN NO DEY THINK NATURALLY. IF YOU KNOW SAY YOU GO BECOME SECOND WIFE, YOU HAVE TO PREPARE FOR IT WHILE IF YOU NO WANT BECOME SECOND WIFE, YOU LEAVE THAT RELIGION. BY THE WAY. THEM REGARD WOMEN AS DOG.. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by focus7: 4:17pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Sis. In the world of Islam there's no such language as "every woman wants a man for herself". You have to get use to sharing a man with as many numbers of women as your man is prepare to marry. And for the moderator and Seun f*ck you all for asking if I am a muslim or nor before I could comment on islamic thread while make the christian thread open for every one. If islam is that pure as you people are claiming it to be and you don't have something to hide, then why restricting people from commenting on the thread? I AM NOT A MUSLIM BUT I NEVER RESENT ISLAM. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by MKO4ever(m): 4:20pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Ishilove: Just like I was banned this morning, and I think that decision was not fair, Infact I still do not know why exactly I was banned, is there not suppose to be a feedback message so that same thing will not reccur again
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Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by bola4dprec(m): 4:21pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
greatestluv4all:sub'anallah 2 suitors ? smh the issue is already settled you don't need to ask nairalnder question, prophet Muhammed left behind quran and its was stated categorically please the question is irritating I am not sure you are devoted muslim 3 Likes |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by kadree(m): 4:29pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
@ op. Sometimes, we face challenges we feel no one has eva bn thru. One of the GREATEST mistake u kud make as a person is living al-islam. Av u consider the future? - ur kids. Can u withstand seeing ur girl n ur boy not practising Islam. Can u cope wit pressure from ur in-laws inviting u to b of dia religion? And above all, how do u explain to God wen d time comes? Dat u left al-islam simply because u were running out of time? because u were rili trying to avoid wht pple wud say abt u? D shame, rejection, pressure n pain u may face for bn a muslim is only temporary my sis. NEVER SUCCUMB TO PRESSURE DAT WOULD TAKE U AWAY FROM THE FAITH OF AL-ISLAM Unless u are abt letting us know u aren't sure of Allah's way n rosulilah's way. No one knws wen DAT INEVITABLE TIME will come. May Allah keeps guiding u n all of us. Salam. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by MrOlai: 4:31pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by focus7: 4:35pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
adeA1:Your post is a perfect definition of what confusion is. The lady want an answer to an issue, you are here blabbing that is islam is a region this islam is a religion that. Well you may need to know that your comment has done nothing but to compound the confusion state of the lady more. Also, though you tried to defend islam but it is clear you don't know what you are worshipping. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by freezone4real(f): 4:35pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
What I will add is, are you truely a Good Muslim?? I doubt so, because a good muslim will never consider marrying a non-muslim (in the case of the ladies). You better repent and pray for Allah to forgive you. Its even better for you to decide not to marry forever than leaving your Religion. 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by ladkud(m): 4:40pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
AlBaqir: salaam; I will be totally disagree with you for saying istikhara is of no use in this issue" yes it is of important use in seeking Allah's guidance in any kind endeavor you want to embark upon. Though istikhara is not future or fortune teller as you said but, seeking guidance for mind for Almighty Allah that know it all. please you can consult the dual istikhara itself and understand the meaning of its content. No one can know more than our beloved teacher Muhammad (s.a.w) He is the one enjoined us to do istikhara. maasalam 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by focus7: 4:43pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
freezone4real:Why do I have the impression that Islam is a do or die affair with your last comment? |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Ishilove: 4:45pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Jarus: 1 Like |
Re: Leave Islam Or Accept Polygamy... by idu1(m): 4:48pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
greatestluv4all:na ojukokoro dey worry ni. Your faith is wick.... What make you to consider marriage with a non muslim With this stupi.d question you just ask now.... You ve partially left islam.... You need to seek for forgiveness from Allah... |
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