andromida:
She has to tell if he loves her it should not break them.

jayfolarin:
The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy.

The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS??

jameseva:
Tell him about sex video? Lol!Tell her not to try that nonsense if she likes her marraige oo. Even if the guy posts the recording, chances of your fiance or friends seeing it is pretty slim. Another advice, although bad, is that she should go hookup with the guy to silence him, it's not like it's d first time he's hit it. That way she can save her marriage and beg d other guy to delete d video or something. Whateva u decide, goodluck.

sonofananimal:
YOU SEE WHY I HATE NIGERIA WOMEN

I SWEAR ALL OF THEM ARE ANIMALS.


MONSTER TO THE HIGHEST ORDER. GUYS BEFORE YOU MARRY THOSE ANIMALS, FIRST CHECK THERE BACKGROUND, TRY TO KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT THERE PAST LIFE.




BUT THE BEST IS TO MARRY FOREIGN GIRL

Insidous:

Ode!
You need help!
Mentally deranged fellow

sonofananimal:



YOU AGAIN

I SWEAR SOMETHING DEY WRONG WITH YOU

Insidous:

me Ode!

TrishaP:
All that is a bluff. Why would he be saving the video till present?!.. Or was he still hoping to date her again!? That blackmail is a cheap one and she shouldn't fall for it. The best she can do is to tell her fiance that they both once dated, that'll be enough info for now.

Insidous:

Apoda!

sonofananimal:


GOD, JUST HELP ME TO ERASE THIS SOMEONE,

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU

DID I QUOTE YOU


PLS LEAVE ME ALONE

Insidous:

Yes, you did
Ode!

jayfolarin:
Hi nairalanders. I have been around for a while but this should be my first topic/post in the romance section. This incidence is a long epistle but i'll try and summarise.... I need urgent and reasonable advice here pls..

Just about an hour ago, a girlfriend of mine (a buddy that is a girl) came to me with tears and lamented with the hope that I can offer a 'do not worry yourself, it's a small thing' advice like I usually do.

It was about a boy she dated in d university who bumped into her again about 2weeks ago. As they didn't end things on a sour note back then, she was glad to have met him again and could not even wait to announce to him that she was now engaged with wedding plans underway.

According to her, the boy acted all good and even offered to pay for d stuffs she got at domino's. They exchanged numbers again with d promises of keeping in touch and expectation that d boy will be attending her wedding later in September.

To her utmost surprise and dismay though, the boy has been calling since last week and telling her all sort of things like he has been out of naija since after nysc, has a wife and 2 kids in d US, he still likes her, wants them to get intimate again while he's still in the country, bla bla bla...she wasn't interested in anything more than being friends, she said.

The heartbreaking part here is where the guy has now threatened to post a sex video they made together back in school on the Internet coz my homegirl said NO. The attempt at the cheap blackmail just to getdown with her disgusts me to the bone but i'm still at a crossroad on what to do to this guy.

The question now is she thinks the guy is serious, she acknowledged that they recorded intimate sessions on more than 2 occasions back in the uni, she loves her husband-to-be and could get suicidal if he leaves her (her words), SHOULD SHE TELL HIM ABOUT THE VIDEOS??