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Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Hi nairalanders. I have been around for a while but this should be my first topic/post in the romance section. This incidence is a long epistle but i'll try and summarise.... I need urgent and reasonable advice here pls.. Just about an hour ago, a girlfriend of mine (a buddy that is a girl) came to me with tears and lamented with the hope that I can offer a 'do not worry yourself, it's a small thing' advice like I usually do. It was about a boy she dated in d university who bumped into her again about 2weeks ago. As they didn't end things on a sour note back then, she was glad to have met him again and could not even wait to announce to him that she was now engaged with wedding plans underway. According to her, the boy acted all good and even offered to pay for d stuffs she got at domino's. They exchanged numbers again with d promises of keeping in touch and expectation that d boy will be attending her wedding later in September. To her utmost surprise and dismay though, the boy has been calling since last week and telling her all sort of things like he has been out of naija since after nysc, has a wife and 2 kids in d US, he still likes her, wants them to get intimate again while he's still in the country, bla bla bla...she wasn't interested in anything more than being friends, she said. The heartbreaking part here is where the guy has now threatened to post a sex video they made together back in school on the Internet coz my homegirl said NO. The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy. ![]() The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS?? 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by TrishaP(f): 2:52pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now. 193 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by GeneralQuamdeen: 3:00pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
The woman should summon courage.. That video is just a bluff.. Why keep the video till now However, dont forget to vote for Jarizod today for Mr Nairaland.. See my signature 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
In the first why should u make videos with a Man U ain't married to? It describes who u are , pornstars make videos so my question is 'were u a IndecentStar' now u av to pay for it , why crying but here is my candid advice tell ur hubby about ur past if only u never lied abt yourself and if lucky enough u get away with this mehn I congratulate u, it's disgusting making sex videos with a bf Chaii naija babes won't stop to amaze me, Now I see reasons why most men don't wanna get married , that beautiful girl u just met was a IndecentStar in her past so how will she erase it in the future... Una go dey fvck up and down, if I see any girl for Nairaland dey talk abt sex again, I will arrest una, una see una life that girl wey u spoil her with ur kini na another man wife tomoro o, but karma is a always waiting at its bustop omo u go pay o ![]() 103 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Cutehector(m): 3:02pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
In d case whr it may not be a bluff, I guess she should tell her fiance someone in her past is tryna blackmail her... 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Cutehector(m): 3:04pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
adeekiti:hey, pls quit the blame game.. They were young and silly then.. Buh d good tin is it aLl happend way way before she met her present fiance.. So if he is understanding, he'l put it aside 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
She has to tell if he loves her it should not break them. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
TrishaP: Yea?? I thought so too.. she wouldn't have been scared if the fiance wasn't internet-savvy. Says she would seriously detest a situation where d fiance or any of his friends saw such a video on the Internet without a prior knowledge. That may spell doom for her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by jrerico1(m): 3:06pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
I think the Ex is playing a hocus-pocus move, I know it will be a bad image for the family if he still has the clip and exposes it. But the fiancé need to stand by her, This traitor can't ruin the marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by oyindare(m): 3:08pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Kill the guy now.... ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by lasheez(m): 3:09pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Truth be told,the video does not exist anymore.He is just passing on a cheap blackmail.Literally speaking a guy who is married with 2 kids will not have such nonsence still in possession.Let him do whatever,just call off his Bluff. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by chimerase2: 3:16pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
So assuming now u b babe way I wan marry na to open ua dirty mouth de reason me say u been do MOJO with ua boi friend ![]() De kind bite way I go bite amu eh even suarez no go believ amu hin go shock becos hin neva see dat kind biting before ![]() 39 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by austinvsb1(m): 3:32pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
My sincere opinion? Tell him. I know of a 4 years old marriage that failed because the husband saw his wife's nudes on d Internet. I think it was on twitter or something. The rate at which dis bloggers dey find traffic with nudes and recorded sex videos is crazy! Your husband can even help complain to the police and have the guy arrested for molestation and blackmail seff. JustSayin' 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by pretydiva(f): 3:45pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Will suggest she tells her hubby 2 b abt it. Then d 3 of u can put heads 2geda 2 set dat guy up n gve him wat he deserves. He's such a big fo.ol frm demanding such frm d gal 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by jameseva: 3:46pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Tell him about sex video? Lol!Tell her not to try that nonsense if she likes her marraige oo. Even if the guy posts the recording, chances of your fiance or friends seeing it is pretty slim. Another advice, although bad, is that she should go hookup with the guy to silence him, it's not like it's d first time he's hit it. That way she can save her marriage and beg d other guy to delete d video or something. Whateva u decide, goodluck. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by SimpleJetty(f): 4:28pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
She should first of all intimate her would-be hubby about the latest trend and of course seek for his understanding. Then they should both work together and alert the police. Now the trick would be to lay ambush for the so-called ex boyfriend(beast) on the pretence she has succumbed to his crazy quest. Then a venue would be agreed upon. Once the animal shows up, the police will get him arrested and he'll face the law cause it's a crime to blackmail someone. Also let her not forget to record there phone conversation henceforth which will be tendered as evidence in a competent court of jurisdiction. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by MzzTega(f): 4:37pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
All these things could be avoided,but at that time she was not thinking with her brain now she wants to apply the ‘‘brain power of people'' The guy is bluffing. A video in the uni days,he kept it and his wife did not bump into it,thats cool. She should tell her fiance,not much of a big deal. Every body has a past. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
This is what she needs to do: 1. Tell the husband to be about the sex tape 2. If she feels the husband to be wont be able to stomach it then she should get a close relative or friend to pose as the fiance then call the blackmailer and be like 'Yo dude I heard U got my girl on camera. Well fvck U I still love her to bits'. Simple 50 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Shagati(m): 6:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
He has a wife and kids in the US? Very good. -Source out his family via the internet; Facebook. Twitter. Instagram (get pictures) -Get as much details as you can about him. Home Address, office, church, favourite bar, strip joint etc. -Save all the chats between yourselves. (Screenshots) -Show him all the evidence you have of his cosy little life and tell him if he as much as sends you a message again you will make his life a living hell and destroy any fvcking Utopia he thinks he has. I can provide the above service free of charge to you #DamnIhateblackmailers!!! 95 Likes |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
SimpleJetty: Besides telling the fiance, I am 100 with ur suggestion. The idi.ot will definitely pay for this. Girlfriend was just with me now, I even showed her this thread and the comments. She is just really scared a revelation such as this could ruin her relationship completely. "He has been transparent with me, I know basically everything there is to know of his past, how do I tell him now that I did something this appalling and didn't mention it until now that's just few months to our wedding?"..her words Mehn this matter just weak me. |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by AsanwaKC(f): 8:11pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
get rid of him ASAP...he asked for it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by pretydiva(f): 8:17pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
jameseva:pls how old r u..no offense 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
This one tight oh. She has no choice but to tell the fiance. the ex might be bluffing. But which ever way, she should tell the fiance. Its a past na. Besides a broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage. Sorry sis. Lesson; Use your head not just your heart when in a relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by pryd(m): 10:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
The ex might be bluffing but does she have the courage to find out if it's actually a bluff? It's a massive risk! OP you might be tempted to involve "one of ur guys"; plz apply caution, you can't really tell who means well. This one is strong mehn... 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by DancingSkeleton(m): 10:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by iykedare(m): 10:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Let your ex show your husband the video so that he would see that he just purchased a fairly used puSs.y. 5 Likes |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Simplyunique: 10:05pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
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Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by MEILYN(m): 10:06pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
This is a simple case now. Tell your husband to be before it is too late. Report the bastard to the police and plan a way to get him arrested. Trust me, Nigeria police will know what to do from there. It is an offence for anybody to post your nu.de online or anywhere else when you have told them not to do so. Nairaland critics, please you are needed here. This guy claims he is talented, come and prove him wrong. https://www.nairaland.com/2399348/raw-music-freestyle-thread-love |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by Dollyak(f): 10:06pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
Why allow any guy to have you on tape in the first place? She should come clean to his fiance and let the guy do his worst. Alternatively, she can scare the guy with some area boys. The guy is a small boy. |
Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by AlomoReloaded: 10:06pm On Jun 23, 2015 |
If u tell me about it, I WILL LEAVE YOU! If you don't and I find out, I WILL STILL LEAVE YOU!!! Just pray and fast that I don't ever get to know.! IMO though. Why for pmb's sake should you record your intimacy ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
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