a man be fortysumthin ' a man be fifty sumthin'
in my heart, i'm twenty sumthin'



omo anything for me. . .

Don't worry about me - report erring posts to the moderators and leave the rest to us.

spikedcylinder:

It should be locked jor, it is spam.

I thought tpia was female?

female mujahadeens are very few.

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sweetpain:

There is this one babe in my neighbourhood who recently turned 20. Tall dark intelligent and very pretty student of a higher institution, comfortable home.

I noticed she has been coming on to me for sometime now. Calls text messages and stuff.Yours sincerely is a real life hyena, now tamed by career pursuit and family but a hyena nonetheless. I have never had it with someone with such a wide age margin-completely uncharted territory for me.We have an outing planned for today and it is mutually agreed that there will be no first date bullshit.

All senior bros familiar with this scenario are free to share.For the self righteous, please remember there is a religious section.Thank you.

Jesus Wept!!

@sweetpain

I wont ask U 2 put a stop 2 ur illicit affair or 4 U 2 admit its not right.

My question 2 U is: HOW WILL U FEEL, IF UR WIFE IS ALSO HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH AN HANDSOME AND ATHLETIC BUILD 20-something yr old GUY?

This is where I have to draw the curtain on what has been for me on this thread an exhilarating experience. While the motive was primarily not to square off with anyone I have to say tpia has been a worthy opponent.

This thread may not mean much to a lot of folks who started following from when our esteemed moderator debosky joined in because so much of my posts were arbitrarily removed by him. I think it is cheap for an appointed moderator to take a stand then manipulate someone's posts simply because logic has failed him.

It is for this reason I will recuse myself from any thread on NL that has debosky as a contributor.As a young man, he has a lot to learn. He just doesnt know it.

Hopefully as NL grows it will be able to afford and keep proper moderators.I rest.

And It is of no significance to me if this is removed or not.  

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sweetpain, you might as well never come back to Nairaland. Believe me, we won't miss you

" Thix ix L0vely

sweetpain:

This is where I have to draw the curtain on what has been for me on this thread an exhilarating experience. While the motive was primarily not to square off with anyone I have to say tpia has been a worthy opponent.

This thread may not mean much to a lot of folks who started following from when our esteemed moderator debosky joined in because so much of my posts were arbitrarily removed by him. I think it is cheap for an appointed moderator to take a stand then manipulate someone's posts simply because logic has failed him.

It is for this reason I will recuse myself from any thread on NL that has debosky as a contributor.As a young man, he has a lot to learn. He just doesnt know it.

Hopefully as NL grows it will be able to afford and keep proper moderators.I rest.

And It is of no significance to me if this is removed or not.  

For avoidance of doubt - only insulting posts have been removed.

Don't worry sweet pain, I haven't stopped learning and I don't plan to. Your posts, along with any others that were insulting were removed. As an 'old man' who has learned a lot, I am a bit disappointed at your infantile name calling. . . .but then again, I am only a 'young man' with a lot to learn.

After all, I am not competing against you for your 20 year old, so kini big deal? Nairaland is big enough for all of us, 'recuse' all you want.

debosky:

For avoidance of doubt - only insulting posts have been removed.

Don't worry sweet pain, I haven't stopped learning and I don't plan to. Your posts, along with any others that were insulting were removed. As an 'old man' who has learned a lot, I am a bit disappointed at your infantile name calling. . . .but then again, I am only a 'young man' with a lot to learn.

After all, I am not competing against you for your 20 year old, so kini big deal? Nairaland is big enough for all of us, 'recuse' all you want.

I love you Debo.

when you're 45 she'll be 26, then she will love to go and do it with someone much younger dan u, I hope you wont mind then

why do i suspect that sweetpain is ajanlekoko?

oyb:

why do i suspect that sweetpain is ajanlekoko?

LOL

i no play around b4 i marry , as soon as i enter correct job within 6 months i marry (madam don dey wait for 4 years) now small small girls for my close dey take style eye me - (small girls full festac) - na soso regret say i no sow wild oats back in the day . probably turned out for the best - some habits are hard to break once you get into them - i'm sure sweetpain has been hammering small girls since his 20s. the freaky ogas where i work have always been like that - but more money has giventhem more opportunuities

rotflmao. . . .so funny

@post
ehrrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmm. . . .about that. . . .the problem is. . .

Both the poster and people that have posted on this thread are very daft!

What a topic and what stupid replies from these posters

Fools

HeatFusion:

rotflmao. . . .so funny

@post
ehrrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmmmm. . . .about that. . . .the problem is. . .

He is married.

I know lol.
It does not surprise me one bit.
All these ugly potbelly Nigerian men running after young innocent girls, pursuing them with money.
Yet, they already have their woman at home.
One day one day, they'll learn.

Who said babalawo(herbalist) will go out of business one day?
Na lie, if married men continue to commit adultery, then magun and love potions will continue to exist. Simple.

I highly encourage you to go on that first date with no holds barred!
Hopefully you will very quickly join the ranks of people who have successfully and foolishly jeorpadized a happy marriage because of one inconsequential indiscretion. Twenty year old has nothing to lose here. Some tips for you should you need them. Some ice cream , recharge vouchers and trips to the theatre should do it for the airhead. What a small price to pay for your marriage going up in smoke. goodluck dear.

Sweetpain,

With the lady in mind and that fact you are married. Within your marriage and culture is it permissable to have more than one wife?

Your options are simple;

1. You have a fling and get the infatuation out of your mind, and keep your condoms fresh and handy.

2. If you cannot have more than one wife, she could be your mistress in the Western sense and you would have to lavish her and support her in her life and career.

3. She could be your concubine , and you can set up another home and have dual households.

Provided she is okay with your existing arrangements and has no desires to have you leave your existing wife and children then you should like adults discuss ,shortly into any intimate relationship, how you see the relationship being. As long as your open from the outset I cannot see a problem with it.

Although with the age difference, other than great Sex, what else would you be doing with her the remaining 20 hours a day ? What sort of conversations will you be having, will it not be frustrating seeing her do the mistakes or behaviour in the manner you used 19 years ago ?

The age gap is large, and is likely to be a problem, just because you can have her does'nt mean you have to have her? You better off with somebody a bit more mature say 28 - 35 years of age.

You're encouraging a married man to have a fling with a young woman?

You should ba ashamed of yourself

The Prince:

Sweetpain,

With the lady in mind and that fact you are married. Within your marriage and culture is it permissable to have more than one wife?

Your options are simple;

1. You have a fling and get the infatuation out of your mind, and keep your condoms fresh and handy.

2. If you cannot have more than one wife, she could be your mistress in the Western sense and you would have to lavish her and support her in her life and career.

3. She could be your concubine , and you can set up another home and have dual households.

Provided she is okay with your existing arrangements and has no desires to have you leave your existing wife and children then you should like adults discuss ,shortly into any intimate relationship, how you see the relationship being. As long as your open from the outset I cannot see a problem with it.

Although with the age difference, other than great Sex, what else would you be doing with her the remaining 20 hours a day ? What sort of conversations will you be having, will it not be frustrating seeing her do the mistakes or behaviour in the manner you used 19 years ago ?

The age gap is large, and is likely to be a problem, just because you can have her does'nt mean you have to have her? You better off with somebody a bit more mature say 28 - 35 years of age.

If a woman came here with the same problem, would you advice her to do the same thing?

No he wouldn't he would condemn her and call her a LovePeddler. Men sef

Big bros, if you are truly married and u wanna keep shagging 20yr olds, then u be big-tyme agbaye, agbalagbo sef.
Berra gerraway while you still can, 'cos same might happen to your chic too. The fact dat she has a crush on you
does not mean you have to do the wrong thing. At least you are supposed to be more sensible than her.

Make una leave tory,
ma guy@poster, enjoy ur new catch jare.
The world has already gone berserk, so ur indiscretion will not . . .

The Prince:

Sweetpain,

With the lady in mind and that fact you are married. Within your marriage and culture is it permissable to have more than one wife?

Your options are simple;

1. You have a fling and get the infatuation out of your mind, and keep your condoms fresh and handy.

2. If you cannot have more than one wife, she could be your mistress in the Western sense and you would have to lavish her and support her in her life and career.

3. She could be your concubine , and you can set up another home and have dual households.

Provided she is okay with your existing arrangements and has no desires to have you leave your existing wife and children then you should like adults discuss ,shortly into any intimate relationship, how you see the relationship being. As long as your open from the outset I cannot see a problem with it.

Although with the age difference, other than great Sex, what else would you be doing with her the remaining 20 hours a day ? What sort of conversations will you be having, will it not be frustrating seeing her do the mistakes or behaviour in the manner you used 19 years ago ?

The age gap is large, and is likely to be a problem, just because you can have her does'nt mean you have to have her? You better off with somebody a bit more mature say 28 - 35 years of age.

Ogbele o!
Some Nigerian men will never change abi?

spikedcylinder:

Ogbele o!
Some Nigerian men will never change abi?

i am not an advocate for silly naija men but i will repeat what i have said before some naija women are as bad as the men. they are all birds of same feather.

Archilles:
If u werent married, i would hv said no big deal since no guy can say he wants to marry a gal on their first date. But u r married and single guys like myself feel cheated when u deprive us the company of single chics. You see, we cant go after married ladies and the single ones are being gradually coerced by the married guys. Life harsh ooo.  

LOOOOL

Married man

Olojukokoro

The rate of HIV/AIDS in the Black community has increased by 60% since Monday.

And many said ALL Nigerian men believe in marriage.