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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 12:51am On Jun 27, 2015 |
MrsChima: For the umpteenth time I'd elaborate again that feminists financial contribution "must" be "equal" to the tranche of the man. Actually, every woman contributes financially to the running of their homes or relationship. A lady in a relationship who board a cab with her own money has financially contributed to the relationship or who calls her man for a minute has made her own input. Likewise a married woman who purchase something as little as maggi cubes have contributed. But for feminists it must be seen as equable or it would invalidate their struggle. Do you concur?. Enough of the back and forth. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by MrsChima(f): 12:59am On Jun 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif: You Asked That Question And I have answered that question. I also said that every man is not gainfully employed nor own a business. So your assertion about feminists have to contribute equally makes no sense if the said man does not put in equally. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 1:26am On Jun 27, 2015 |
MrsChima: I'm asking to know if an equal financial contribution is a pact in the feminism treaty and agenda. And a yes or no would have suffice rather than the usual evasive tactics you employed. Western feminists do share a close or equivalent financial responsibilities in a relationship/marriage as the tradition which place men as breadwinners is no longer efficient. Everyone is a breadwinner and no one is a breadwinner lol. But this is not the case in Nigeria where men are still laden with most of the financial responsibilies and still term the breadwinners by most women. Hence their dependent on men for livelihood. Apart from my personal anecdotal ordeals, many Nigerians (of both sexes) would agree that most women depends on men for hairdo, special treats, and their general well-being when in a relationship. Yes, they aren't feminists and aren't expected to behave as such but for a feminist like yourself to encourage gender equality in Nigeria without first lambasting this parasitic behaviour and foster the need for women self reliance would be hypocritical and self serving. My take is there shall never be gender equality in Nigeria until most of the women abandon their leeching mentality on men and strive to becoming independent. No (or very few) Nigerian men would accede to having equal footing with a leech. It's impractical and that's me being pragmatic. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by MrsChima(f): 2:34am On Jun 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Let get some things clear...you or anyone else do not tell me what to answer and how to answer. If I don't want to give a short answer then I won't. Srcomdly, I don't focus on feminism in one country I focus on feminism in every country because the last time I have checked there are Nigerian and non-infringement around the world. You have your horns on Nigeria and complaining about leeching women and their dependence. Thank you for answering my question about non-feminists. I care less about the non-feminists I am more interested in women who wants equal footing as men and will do what necessary to attained such I am not interested in women who shun feminism but reaping benefits of its labor. It doesn't matter what you and your likes thinks of feminism and it's organic stance it will not change those who believes in its cause. Thirdly, I have stated numerous of times that women who supports feminism needs not to depend on men and remain self reliant. You chose to ignored that comment only to say I avoided lambasting women I can only scold those who claimed to.be feminists and not those who chose to be anti-feminists. Lastly, many Nigerian men knowingly goes after women who is dependent on men and have no desire to be feminist. They pay hefty bride prices and spend loads of money to obtain the favor only to regret later that they have created money hungry leech. Feminism can't control gold diggers or dust diggers but they can attempts to empower the leeches to become equal contributers. No matter how many times I tell women to be self reliant regardless of her nationality, you and your likes will still say no women haven't scold the leechers. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 2:52am On Jun 27, 2015 |
MrsChima: Yea right I have my cursor on Nigeria feminists because I don't think they are matching their words with actions. It is my believe that in feminism recommendation there should be 'equal' finances inclusive and anything short of that would tantamount to partiality and shortchanging the men. This is one factor I've realised they're insincere about the feminism movement. Equal financial responsibility must top their list of demands. Any feminist, Nigerian or in the diaspora, championing her course without validating the need for an equal-based funding of a relationship and/or marriage is hypocritical and self-centered and must be call out for who they are. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by MrsChima(f): 2:59am On Jun 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Who are the Nigerian feminists that are demanding their mates to uphold financial responsibility while they do nothing and still claim feminists. I would like to speak with them and I am sure you have their contacts. If they are not feminists I will be very disappointed. I amonly cconcern with those who claim to be feminist and still leeching. We are going to stop this sh1t so you can stop whining about these leeching bishes! |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by ronald4lif(m): 3:05am On Jun 27, 2015 |
MrsChima: It's not a matter of do nothing like you put it at the emboldened. It's a matter of contributing equally in the financing of the relationship and I find it suspicious and dubious for you not to point it out always. There are many of your ilks who keeps evading the question of sharing equal finances of a relationship each time it's raised. Perhaps, they're pseudo-feminist and you'd know them in due time when I tackle them regarding this same issue. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by MrsChima(f): 3:28am On Jun 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Ronald...what's the fvck is you on? Let me put this in large fonts so you can see it clear. [size=22pt] Feminists SHOULD contribute EQUALLY in any relationship regardless of their nationality.Whatever their male partner contribute they should match it equally[/size] I dare you say I didn't address your assertion! I need the contacts of the Feminists who are leeching and not contributing equally. Feminists ONLY. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Dygeasy(m): 4:26am On Jun 27, 2015 |
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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 5:47am On Jun 27, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Pharmacology, unilag. u? |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 5:52am On Jun 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif:And I repeat other women won't pay for the sins of others. There are some boys that depend on dependent sugar mummy to sponsor them and it has never made women above men. Inasmuch, I'd admit female leeches are more than male leaches, it will be bad to lump us together. There should be gender equality but individual inequality. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:03am On Jun 27, 2015 |
ronald4lif:That was Chimamanda's point when she told women to forget about likeability and people miscontrued her and thinks she was preaching about feminism. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:04am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:07am On Jun 27, 2015 |
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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Truckpusher(m): 6:07am On Jun 27, 2015 |
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Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:16am On Jun 27, 2015 |
blublahd:According to people in family section, ALL MEN ARE EQUAL. Does that mean you can take the same sit with Barrack Obama, Vladimir Putin? Or any Nigerian male beggar taking the same seat with you. ALL WOMEN ARE EQUAL, does that mean, I can take the same seat with Angela Merkel, Queen Elizabeth. That's my logic of individual inequality. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:16am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 6:20am On Jun 27, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:Hmmmm Can you take the same seat with Obama? All men are not equal(certainly not by birth), but that does not make a man less a man. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by JoeCutie(m): 6:41am On Jun 27, 2015 |
VictoriaBee:Philosophy, Uniben. Oh, Pharmacology? Wow! It's a very rare course in this part of the world. I think there are just a very institutions that offer it. Morning, dear. 2 Likes |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by JoeCutie(m): 6:47am On Jun 27, 2015 |
MrsChima:Lool. Good morning, ma'am. Okay, I should bring you cherries? No wahala. Which one do you want; that cherry fruit, or virginity? 1 Like |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by MissMakas(f): 6:57am On Jun 27, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Making mockery of you, how? So you don't know how famous or popular you are on Nairaland? I went through your diary, there's no post with less that 5 likes. I mean every of your 130 posts have 5 likes (and shares) and above. Considering the fact that you're a guy, you're too good. If you were a girl, it would be different, because a girl can type, "I'm hungry" and get 15 likes. You have a good number of fans, and you don't disappoint us. Thing is, you give us what we want. Please go and update your diary, I'm bored. And yes, I love Abacha with fish. Very well. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by JoeCutie(m): 7:10am On Jun 27, 2015 |
MissMakas:Are you serious? Seriously, I never saw it this way. Well, it only humbles me the more. I'm honoured. And thank you very much, Amaka. By the way, you're such a beauty. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 7:25am On Jun 27, 2015 |
JoeCutie:Chai! You sabi better thing. No i don't , but i taste if available. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by piicity(m): 7:30am On Jun 27, 2015 |
NNEKA MORNING Nneka123: |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 7:37am On Jun 27, 2015 |
piicity:Hi |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by JoeCutie(m): 8:10am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Nneka123:Yes na, I sabi better thing, and better things sabi me too. You don't "take" but you "taste"? Typical African lady! Why do most Nigerian ladies see alcoholic as men's thing? Some even view it as abomination...sort of. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 8:32am On Jun 27, 2015 |
JoeCutie:I don't know for them . I don't see it as men's thing, that's cheating Like i said, i don't "take" but "taste" till it's fully legalized for me. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by JoeCutie(m): 8:42am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Nneka123:Legalized for you, by who? American Supreme court? |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by Nobody: 8:58am On Jun 27, 2015 |
JoeCutie:by those who brought me into this world. |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by sosiqdude(m): 8:59am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Dygeasy please go check your whatsapp...I sent you something |
Re: "Chat Central and Derailer's Paradise"...Welcome! by sosiqdude(m): 9:01am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Nneka123: Hey...hope you gonna vote for me today |
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