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Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Swagk101(m): 10:52pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Phuck those religious mofos(in-laws) and grab d job 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by ralph28(m): 10:52pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
If you agree with your spouse go ahead and pick the job. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by poseidon12: 10:52pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Rosarie: Of course, that's how it should be. We have a long way to go in this part of the world. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by beyoncausme: 10:53pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
whats their reasons....does not make sense..... |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by kpolli(m): 10:53pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
And what is your husband saying? |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by ryusufu(m): 10:54pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
deebee13:don't let anyone dictate ur future, if u want the job go for it. Let ur husband to deal with them. 2 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by uncommonice(m): 10:55pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Your profile picture really speak volumes of you & your lifestyle. No wonder they don't want you taking that job. They're trying to avoid chaos in the near future 7 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by ghettodreamz(m): 10:55pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
@deebee13 You said your in-laws are religious? Are they really devoted and spiritual? Have you asked them the reasons why they said you shouldn't? Provided they are devoted and spiritual Christians, I want to believe they are more experienced and spiritually-inclined than you and your husband combined. So, I would say, you should listen to them, but first you need to ask them to give you the reasons for telling you not to take up the job offer. Also, I think you need to do your due diligence on the subject matter. Have you prayed as an individual who is mostly concerned and affected by this decision and advice of theirs? You can always consult your trusted pastor or prophet who is more sound in the things of the spirits and not just being pastor by title but someone who really and truly sees and hears from the LORD. Lastly, whatever your decision is, I wish you all the very best. If the job is truly not a good one for you, I pray the good Lord in His infinite mercies provides you a better, more befitting and beneficial one in Jesus name, amen. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Cyriloha(m): 10:56pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
lovinhubby2wife:insatiable (/ɪnˈseɪʃəb(ə)l/) Inlaws |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by lovinhubby2wife(m): 10:57pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Cyriloha:exactly |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
ghettodreamz: I felt like butchering myself into pieces after reading your comment. Do you have a brain at all? 7 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by tellwisdom: 11:02pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Cyriloha(m): 11:02pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
lovinhubby2wife:please how can I be posting news here because it dazzling and running and shot along ketu mile 12 area of expertise which I suddenly left my plate of food and zoomed away just to take cover and I just heard one guy was shot and Jesus they are still shotting |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
uncommonice:You really hit the nail on the head. There is more to the story she is telling us 3 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Prodeegee(m): 11:02pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Hmmm...July 2 is like in a few days. There has to be a tangible reason. |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by pwerrymansion(f): 11:03pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
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Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by modskiller(m): 11:03pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Better leave that family if you love yourself and value the future of your unborn kids. What would you tell them in the nearest future that kept you from your full potentials in terms of finance and reputation when they need your help the most... Speaking from experience madam. #ChooseWisely 2 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by cold(m): 11:04pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Mamaflex:Very... 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
onegig: 3rd 4th and 5th paragraph. Esp the 4tj. Even if he is responsible for her. Doesn't she have parents or younger ones. Those people are just scared she will make money and she will change and start bin bossy or something. They should pack well Deebee13 please first thing tmorow make your husband his favourite breakfast and tell him you have decided to take the job. Don't even tell does in-law anything. Let them find out later you have started your work. Don't give room for such please. 5 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by peedeeasobie(m): 11:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
I'm offended by this writeup! If you were not married and you got a job, will you listen to anybody that tells you not to take the job? So because you are married you should now loose your individuality? I'm sorry to say but if your husband to torn between whose opinion to follow then he is a bomboy! My friend go and take that job and stop listening to silly opinions called prayer! 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by eleko1: 11:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Dnt report Ur family/hubby to 3rd party biko.U both shud sit down and iron thing out.I pray he listen to u.May ur wisdom neva turn to foolishness. |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by justmenoni: 11:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Baba Nigbejo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() quote author=Tbillz post=35178052]If they insist U shouldn't pick Up the job, ask for alternative from them. But U need to carry out a personal research on why they dont want U to take the job. Lastly your pastor, imam or baba nigbejo can help U out. [/quote] |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by andyanders: 11:05pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
deebee13: If you are the one on your profile, any prophecy can come in order to stop exposing your person because no man can stand you as they would want to have you at all cost. Wahala dey here op.Only in civilized society you can live your life but here with your beauty, so much meaning would be read into it by your working in such an organization. If they can have something that could put a smile on your face, then you sort it out with them. What is your husband's stand on this? If this is coming from a real genuine man of God, consider it and meet with the so called person to know and dig deep into whatever they say on this. Gudluck. 2 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by dozymars(m): 11:07pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
If thats you in the profile picture then i wouldn't blame ur inlaws. Probably they dont want u to be taken away from their son. |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
peedeeasobie: Bomboy ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Mintayo(m): 11:08pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
1. whats the nature of the job? 2. whats your husband saying? 3. Your inlaws should give you a genuine reason like what did they see? 4. which of your inlaws, they cant just tell you not to take the job? 5. Have you prayed about it too? 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by aoa2007: 11:08pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
deebee13:The question U need to ask yourself is whothe boss of your life. Why is. GOd revealing HiS plan for you to others when HE can reveal to you |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by bluice2(m): 11:08pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Take the job. . . . . Don't even think twice bout it. . . . . Thank me later. . . 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by poseidon12: 11:09pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
deebee13: How can he be torn in between? Either he wants you to take the job or he doesn't. Does he really understand his role as a man? The decision should be between you and your husband. Your inlaws can only make suggestions. You will probably regret later if you don't take the job. By the time the babies start coming and you are sitting at home all day getting fat and out of shape, then your husband will start looking outside for fun. And you'll probably be at the mercy of your husband since you are not earning money. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Raylight2(m): 11:13pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
deebee13: 1. have those in-laws built a house for you/? 2. have they got you a car? 3. will they be responsible for the training of your children? 4. 5. 6. 7. if your answers to those 7 questions are *no*, then you don't need a prophet. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by columbus007(m): 11:13pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
angelTI:exactly my thought and the reason I haven't join my comment,and if she aint then she's dubious ![]() |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by brownlord: 11:16pm On Jun 26, 2015 |
Are you a wife or maid? Cos I'm confused. 1 Like |
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